Ladies, How do I talk to her?

[jet]

Ok, there is this woman at work who i can honestly say is the most beautiful, stunning woman i've ever seen in my life.

She works in another department so I only pass her once in a while and we have some small talk. I can tell by the way she looks at me she is somewhat interested. Also, i'm 35 and she is 25 and I'm in the middle of a divorce.

Anyway, i need a womans opinion on how I should approach her..What would you like to here from a good looking guy who you really don't know? Should I just ask her to lunch or out for a drink? Should I ask her to go for a ride on my bike...I just don't know...I usually don't give a shit BUT she is the ONE!!!

 

[The Shadow]

Women want a man who:

is confident but no arrogant
is sensitive but not a pussy
masculine without being overly agressive
....can lead then into a room by placing your hand on their lower back and gliding them
who can listen and not say a word
and who can make them laugh yet want to punch you in the face at the same time....





....anything in addition is cream.......

 

[The Shadow]

LOL

I'm either totally right or........

 

[solidspine]

Most of the women in Newport Beach are very attractive and universally are looking for someone with money.

 

[angel_eyes]

Women want a man who:

is confident but no arrogant
is sensitive but not a pussy
masculine without being overly agressive
....can lead then into a room by placing your hand on their lower back and gliding them
who can listen and not say a word
and who can make them laugh yet want to punch you in the face at the same time....





....anything in addition is cream.......

I would have to agree with your statement. Plus manners, opening doors, etc. go a long way.

 

[ANAVIXEN]

It's simple...

Just ask her out to dinner...
I think it is as simple as that! I know your past this point, but hit on lines never work - (okay if there funny it's possible)
You have already connected and you said you sensed that she's interested. I don't see what your waiting for
She's probley waiting for you to anyhow

Just be confident!

 

[Pebcak]

Re: It's simple...

Just be confident!

It can't be over stated how important confidence is. Without confidence odds are you won't speak to her, without speaking to her she's not going to get to know you. If she doesn't get to know you , you'll never data her. If you never date her, you'll never get married. If you never get married then she can never divorce you for the 25 new kid at the office, take the kids, dog, car, house, and half your pay check.

See with out confidence what do you have?

Pebcak

 

[bm2k]

Women want a man who:

is confident but no arrogant
is sensitive but not a pussy
masculine without being overly agressive
....can lead then into a room by placing your hand on their lower back and gliding them
who can listen and not say a word
and who can make them laugh yet want to punch you in the face at the same time....





....anything in addition is cream.......

I dunno about the hand on the lower back business, but I'll be modest and say that sounds a lot like yours truly Hmm... did I just blow the arrogant part?