Ladies: Question about orgasms...

[mrplunkey]

Ladies, I need some help here with a quick question:

Is it fair to say that once you've been with a guy for a while, and you have a reliable way to get a good orgasm, that you'd prefer to stick with that method for day-to-day sex?

For example... let's say you have a reliable routine -- a certain amount of oral stimulation, followed by a specific position or two. That combination always seems to do the trick. For regular sexual situations, do you prefer to stick to the tried-and-true approach or does something different sound better?

 

[kish]

I'm no lady but I'd say it's better to mix it up. Jam a thumb in her butt n surprise her every once in a while, be creative in the sack. It keeps em interested. This thread reminded me of the movie "This Boys Life" with De Niro. "it's either on your side or from the back, this is my house" lol

 

[the-short-one]

Ladies, I need some help here with a quick question:

Is it fair to say that once you've been with a guy for a while, and you have a reliable way to get a good orgasm, that you'd prefer to stick with that method for day-to-day sex?

For example... let's say you have a reliable routine -- a certain amount of oral stimulation, followed by a specific position or two. That combination always seems to do the trick. For regular sexual situations, do you prefer to stick to the tried-and-true approach or does something different sound better?

If said woman has difficulty achieving orgasm any other way, you don't have to change the WAY you do it. Change the place, the time. Catch her by surprise.

Speaking from personal experience - if you do the same thing, the same way , in the same place, at the same time - well that's just boring. It becomes mechanical after a while, and even though she might still orgasm, it's not as exciting as it used to be.

And who knows? Something new might be just what she needs. Ya never know till ya try.

 

[feisty11975]

New positions are always better because they are "new & exciting"!!! Why stick with same ole same ole? Bring some excitement into the bedroom, living room, kitchen, etc...!!!

 

[jenscats5]

If said woman has difficulty achieving orgasm any other way, you don't have to change the WAY you do it. Change the place, the time. Catch her by surprise.

Speaking from personal experience - if you do the same thing, the same way , in the same place, at the same time - well that's just boring. It becomes mechanical after a while, and even though she might still orgasm, it's not as exciting as it used to be.

And who knows? Something new might be just what she needs. Ya never know till ya try.

Exactly!!

 

[mrplunkey]

If said woman has difficulty achieving orgasm any other way, you don't have to change the WAY you do it. Change the place, the time. Catch her by surprise.

Speaking from personal experience - if you do the same thing, the same way , in the same place, at the same time - well that's just boring. It becomes mechanical after a while, and even though she might still orgasm, it's not as exciting as it used to be.

And who knows? Something new might be just what she needs. Ya never know till ya try.

Ok, then let me be more specific... I understand changing the place, the time, dinner before, candles, rose petals, champaigne, etc. etc. That's all good.

Given that those things mentioned above are varied, what about the specific sequence and/or positions? For example, if you have a limited number of options for orgasm (ie. oral only or cowgirl only), do you still enjoy investing in trying to make other positions work? Once you have a good sequence (i.e. oral, missionary, then orgasm in cowgirl) is it better to stick to it or try other things routinely?

 

[feisty11975]

Ok, then let me be more specific... I understand changing the place, the time, dinner before, candles, rose petals, champaigne, etc. etc. That's all good.

Given that those things mentioned above are varied, what about the specific sequence and/or positions? For example, if you have a limited number of options for orgasm (ie. oral only or cowgirl only), do you still enjoy investing in trying to make other positions work? Once you have a good sequence (i.e. oral, missionary, then orgasm in cowgirl) is it better to stick to it or try other things routinely?

See Post #4

 

[mrplunkey]

See Post #4

New positions, given that you can orgasm in them? Or is it worthwhile to "play" even if it's not an orgasm-producing position?

I'm trying to not get too nosey here, but if the girl can orgasm in lots of positions in any sequence, then my question isn't valid

P.S. thanks for the responses -- good stuff!

 

[the-short-one]

another thought -

if she's not freaked out by you bringing a vibrator into the mix, then bring one. women who have difficulty achieving orgasm find it easier with a vibrator. some women can't orgasm at all without them.

it would efinitely spice things up in the bedroom.

BTW - she probably won't get off with the vibrator vibrating inside her. direct clitoral stimulation with it will almost certainly do the trick.

 

[feisty11975]

New positions, given that you can orgasm in them? Or is it worthwhile to "play" even if it's not an orgasm-producing position?

I'm trying to not get too nosey here, but if the girl can orgasm in lots of positions in any sequence, then my question isn't valid

P.S. thanks for the responses -- good stuff!

ok lemme splain something to you!! You do not have to orgasm in each and every position to enjoy being with your SO!!! Just the togetherness, the closeness is exciting! There is no way that someone can orgasm in each and every position! It just cannot happen. As long as both are enjoying each other, why not explore and try new things? I consider myself very tri-sexual! I will try anything once, well sometimes twice...If I like it then I continue, if not, well then, it hurt nothing to try!!