Ladies and Gentlemen STRAP-ONs...

[Werd]

Please post up your personal feelings, experiences.

I had developed this fantasy a few years ago - am in my late 30's. I admit that at first it was a sort of anger-filled thing. The thought of pounding some dude in the ass with his face in the pillow saying, "Kind of hard to talk with your face in the pillow, now isn't it, bitch?!" LOL... I guess it was sort of back-lash for how I felt neglected and poorly treated in a failed relationship. Believe it or not married men - A LOT of women feel this way in a marriage.

Anyways, I dont have those feelings AT ALL anymore but since I began to read here on the BTS board about digital stimulation and even that some men have had this fantasy I have become quite curious and it is now about me giving my partner some freaky ass experience - total experimentation (he is very sexually experienced but this is something that he would have NEVER allowed before) and trying to imagine what it would "feel like" to be the man. I am THRILLED to be a woman Just thinking about venturing into unchartered waters with someone I love.

I TOTALLY trust my man - a feeling that I have not had since I was married to my ex; a feeling that I thought I would never EVER be able to allow myself to feel again. So all of this "sex stuff" is really very tittilating again for us both.

Last night my guy said that he feels he is ready for me to finger his ass....



Please share your thoughts on this particular type of fantasy.

I wanna know your feelings ladies and gents. Yes, I am a dirty dirty gurl.

 

[TRUEsoldier]

just say "NO"

atleast your taking it slow, with the fingers and all!!

 

[Pamela]

Werd
How about posting that link?

 

[Colonel Ingus]

I envy you Werd, you have found your other half. With all of those things that you have been trying to convince yourself were not going to happen for you now being real possibilities, and the future holding even more adventures, things are looking pretty good for you. That's great!

 

[Dial_tone]

I absolutely go into a trance when she fingers my ass and sucks my cock at the same time. I got zero problem with it and I ask for it.....a definite must-try.



(punk ass homophobes need not apply)

 

[PBR]

thats a huge trust issue with me....i would have to be deep into that womans heart/mind before even phathoming that experience....i take it very seriously when anal sex comes up, and will not go there unless i want that bond with that girl....something about this sex act, that is heavier than anything else....maybe its just me....

 

[bluepeter]

A lady wants to tongue my ass? Maybe. She wants to penetrate my ass? No.

 

[BigBadBoss]

I agree with DT playing with my ass and sucking me at the same time is the numero uno way to get me to blow in under 60 seconds. As far as a dildo, I dont think so.........

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

post up after you do it...

 

[Werd]

All this talk of sex REALLY got me to put on my durty gurl thinking cap. I got SUCH a feaky idea.... hehehehehehee I'll post it on another thread.

 

[mbrooke5]

Last night my guy said that he feels he is ready for me to finger his ass....



Please share your thoughts on this particular type of fantasy.

I wanna know your feelings ladies and gents. Yes, I am a dirty dirty gurl.

My dude luv's fingers, tonges, and strap-on's...and it's so exciting for me too...have you taken a look at the new stap-on's? they are pretty hi-tech and pleasurable for the person doing the action...personally i like the power feeling...i am probably like 5'1, 120 lbs...and my dude is 5'10, 210...and it's visually stimulating. The first time I stuck my finger up his ass...he came like 2 feet from his thing...and he was brave enough to admit that he liked it.

 

[coverguy]

i'm not a big fan of the penetration. the tongue was cool, but the penetration (i.e. finger) was a little awkward. Shot like a fucking cannon, but still awkward.

i would never, ever let someone use a strap-on on me, no matter how much i loved them. your man sure must love you Werd!

 

[Werd]

My dude luv's fingers, tonges, and strap-on's...and it's so exciting for me too...have you taken a look at the new stap-on's? they are pretty hi-tech and pleasurable for the person doing the action...personally i like the power feeling...i am probably like 5'1, 120 lbs...and my dude is 5'10, 210...and it's visually stimulating. The first time I stuck my finger up his ass...he came like 2 feet from his thing...and he was brave enough to admit that he liked it.

Could you post any links to such toys? I am also very small in comparison to my guy. I am like 5'4", 124# and my guy is 6'3" I am thinking he must be a solid 230#.

Coverguy, yea he loves me crazy...

 

[adam wj]

if a chick wanted to try sticking a dil in my ass she better be ready to get shit on

even a finger in there brings on that gotta rush and drop a bomb feeling for me

tongue is good stuff tho

 

[wetback]

Ok here it goes. This is only my second posting as the Mrs. I LOVE fingering my mans ass. And I'll be honest he loves it. Do you ladies know that a mans G-spot is in his rectum ??? It is on or near the prostate. Lay him on his back slide your finger in and curl your finger a bit. Like as to say come here. Do that while giving him head and I GARENTEE he'll blow like he never has before. Just get ready for a mouth full.

As far as the strap on again being honest I absolutely love bending him over and pounding him. And he doesn't complain bit. After all he likes to do it to me, why can't we do it to them ????? If it feels good for us don't you think it feels good for them ?????

Ok for a second post that was a bit revealing

Mrs.

 

[Robert Jan]

I have such a disgust of my own ass that I could not bear the one I love/want to fuck putting fingers/tongue or just any kind of attention near it. It would make me incredibly self conscious. If I had a tanned, 6% bf, smooth hairless round firm ass I'd like it licked every day.

but i dont.

 

[dirty~d~]

My ex-fiance was just like that. Very macho, but also wanted to experience some "new ideas" with me. At first it started out as "use a finger" while giving him a blow job (he blew hard several times) but then it turned into "where's your toy?" he'd bought me a VERY AWESOME acrylic dildo that hit my spots and his. Damn, I love that thing!!

If he's asking, try it out. You never know where it could go.

 

[mbrooke5]

Could you post any links to such toys? I am also very small in comparison to my guy. I am like 5'4", 124# and my guy is 6'3" I am thinking he must be a solid 230#.

Coverguy, yea he loves me crazy...

Sure Girl...just got to find those site...but I'll send you the links

 

[Werd]

I was sitting on his face the other day and he put his finger up my ass and for the first time EVER it felt good right from the start. I can not begin to describe how intensely I rode his face!!! I mean I am a screamer, but HOLY FLURGING SHNIT - I grabbed the pillow and pulled his head into my coochie and just fucking rocked and screamed like someone was murdering me!!!

IT FELT THAT FUCKING GOOD.

I can't wait until we can do the whole anal thing! He gets VERY aroused by the site of my ass....

He asked me to put a finger in his ass while I was blowing him, but I was not successful. I felt intimidated again because though he also enjoys the experimentation we are going through he had never allowed a woman to do this for him (He has been with so many women the number is really obscene LOL) and I am afraid that I will do it wrong and hurt him. But after feeling what I felt the other day and reading all the posts from the guys who REALLY REALLY get off on it, I will keep trying and just relax about it.

I can't WAIT to really Really REALLY rock his wurld!

 

[wetback]

I was sitting on his face the other day and he put his finger up my ass and for the first time EVER it felt good right from the start. I can not begin to describe how intensely I rode his face!!! I mean I am a screamer, but HOLY FLURGING SHNIT - I grabbed the pillow and pulled his head into my coochie and just fucking rocked and screamed like someone was murdering me!!!

IT FELT THAT FUCKING GOOD.

I can't wait until we can do the whole anal thing! He gets VERY aroused by the site of my ass....

He asked me to put a finger in his ass while I was blowing him, but I was not successful. I felt intimidated again because though he also enjoys the experimentation we are going through he had never allowed a woman to do this for him (He has been with so many women the number is really obscene LOL) and I am afraid that I will do it wrong and hurt him. But after feeling what I felt the other day and reading all the posts from the guys who REALLY REALLY get off on it, I will keep trying and just relax about it.

I can't WAIT to really Really REALLY rock his wurld!

Just make sure your nails are SSMMOOOOOOOOTH. Otherwise you'll rip him up. Anal is the great unknown. People do not realize how much pleasure is down there.

Ms.

 

[Werd]

Just make sure your nails are SSMMOOOOOOOOTH. Otherwise you'll rip him up. Anal is the great unknown. People do not realize how much pleasure is down there.

Ms.

ABSOLUTELY!

Thoguh I have acrylics, I always keep my nails cut short, VERY VERY SOFT SQUARE... no sharp edges EVER!

 

[wetback]

ABSOLUTELY!

Thoguh I have acrylics, I always keep my nails cut short, VERY VERY SOFT SQUARE... no sharp edges EVER!

Keep them that way...........gotta love that booty

 

[TC2]

Maybe I'm old fashioned but nothing's penetrating me.

 

[Puddles]

Lube your finger next time, that'll help it slide in easilly. If you find your nails bother him, use a "finger cot." They're sold by the band-aids, it looks like a tiny condom. LOL

Work your way up to the strap-on. Finger first a few times, then go with a toy (something made for the g-spot is good), then eventually a small strap-on. They make strap-ons that don't look like a penis, some with a vibrator inside them. Enjoy exploring your new horizons!

 

[Gymgurl]

Puddles is the on to ask for advice on the good stuff!

 

[planotexas47]

penatration is good. the kinkier the better. just dont eat beans the day before.