Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below I wonder what women think is more appealing: the big boys grunting and lifting eye popping weight, or the leaner, more modest and quiet guys who lift light with high reps. Personally, I prefer my spotter slapping me in the face as hard as he can and yelling at me before I bench. I am a little overbearing at times, but that's just me - intensity brings the immensity has always been my motto. I notice that the weaker yet leaner guys throwing around the girly weight seem to get more female attention though. Is the leaner, ripped to shreds body type more sexy to a woman as opposed to the big boys? Or is the big AND ripped look the bomb?
Ladies, big guys or lean?
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Bro, what is it with skinny pretty boys? They get all the chicks. I know I'll never be skinny, so I'll just try to get more ripped I guess. Maybe Mr. Winny can help.
Hey one more question, what about Buff Bagwell? Is that the ultimate dream man for a woman? (Funny thing, I am actually old friends with Mark, he went to my high school Sprayberry - played football).
Hey one more question, what about Buff Bagwell? Is that the ultimate dream man for a woman? (Funny thing, I am actually old friends with Mark, he went to my high school Sprayberry - played football).
paradice72
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It really depends on the personality.I like big guys.but that would not make a differance to me in who i choose to be with.Everybody has their own things to offer.
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Like??
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That's me ... I'm still up ..
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thats what I'm working towards... skinny and shredded abs... thats what they want then thats what I'll give
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Once again, I agree with ya Natasan....you gotta get the size before you lean your shit down.
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guess what? size matters
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Who cares?
Once you've torn out their larynx, it's not like they have any chance to complain.
Once you've torn out their larynx, it's not like they have any chance to complain.
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Damnit Winstol....
Your signature just depressed me...
Man what I wouldn't give for a virgin bride....
Your signature just depressed me...
Man what I wouldn't give for a virgin bride....
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im a girly man. i rock! 
Well Eric you posted this question to the ladies and from what I can see you got one reply (before now) from a lady. For what it is worth I prefer guys that are bigger with the V thing going and a pair of nice muscular legs. I don't really about them being shredded so much just don't like fat. If I see a guy like that then I always look again.
Kit Kat!
As always, such a pleasure to hear an honest woman's view point. So, you like muscular legs? Tell me this please: is it more attractive for a man to have his legs shaved to accentuate the muscles, or do they prefer the regular hairy type?
I actually have rather large legs (when compared to an average male on the street), and was considering shaving them for the giggles of it. But, I don't want to look silly, or have other dudes at the gym laugh at me. I think it looks pretty cool myself, but I won't do it if a woman finds that unattractive.
As always, such a pleasure to hear an honest woman's view point. So, you like muscular legs? Tell me this please: is it more attractive for a man to have his legs shaved to accentuate the muscles, or do they prefer the regular hairy type?
I actually have rather large legs (when compared to an average male on the street), and was considering shaving them for the giggles of it. But, I don't want to look silly, or have other dudes at the gym laugh at me. I think it looks pretty cool myself, but I won't do it if a woman finds that unattractive.
First off im 16 and so many girls want me cuz of my abs, massive strong arms, and a great upper body, i have disgusting legs but this doesn't bother them at all. I had a conversation about this 2 nights ago with 4 girls, all four of them said they want men with my body and physique like mine, they call it a football player body with the massive chest and shoulders. So thats what i believe they all want, bodies like mine and that makes me feel real good 
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dude your only 16, girls change and you will change.... trust on me on this 1. Girls do go for the abs though, same as us guys though right? its the centre of the body and hey its just damn sexy to see a nice flat stomach.
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maybe he went home and jacked off in the mirror to his football player body
All chicks will tell you want to hear to your face. It's what they say behind your back is what you have to worry about bro...one of life's lessons, you'll learn. It's cool that you're innocent and naive about it though. Don't worry, that attitude will change in time, once you get fucked over one too many times...then you'll start fuckin back.
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I like lean guys---either big or small----I just don't dig the BIG STRONG guys, that still have a pot belly
But like I always say, personality is WAY more important then looks anyday-----
But like I always say, personality is WAY more important then looks anyday-----
Since it's becoming increasingly obvious that superior strength and male dominance is not particularly attractive to our female species (much unlike the animal kingdom), I guess it's time to reconsider motives. I like lifting heavy and getting stronger, but quite honestly I'm unsure why.
I formerly believed my motives were based on enhancing my attractiveness to a woman who should naturally be attracted to dominant strength. But who are we kidding here, the chicks just want the girly pretty boys who couldn't bench their way out of a paper bag.
Jen, I definitely hear you on the pot belly turn off, same goes for women too obviously.
I formerly believed my motives were based on enhancing my attractiveness to a woman who should naturally be attracted to dominant strength. But who are we kidding here, the chicks just want the girly pretty boys who couldn't bench their way out of a paper bag.
Jen, I definitely hear you on the pot belly turn off, same goes for women too obviously.
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I can't decide...
Who gives a shit?
I mean, OK we all want women to find us attractive, but shouldn't you mainly train for yourself? You bust your ass for hours each week in the gym, eat right, etc. and you're doing all this so some chick will think you look good? Yes, I agree that's a friggin' nice bonus, as well as some earned respect, but put your own priorities first!
I train for myself first, the rest are just bonuses.
I mean, OK we all want women to find us attractive, but shouldn't you mainly train for yourself? You bust your ass for hours each week in the gym, eat right, etc. and you're doing all this so some chick will think you look good? Yes, I agree that's a friggin' nice bonus, as well as some earned respect, but put your own priorities first!
I train for myself first, the rest are just bonuses.
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It's pretty even excluding the girly boys, so everyone is a winner that is here on this board. There is someone for everybody. Now, you can go to Springer and find someone for the girly boys.
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WizKid25 said:First off im 16 and so many girls want me cuz of my abs, massive strong arms, and a great upper body, i have disgusting legs but this doesn't bother them at all. I had a conversation about this 2 nights ago with 4 girls, all four of them said they want men with my body and physique like mine, they call it a football player body with the massive chest and shoulders. So thats what i believe they all want, bodies like mine and that makes me feel real good
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WizKid25 said:First off im 16 and so many girls want me cuz of my abs, massive strong arms, and a great upper body, i have disgusting legs but this doesn't bother them at all. I had a conversation about this 2 nights ago with 4 girls, all four of them said they want men with my body and physique like mine, they call it a football player body with the massive chest and shoulders. So thats what i believe they all want, bodies like mine and that makes me feel real good
I have a really hard time seeing you as "huge" or "massive" anything. You are 16!!!!! I don't care what you say, you are nowhere near "huge" or "massive" yet, perhaps in a few years.
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I think that the chicks mostly prefer lean guys,not the skinny ones..
However I have noticed that the majority of skinny guys has bigger success but I haven't ever noticed a chick that is unimpressed in the view of a muscular and lean body.. So, the best combination would be a muscular,lean body, but not very muscular..
However I have noticed that the majority of skinny guys has bigger success but I haven't ever noticed a chick that is unimpressed in the view of a muscular and lean body.. So, the best combination would be a muscular,lean body, but not very muscular..
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LOL! Hell no, he's 16, they got down, played spin-the-bottle for a little while, then they hit the Nintendo really hard, and closed off the night by him getting to 2nd base with the ugly chick with braces named Wonda! Woohoo!!!! I popped my cherry!!!
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paradice72 said:
I agree...it's all about the personality. But my peeve is men who only work their upper body with no regard for legs, glutes, hammys etc. Huge turn off. You can have an eight pack....but if your legs are not packin...you ain't mackin.....
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They seem to go for the ones with any body type
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I like big and strong guys, no need to be very lean.
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I don't mind a guy with a winter blanket I just hate the "Imaginary Lat Syndrome Cause I Am Just Swollen Like A Tick" Look. I luv a guy who is relatively big but still well proportioned - no upper body superheroes! Hate that shit!
Now a big guy who is ripped.... and a sweetheart to boot?... smart and a sense of humor?
I'm in heaven!
Now a big guy who is ripped.... and a sweetheart to boot?... smart and a sense of humor?
I'm in heaven!
bikinimom said:I don't mind a guy with a winter blanket I just hate the "Imaginary Lat Syndrome Cause I Am Just Swollen Like A Tick" Look. I luv a guy who is relatively big but still well proportioned - no upper body superheroes! Hate that shit!
Now a big guy who is ripped.... and a sweetheart to boot?... smart and a sense of humor?
I'm in heaven!
So....where do I fit into YOUR equation?
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LOL...now who on earth says you need to fit into her equation???
You are MY big, strong guy...and no one elses!!!
I even like my guys belly...although his is the smallest belly on a BIG strongman that I have yet to see.
Yeah...I am "ripped" for a strongman..lol.
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b fold the truth said:
It's simple:
Bfold + Nightfly + bikinimom =
a WHOLLLLLLLLLLLLOTTA luvin'!
tee-hee
I may be in waaaayyyy over my head. I'd try it...once though...maybe...after much deliberation...and a few hugs...and some dirty talk.
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Good night you two!
Roll over ladies...I need my sleeping room...and hands to yourself...
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lilchit said:
male dominance IS attractive. i want the biggest guy. i want the strongest guy.
im even more baffled than you are! those small and lean guys looked pretty good when i was 14, but cmon! puberty is an amazing thing.
I like the way that you think
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Then dominant me, baby!!!
hehehehe...
I thought that we both understood that I am all talk...?
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I voted for "shredded." But can't someone be "shredded" and lift heavy weights?
If we're talking about the 'dream man,' I like 'em like 'em ranging from the more buff underwear models to the smaller "pretty boys" like Brad Pitt, Keanu Reeves and the Abercrombie fellows.
Here's what I'm talking about. (I'm bracing myself for the rotten tomatoes!!!) Most male models these days seem to have 6-packs, but it's not all about the abs for me. I like the total package.
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If we're talking about 'real life,' then I'd say some level of muscle tone is ideal, but no bony guys and no grossly overweight guys. Just about anything in between is negotiable -- but be sure to dress well for your body type - if you have a flat butt, don't wear tight jeans! The last man I was with, I would have never picked him out if I saw him at the beach. He had skinny legs, an ass that was BEYOND flat, and no muscle tone. On our first date, he told me that his friend told him that he was "shaped like a suitcase"! But he had naturally broad shoulders and because he played tennis, he had strong shoulders, arms and hands. He was a great dresser - wore clothes that really accented his bod. A good-looking, brilliant, funny guy, a great cook and the best lover I ever had...
If we're talking about the 'dream man,' I like 'em like 'em ranging from the more buff underwear models to the smaller "pretty boys" like Brad Pitt, Keanu Reeves and the Abercrombie fellows.
Here's what I'm talking about. (I'm bracing myself for the rotten tomatoes!!!) Most male models these days seem to have 6-packs, but it's not all about the abs for me. I like the total package.
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If we're talking about 'real life,' then I'd say some level of muscle tone is ideal, but no bony guys and no grossly overweight guys. Just about anything in between is negotiable -- but be sure to dress well for your body type - if you have a flat butt, don't wear tight jeans! The last man I was with, I would have never picked him out if I saw him at the beach. He had skinny legs, an ass that was BEYOND flat, and no muscle tone. On our first date, he told me that his friend told him that he was "shaped like a suitcase"! But he had naturally broad shoulders and because he played tennis, he had strong shoulders, arms and hands. He was a great dresser - wore clothes that really accented his bod. A good-looking, brilliant, funny guy, a great cook and the best lover I ever had...
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Bump for the women who love big strong guys...
I hope I never look like those guys in your links "M"...guess my goals are just different...lol
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I hope I never look like those guys in your links "M"...guess my goals are just different...lol
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Yikes! I hope I never look like the guys in those links either, wait I used to! That was about 2 years ago... C3 <----- happy to be getting strong and big
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You ask a hard question. I remember seeing a documentary on this stuff. What men and women find attractive in each other is dictated by genetics. If a man is athletic in build (narrow waist and broad shouldered), that's what most women desire. I suppose excess to either extreme doesn't fit the mold and so women don't care for them as much.
I'm out to be a freak. However, my current goal of 220 with < 5% body fat might never be obtainable without more time and work than I'm able to give. I have fast-twitch muscle, so I get lean and shreadded more than I put on mass. My G/F thinks I'm pretty huge now and doesn't understand why I'd want to be some freak at 250+.
This indicates to me that the average woman wants to walk into a room with a good looking guy whose built enough that he can't help but draw attention (he's her trophy) but not so big that he's out to draw attention for his own ego (remember, she want's to come first).
So, super freaks don't get the vote, bean poles don't get the vote, but average lean guys with some definition turn the magic switch. Still comes down to genetically-programmed attraction.
I'm out to be a freak. However, my current goal of 220 with < 5% body fat might never be obtainable without more time and work than I'm able to give. I have fast-twitch muscle, so I get lean and shreadded more than I put on mass. My G/F thinks I'm pretty huge now and doesn't understand why I'd want to be some freak at 250+.
This indicates to me that the average woman wants to walk into a room with a good looking guy whose built enough that he can't help but draw attention (he's her trophy) but not so big that he's out to draw attention for his own ego (remember, she want's to come first).
So, super freaks don't get the vote, bean poles don't get the vote, but average lean guys with some definition turn the magic switch. Still comes down to genetically-programmed attraction.
Baby Gorilla: WoW!!!! Very good observation..
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Eric123-
I agree with Kitkat that a "V-shape" is what catches a girls eye. Nothing is more attractive than a narrow waist, nice stomach and broad shoulders.
Overall though - you have to be well proportioned.
I disagree with men who think that "upper body" is all where it's at. There is nothing funnier than seeing a defined chest, broad shoulders, and a nice flat stomach on a guy - then when you see him in the swimming pool or with shorts on he has these little bird legs. He's missing a key part to BODY building.
I agree with Kitkat that a "V-shape" is what catches a girls eye. Nothing is more attractive than a narrow waist, nice stomach and broad shoulders.
Overall though - you have to be well proportioned.
I disagree with men who think that "upper body" is all where it's at. There is nothing funnier than seeing a defined chest, broad shoulders, and a nice flat stomach on a guy - then when you see him in the swimming pool or with shorts on he has these little bird legs. He's missing a key part to BODY building.
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time to cut her loose, fella.jk. im sure shell learn to love 250 pounders.
just out of curiosity..........when you guys get really huge, can you still be satisfied with skinny little average sized girls? or would you want a hoss of a woman who could spot for ya?
I currently weigh 285 and would like to weigh a lean 300-310 in the next 2 years. Night Fly likes me now and I hope that she would like me better by then. 21" arms, 58" chest, 33" quads, 19" calves, 22" neck, 41-43" waist...I hope she will like that.
Night Fly and I work great together. She isn't a small woman. She is built a lot like me...strong and in shape. I don't like skinny women...I like women with muscle. I also like women who are strong and not afraid to get a bit dirty. Abs on a woman? Great if they have them...but if they have them then their goals and mine are probably not the same.
The day when Night Fly desires a flat stomach, broad shoulders, ripped abs, shaped chest, and a great quad sweep...will probably be the day that we part. I doubt that will happen though. I wanna be a freaking house...a rhino...a bull...a freakin animal.
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b fold the truth said:
HEheheheheheee
Keep eatin' that hamburger helper son!
Hehehehehehhehehee
The two of you are juth too much! Geeze, I could just imagine your offspring. I would feel like a Lilliputian in comparison. What am I talking about?....
I AM A LILLIPUTIAN IN COMPARISON..... NOW!!!
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LILLIPUTIAN? Is that like being from Alabama?
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Hehehehhehehee silly, you know full well what I am talking about!
bikinimom said:
Ok...I am soooo confused. I am part Tennessean...is that similar?
Sometimes I wish I were leaner...but then again I really don't. I want to be ripped and feel better about taking my shirt off in public...but as long as I am loved for who I am by myself and by another great woman...what does it matter?
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YOU DORK!
Have you not read or heard the story of Gulliver's Travels? Lilliput was the land of the TINY PEOPLE - hence, the Lilliputians!
HEhehehehehehhehehehehehheheheee
I was saying that I feel MINIATURE compared to you and Nightfly - LOL!!!
Have you not read or heard the story of Gulliver's Travels? Lilliput was the land of the TINY PEOPLE - hence, the Lilliputians!
HEhehehehehehhehehehehehheheheee
I was saying that I feel MINIATURE compared to you and Nightfly - LOL!!!
You haven't seen me naked...you wouldn't feel so small then..lol
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I am 6'3 280 12%BF (ab outline, nice vascularity, 36 inch waist) and I LOVE tiny women. like 5'7 110 24 inch waist etc.
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Actually I prefer size 0 or 1.
I can't believe this thread is still around (been about 9 months or longer). Just for the record, I am a big guy that lifts heavy. I'm not cut yet, but working on it assiduously. I am 5'10", 275 lbs, about 18% BF, and I DON'T like big girls at all. Acutally I prefer a rock hard posterior, nicely shaped abs/arms/thighs/calves... Women who are in their thirties are more attractive than women in their twenties (and I'm 29). There is always the exception to the rule though, and Jenn BFL would be one. Acutally, Bikinimom is one of the hottest chicks on Elite (unless someone sends me pics proving otherwise).
I think that most girls would rather date Flex wheeler, Shawn ray, Lee Labrada, Frank Zane or even the skinny guy next door than than Paul Dillet or Jean-Pauil Fux...
Draw your own conclusion.....
Offcoaurse tastes differ and on this board you may find a slightly increased population of big muscle fetish females but still....
Draw your own conclusion.....
Offcoaurse tastes differ and on this board you may find a slightly increased population of big muscle fetish females but still....
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TheCaptain said:
At FIVE foot SEVEN? Honestly? You're either pulling my leg or you don't know women's sizes. Or you date women with eating disorders or women who lie about their clothing sizes. My friend's wife is a size 2 and she's less than 5'2".
Size 0 is a fairly recent size (in terms of availability) meant to allow pre-teens to shop at Gap, Limited, and the like. Go to the Gap, hold up a pair of size 0 jeans. It's a child's size. It's actually the same waist size as a girl's (as in little children) size 8/medium. Girls' sizes run to 16, so that is SMALL.
I can't imagine that many non-petite full-grown healthy women can fit into that size. I have a very thin friend who is 5'4" (floats between 105-110 lbs.) and she wears as low as 1/2 and as high as 4. She would be at death's door in a 0.
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jennifer said:
I totally agree....except I do prefer B I G
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There was this chick at my work who was a size 0, grossly skinny, naturally, I can't see how that would be attractive.
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Goin_Big said:
and....big dick ?
i think it all depends on the maker of the jeans. I am about 5' 3" and i am a size 1 in jeans.i own 2 pairs that are size 1 and i can pull them down while wearing them (obviously because they are too big).which would mean i could get a size 0 in that brand......All jean makers are different. i range any where depending on the maker from a 0 to a 3.makedah said:
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