LADIES - Please consider the following....

[Bikini Mod]

Corn - I see what you are saying and even though it does seem somewhat negative, I do tend to agree.

I think that sometimes it is hard to stay motivated once you have achieved a goal.

If your goal is to compete, once you do that, what next? What if you never want to compete again? What will get you back into the gym?

What if it is a shoot? OK, got the pics. They were great, now what?

If it is to lose/gain a few pounds while dropping a bit of bf, now what?

It is the same thing in other areas as well.

Someone wants to go back to school... how many times will they change thier major before they actually complete the degree and then where will they end up in the work world? Will they even end up in their area of study?

OK - been struggling through a divorce for like - FOREVER - when the ink is dry on the paperwork will it *magically* make everything ELSE fall into place?

Your kids are 18 and out of the house - NOW WHAT?

I think it is more important for people to achieve some sort of balance, personally, physically, emotionally, professionally....




PS - I've just succeeded in depressing the shit out of myself.

Thanx Corn.

 

[Temple]

...a goal achieved is a goal lost.....

As humans we tend to see loss as a negative thing when it is not.
Once a goal is achieved it is
lost
poof
gone
finished
crossed off the list
NEXT....


by achieving (losing) goals it makes room for us to have new goals. The loss is necessary the same way that death is necessary to make room for new life.

 

[The Shadow]

...a goal achieved is a goal lost.....

As humans we tend to see loss as a negative thing when it is not.
Once a goal is achieved it is
lost
poof
gone
finished
crossed off the list
NEXT....


by achieving (losing) goals it makes room for us to have new goals. The loss is necessary the same way that death is necessary to make room for new life.

EXACTLY!!!!




...interesting that most of y'all viewed my thought as a negative thing when its not.

 

[newgirl-chargeback]

Well.....I guess I would like to be lost sometime then!!!

My goals are ever evolving as nothing is static, therefore I am more like the rat on the wheel.

Almost exestential..."I think therefore, I am". Good food for thought.

Hey I did not think your thought was negative......rather I was ready to embrace the idea that I wanted to be lost i.e, at a goal....


This is one of those threads that either inspires OR irritates. I frankly was inspired. This discussion board is exactly what it is intended to be to share an idea, a thought or a question for the sake of sharing and looking to elicit some feedback and perhaps gain some knowledge.

"Now discuss amongst yourselves" And GROUP HUG.

 

[newgirl-chargeback]

Hmmm....

 

[Bikini Mod]

...a goal achieved is a goal lost.....

As humans we tend to see loss as a negative thing when it is not.
Once a goal is achieved it is
lost
poof
gone
finished
crossed off the list
NEXT....


by achieving (losing) goals it makes room for us to have new goals. The loss is necessary the same way that death is necessary to make room for new life.

You always seem to know what to say to make me feel better...

Now if I could only get your sorry ass on the phone, my life would be complete.

 

[Temple]

You always seem to know what to say to make me feel better...

Now if I could only get your sorry ass on the phone, my life would be complete.

well, usually if you want to get me on the phone you must first dial my #.......or wait, was that 10 minutes of unintelligeable static on my machine last week YOU?????? I'll be around for the most part...I am baking cookies

 

[SteelWeaver]

Mmmmmmm ..... coooookiiiiies .......

 

[Bikini Mod]

well, usually if you want to get me on the phone you must first dial my #.......or wait, was that 10 minutes of unintelligeable static on my machine last week YOU?????? I'll be around for the most part...I am baking cookies

*Big fat FUCKING rasberry*

I DID!

And Yes, that was probably me....

Cookies.... Mmmmmmmmmmmmmm Stealweaver took the words right outta mah mouth.

 

[The Shadow]

I don't see it that way.

...it's not for everyone.