Shessh, Granny.nycgirl said:Maybe its my old age, but no way do I go to bar or club expecting to meet anyone that wants a long term relationship (after work happy hours, are an exception). The type of man I want in a relationship wouldn't be there. Besides, I don't think you can fairly size someone up in a 5-10 min convo, dancing under flashing lights and under the influence of alcohol.
As far as "sizing" someone up that I may meet someplace else (library, coffee shop, while shopping, etc.), the most I will do is size up whether or not I want to talk to them again based on the conversation we had . . . just take it slow from there.
It takes a lot longer than 5-10 min. conversation to come to a point where you feel this person is the one you want to build a relationship with.
There was no point to that. I just wanted to call you granny.