Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below Why does it seem when I have a girlfriend I am offered 10 times more opportunities to be with other women than when I'm single? I don't get it! Is it a fascination for other women to try to steal a man from another woman, just because he's supposed to be untouchable? Can any ladies please explain this?
Ladies: Does a man become more attractive when he has a girlfriend?
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Bikini Mod
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TEXgrl said:
Never would have thought about this, but it seems to make sense.
However, on the flip side it seems that some women have "things" for MARRIED men.
I don't understand it either way. If a guy is with someone and he wants to get "with" me, the way I look at it, there is something SERIOUSLY WRONG WITH HIM.... and I don't want him. He is "damaged goods".
If a man is "broke", I've got ZERO desire to fix him. "She" can have him. LOL
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augastes_stiranko
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When I go to clubs with girls, I get far more attention from other women. When I go out with guys only, I get alot less attention. When I had a steady g/f I would always get alot more attention from other women from when I was single. Everyone that I have spoken to about this agrees that if you have a g/f, you will get alot more attention from other women. If you are single less women will pay attention to you. That is not just speculation. It's a fact...
Friscochick
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If a man is "broke", I've got ZERO desire to fix him. "She" can have him. LOL [/B][/QUOTE]
HAHAHAHA!!!!
I think that texgrl made an excellent point. Your not looking, so they find you.. when your looking.. its more obvious, and less inviting.
that's my take
If a man is "broke", I've got ZERO desire to fix him. "She" can have him. LOL [/B][/QUOTE]
HAHAHAHA!!!!
I think that texgrl made an excellent point. Your not looking, so they find you.. when your looking.. its more obvious, and less inviting.
that's my take
vinylgroover
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I don't think that's the case. I think it's a case of you noticing it more because you are in a relationship and you want to feel like you've still got it, so you notice girls looking at you or talking to you more.
I have been single up till recently and never had a problem getting opportunities when i was single, no more or less than now.
One thing that i have noticed is the amount of girls who want to fuck my girlfriend.
I have been single up till recently and never had a problem getting opportunities when i was single, no more or less than now.
One thing that i have noticed is the amount of girls who want to fuck my girlfriend.
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vinylgroover said:
Sounds like some wonderful opportunities await you! LOL
Friscochick
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vinylgroover said:
that is a good analogy!
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bikinimom said:
She'd love you
vinylgroover
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Friscochick said:
Um beijo sexy lady!
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vinylgroover said:
Mucho Besitos Mi Amor
PHATchik
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I think sometimes when I see a couple, I might think hmmm, he's got something about him that has her hooked. Maybe I am curious as to what makes him so great. I don't tread in other people's waters though. THe only time I have ever wanted another girl's guy is when I had feelings for him previously, but I never attempted to break them up. It's not my thing.
lilperronis
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i have always had this problem
gmanlax7
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This is so true, we talk about it all the time at school and girlfriends are actually used as a pick up tool. It came to the point where guys were faking girlfriends, putting up numerous pictures of the same girl , and thinking this will get them more femine feedback.
My view on this is that some girls are just like guys in that all they want is is the physical aspect of a relationship, the sex, a sort of "fuck friend." So they go to 'married men' who they know may hook up with them, but won't be able to commit, so they are getting the sex without the dates,phone calls, jealousy issues, etc. I think girls find man whores exciting, and feel like theyre missing out on the action. Its common at my school for guys to have their girlfriends come up and parade her around, bring her to lots of parties, make sure other girls see her, so when she's gone, other chics know he can snag a hottie, so theyre interested. I myself am guilty of this, and as sick and twisted as it may be , it works.
My view on this is that some girls are just like guys in that all they want is is the physical aspect of a relationship, the sex, a sort of "fuck friend." So they go to 'married men' who they know may hook up with them, but won't be able to commit, so they are getting the sex without the dates,phone calls, jealousy issues, etc. I think girls find man whores exciting, and feel like theyre missing out on the action. Its common at my school for guys to have their girlfriends come up and parade her around, bring her to lots of parties, make sure other girls see her, so when she's gone, other chics know he can snag a hottie, so theyre interested. I myself am guilty of this, and as sick and twisted as it may be , it works.
Robert Jan
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wow....
lot of new stuff to me.
lot of new stuff to me.
some people here made good points but remember, having a GF makes them wondering what so "hot" with you. This is human nature. We'll rarely go for unwanted things. No one is ready to invest money on a "no-name" painting. From the minute someone gives some importance to it, then it's a domino effect. If you wanna get laid, just hang out with the right people (nice people I should say).
This happens to me alot and it drives me fucking nuts! Last summer I was in a serious relationship, and I had ladies crawling all over me, now I'm single and the fucking river is dry!! I don't act any different now than I did when I was off the market, and it was a long distance relationship so not alot of people saw us together. It must be pheromones or something
