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TAURUS1977

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MY GIRLFRIEND OF 3 YEARS JUST BROKE UP WITH ME A COUPLE OF DAYS AGO AND I AM FEELING DOWN. I TALKED WITH HER LAST NIGHT AND I EVEN STAYED ALL NIGHT AT HER PLACE. SHE SAY'S SHE WANTS TO GO OUT WITH ANOTHER GUY AND SHE WANTS ME TO LEAVE HER ALONE. I LOVE HER SO MUCH. ANY ADVICE ON GETTING HER BACK.

THANKS
 
Much sympathy, bro. Best thing to do is take her word for it and leave her alone. She wants to go out with someone else. She obviously doesn't feel about you the way you feel about her. The best thing to do is let her go....Then trash the whore's car and kick the shit out of the fucking guy.
Sorry about the news, bro. Good luck.
 
Sorry to hear that, but from what you've said, I think she has made up her mind. Maybe after being with this new guy for a while, she'll want you back. Only time will tell..


You can charter a private plane and take her to some island where the plane mysteriously crashes leaving the two of you stranded there for the next 3 years. Oh what will you do alone in an island for that long....
 
Seriously it may just not be right and I say this completely with honesty "be a friend". Let it go but stay in touch if you can be a friend sometimes this passes and you guess will end up together because you are friends.

Do not be a pussy and do not do anything she asks. Stand straight smile and be a man. I am serious on this seen enough to know these 2 thoughts will help you....

Oh yeah and get to the gym more often! It is great for working off feelings....
 
Sucks dude, but you gotta move on....

What's the saying... If you love something, chain it to a wall, if it stays, it's yours, if it escapes, it never was.

Something like that.

Hang in there bro, there's pleanty of fish in the sea.
 
Best way to get over a woman is to get under one.

Seriously bro, there are millions of hot chicks out there that need some dick, go help them out. Plus the best way to get back at a girl is to have her see you out on the town having a good time with a broad on each arm. Why would you want her back when she does not want you?

Let the new guy deal with her bullshit for awhile, by the time they get sick of each other you will be with some new hardbody. Too late bitch!
 
well i know what your going through, about two weeks ago my fiance moved out.we were together 5 years and lived to gether for two.i was unsure and misarable at first even though the breakup was mutual but now im happy.i actually started dating a girl ive been froends with for awhile and im hapier now than before.so just move on with your life and you i will feel better
 
Bro, I'm sorry to hear that. There really isnt anything you can do, what I advice you to do, is to get to know other females, make friends, go out, and your going to be okay trust me. What you have experienced happens to almost every guy/gal out there, the people we love at times dont appreciate that feeling. If she does not care about your love for her, dont waste it with her and find another woman.
 
if she wants to go out with someone else..i think its time to call it quits...obviously she's not in love anymore, and after 3 years, ususlaly people want to stay in the relationship bedcasue they are used to it. But maybe you yourself aren't in love with her anymore, you just don't want to be alone, or your so used to being with her it hurts to sudddenly not be with her..i dont know bro, but if she wants to go out with another guy, try to accept it and move on..
 
I am very sorry to hear that bro! I am going through some major depression over this one girl (my ex) Who I love so much and would do anything for but I guess I will have to see what happens. 3 years is a while I think she will realize what a mistake she is making by going for that other guy. If you need to talk about shit then hit me up with an e-mail or PM anytime as we are both going through the same thing

M18
 
Yeah, that sucks. Working out will help you feel better... for me, kicking the guy she wants to "see" face in so he looks about as attractive as a pot-hole... that makes me feel like gold. Of course, it will ruin all chances of getting her back.

Leave her alone bro... that works the best. For some reason women don't like guys who pamper them and kiss their ass... you can talk to her, but don't tell her you think about her... let her see this toolshed, once she figures it out, she'll come back and you'll have all the hand.

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Do a good cycle. Then, if possible, let her see you after you have gained some quality muscle. She will be drooling over you man.

You have a couple of options here dude. One is that you can fuck anything in sight. The other is to make some new female friends and start hanging out with them. In time, you might like one of them, or get introduced to one of their friends, and then you can get the old ball rolling with someone new, in due time. Once it happens, you will look back and see that it may have been for the best.

I am kind of going through the same thing myself right now bro'. You aren't the only one. 99% of all bitches are lying hoes and are not to be trusted. Many make rash decisions on the spur of the moment based on EMOTION, not rational thought like males. Translation: They usually don't have a brain. Later on, they sometimes see that they made a mistake when reality sets in. Your time may come. But for right now, you have the options that I have already mentioned above. I wish you the best...
 
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My girl just dumped me less than 2 hours ago. I wish there was another guy, or something that I could blame it on, but in the end it just comes back to the same old truth, I just wasn't good enough for her, or any other girl for that matter. My head's pretty fucked up right now, but fuck it, I'll get past it someway. When I called up this gir that I've known for awhile, a friend, and we're going to go out this weekend. It doesn't make the hurt go away, but I figure that it might help me out a little. She's really good to talk to when you feel like ending it all. She can always brighten up the way I see things.
 
I wouldn't actively try to get your girl back. If you hook up with another girl, that could make your ex jealous. If you constantly are around her and attempting to get the relationship going again it will only make things worse. Believe me, I know it is easier said than done, especially since you are so use to spending time with her. Take care of yourself buddy. Only time will make things better.
cbeaks
 
It's a cliche but time will heal all wounds. Get into the gym and train your butt off, make this work for you.

Good luck.
 
MP5 said:
Best way to get over a woman is to get under one.

Seriously bro, there are millions of hot chicks out there that need some dick, go help them out. Plus the best way to get back at a girl is to have her see you out on the town having a good time with a broad on each arm. Why would you want her back when she does not want you?

Let the new guy deal with her bullshit for awhile, by the time they get sick of each other you will be with some new hardbody. Too late bitch!
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I don't agree with you much - but WORD UP. This is so true. Move on, there are PLENTY of ho's around.
 
Bro,

These bitches want us guys to start chasing after them. I know its hard BUT, just let her go and act like you have 20 other bitches on your balls and that you dont care. I would give it a month before she realizes that she is going to lose you and come crawling back. If she doesnt then i guess the other dude must have a bigger cock than you. (just kidding)
 
I was pretty fucked up after my last breakup and to tell you the truth I used it as fuel in the gym. It was awesome, i was so pissed that I tore the weight room up and made great gains.
 
call or email your source order a 8 week supply of test and run it at 1 gram a week,get some a-bombs to jump start it,and anti e's as you need them,and grow and get better coochie
 
brother ,it may happen,dont sit around and wait for her,move on man,or just concentrate on training and do the cycle i suggested
 
I broke up with my Girlfriend of a year three days ago. I can tell this is for good and yes it hurts. Fortunately I live in a college town. So I went downtown got a job as a bouncer at the most popular club in the area. I also sat down and figured out how much money I would save by not seeing her (many new and exciting cycles). I flirted today with all the girls that I have always wanted to talk to in the gym but couldn't because I had a girlfriend. It was great. One girl told me she thought I was cute but mean because I never talked to anyone. I told her that was about to change and got her number. Don't get me wrong I still go home and think about her. It will be that way for a while. The key is not to go groveling back. Let her be the one that sees you out having a good time. Let her be the one that misses you. I know it is hard and I wish you the best.
 
Hey dude i have gone through the same thing.....had a girlfriend for three years. Then i went to school out of prov. Later I find out the bitch was cheating on me, and lying to me. I have never been hurt so bad in my life. Was out of things for a little while.........really got messed up.......and almost tried doing the last resort.....but luckly I was surrounded by some good friends that got me some help........This was my first experience with some anti-D's. This was when i totally got hard core into body building. What you have to remember is that things will get better. It's better that you find out now that her feelings are not true and not when you have kids or something.
But i did make myself feel better.....the first time i saw the dude she cheated with me on.......I kicked the living Sh*t out of him.
Hope things work out for you.....LAter..........DR
 
sorry to hear that bro...i know this will basically be impossible..but ignore her..if you ignore her she'll be all over you like fat women at a free buffet..oh and definately don't beat the crap out of the other guy until your sure there's no chance for you to get back together with her..then when your sure..kill him:D
 
Man... this is so weird I am going through the same shit. About a month ago my girl said she needed a break.. I said there is no such thing. You eithre want to go out or we aren't going out. So she said " well then we are not". I called and called it never got any where. I would ask to see her she would but it was wierd. She was very distant. I asked her back and she said not now. I ahve tried every thing. She says I am trying to hard for something that will not work now. I have not called in a week!!!!!! what should I do????
 
You have to realize that she is not the same person you fell in love with. Would the person you were inlove with told you she didn't want you and wanted to see someone else? NO! Its tough man, but you gotta move on. Life is too short to waste on some trim.
 
professor...had the same deal with an old girlfriend. i moved on, well, not completely. i still think about her a lot, i kept pics of us together, and even though she treated me pretty shitty afterwards, i'd still like to see her again. Just take that chunk of your heart that she occupies, cut it out, and throw it out the window.
 
a lot of break-ups going down lately. sounds like we dumpees could all use a good cry. don't laugh, i'm serious. i cried all the way home when my girl dumped me this afternoon. sure people were looking when i stopped at red lights, but fuck em. i'll get out of my toyota and whip thier fucking asses. when i'm angry from being hurt, i think about doing something bad, but you can't be angry when you're crying. once i get me a good cry going, the rage, self-hate, suicidal thoughts, and all that shit just come right out of me. after my little crying spell, i called up a friend of mine who just happens to be an incredibly hot female, talked with her about my problems, and ended up getting a weekend date with her. sure, it still hurts to think about my girl, but knowing that i have something to live for helps out a lot.
 
i like your theory!!!!!!1 I reall do becaus eif i find out she is dating someone he is not dead. I would never kill anyone but i will deffinatley take all the juice and roids and musscle from 4 years and fuck his face all up!!!!!!!!1





Arnold Schwarzenegger said:
sorry to hear that bro...i know this will basically be impossible..but ignore her..if you ignore her she'll be all over you like fat women at a free buffet..oh and definately don't beat the crap out of the other guy until your sure there's no chance for you to get back together with her..then when your sure..kill him:D
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man i would... i just can't call mine because i have called the last 4 times and she never calls me so i am waiting for her to call me. but it will not happen .... 3.5 years and she just walked away






TAURUS1977 said:
I WAS SUPPOST TO CALL MY EX TONIGHT AND GET THE REST OF MY SHIT. SHOULD I CALL HER OR WAIT?
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PROFESSOR YOU ARE IN THE SAME SITUATION I AM. I WAS WITH MY EX FOR 3 YEARS. AND SHE UP AND LEFT ME FOR ANOTHER GUY. THE THING THAT HURTS THE MOST IS I HAVE A SON FROM A PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIP AND MY SON AND EX WERE REALLY CLOSE. HE CRIED HIS EYES OUT WHEN HE FOUND OUT ABOUT THE BREAKUP. HE IS ONLY 5 AND HE HAS KNOWN HER SINCE HE WAS 2.
 
TAURUS1977 said:
PROFESSOR YOU ARE IN THE SAME SITUATION I AM. I WAS WITH MY EX FOR 3 YEARS. AND SHE UP AND LEFT ME FOR ANOTHER GUY. THE THING THAT HURTS THE MOST IS I HAVE A SON FROM A PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIP AND MY SON AND EX WERE REALLY CLOSE. HE CRIED HIS EYES OUT WHEN HE FOUND OUT ABOUT THE BREAKUP. HE IS ONLY 5 AND HE HAS KNOWN HER SINCE HE WAS 2.
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Damm bro...That is tough :( I pray that you to will get back together and you all find happyness.

M18
 
Hey Bro!

From a girl's point of view: She needs a change, somewhere in her heart she still loves you but it's not enough to keep the two you together while being Happy at the same time.

Move on, sure it's difficult, but it could be the necessary change you need to advance you life in other aspects of your life.

Take some time for yourself, then get the playa mode going, find a girl and then sweep her off her feet.

You'll feel better soon, love hurts....but if you can't take risks, then you can't live....Live life to the fullest!!
 
Work hard in the gym and be nice to the women. Don't call her until you absolutely have to. Let her eat silence. If she comes back some day, OK. If not, fate just wanted to match you up with someone better.
 
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Sounds like she made the decision for both of you.
Move on and forget her. She didn't leave you because
you weren't getting along, she said she wants another guy.
She sounds like the type that would split on you if you were
ever jammed up anyway. Focus on your training and use that
same focus to put her behind you.
 
I finally realized that a girl that doesn't want me isn't worth my time or effort. If for no other reason, it shows a serious lack of taste on her part!

We tend to suddenly want the thing that is removed. Its a natural response, because rejection of any kind has a negative effect on our self esteem. The trick here is to not allow your perception of yourself to morph into that of a rejected loser. Do not wrap your self image up in what a woman thinks of you. What matters here is what you think of yourself. Hey, you guys did time together, had fun, you loved each other, she wants to move on...let her. Hard, but best. In retrospect she will respect you for leaving her alone. You can't always get a woman back, but getting your dignity back is even harder, so DON"T GIVE HER YOUR DIGNITY. Don't beg. NEVER BEG. You're a man here, right? Children beg. Kids whine. Men cope with pain and walk with dignity. The pain will pass, but the memory of how you conduct yourself will stay in her head and yours. Dedicate yourself to something other than getting the attention of a woman. Women's attentions waver. DO NOT put stock in a woman's affection. Just enjoy it while it lasts. Put stock in YOURSELF, because that is what you can control.

LIFT LIKE A MOTHERFUCKER AND MOVE ON. THERE'S MORE WHERE SHE CAME FROM, BRO.
 
Sorry to hear bro, but beïng a Bodybuilder girls are never a problem!!!Don't walk after her heels, let her go.The best way bro...:)
 
TAURUS-1977.................

man, if you really really want her back you have to do what MP5 told you.

About a year ago my 2 year girlfriend, out of the blue told me she liked sme other guy at work and wanted to be alone. I really liked her and I was devastated. But after a week of misery I started in the gym, started a cycle and went on with my life. I started breeding with any bitch that would cross my way till I found a cuban girl that just thought I was some kind of God or something. She treated me like great and respected me...and most important of all...she was like 10 times better looking thatn my ex.......
I started going out with her and letting myself be seen ....jejejejeejje guess what???? My ex starts calling me again, leaving me messages , sending love letters through the mail, leaving balloons and stuffed animals in my window...she even showed up at my house while I was with this girl.......I was dissing her and actually having fun!
Well, after 2 months of ass-kissing I took her back and now she is sooooooo jealous and obeying that is not even funny jejejejejejeje
If you dissapear for a while, and stop calling her totally....she will come back , believe me
 
I CALLED HER ON THE PHONE TUESDAY NIGHT TO GET MY STUFF BACK I WAS ACTING LIKE I WAS NOT INTERESTED. SHE TOLD ME TO COME UP AND TALK TO HER. WHEN I WENT UP THERE SHE CAME OUTSIDE AND WAS SUPER NICE. SHE TOLD ME TO COME UP TO HER APARTMENT. WHEN WE WENT UP THERE SHE CUDDLED WITH ME AND EVEN SUCKED MY DICK. AFTER SHE WAS FINISHED SHE TURNED INTO A TOTAL BITCH. TELLING ME SHE WANTED ANOTHER GUY AND THAT SHE WANTED ME TO GET OUT. I TOLD HER NO THAT I WAS STAYING SHE GOT MAD. WELL I ENDED UP STAYING ALL NIGHT. WE WOKE UP THE NEXT MORNING AND SHE WAS STILL ACTING LIKE A BITCH. TELLING ME TO GET OUT AND THAT ARE RELATIONSHIP WAS OVER AND SHE WANTED TO GO OUT WITH SOMEONE ELSE. WELL AFTER A LITTLE FIGHT I DECIDED TO LEAVE. WHEN I LEFT I SAW A NEIGHBOR AND ASKED HER WHO MY EX WAS SEEING. SHE TOLD ME AND I WENT BACK AND TOLD MY EX THAT I BET HERE NEW BOYFRIEND WOULD LIKE TO KNOW THAT SHE WAS GIVING ME HEAD. SHE FLIPPED OUT AND NOW SHE WILL NOT TALK TO ME. ALSO YESTERDAY I TOLD HER BOSS SOME INFORMATION THAT WILL PROBLEY GET HER FIRED. SHE WAS TRYING TO SCAM HER BOSS OUT OF MONEY FOR A BASEBALL SHE CAUGHT FROM MARK McGWIRE. REALLY THE DETROIT TIGERS HIT THE BALL AND WE CAUGHT IT. SO I E-MAILED HE BOSS AND LET HER KNOW. I KNOW THAT WAS STUPID TO DO BUT I FELT LIKE GETTING BACK AT HER. SHOULD I LEAVE THE WHOLE THING ALONE? IF SHE DOES NOT CARE FOR ME ANYMORE WHY DID SHE INVITE ME TO HER APARTMENT FOR A LITTLE ACTION? SHE IS MOVING SUPER FAST WITH THIS NEW GUY THE FIRST NIGHT SHE MET HIM WAS SATURDAY AND SHE TOLD ME SHE STAYED ALL NIGHT AND GAVE HIM HEAD SATURDAY. SINCE SHE IS MOVING SO FAST WITH THIS GUY DO YOU THINK IT WILL LAST?
 
oh man!...my gf did the same thing when she left me!!! You know why they do that???? To feel important and make you feel even worse. See, their weapon is sex and the love you have for them...
next time she wants to give you head...turn her away and throw her out!!!...never fails!
 
Replace

One phrase comes to mind ,DONT CHASE, REPLACE.Nine times out of ten the grass is not greener.Keep your pride and she will be back,this time on your terms.Also, still keep the the communications going,let her call you and always be upbeat as things in your life have not missed a beat,show no weakness and do not persue her under any circumstances.
 
I'm sorry to hear that bro. I've been with my girl for a little over 4 years now and have recently caught feelings for another women, who happens to be married. Now It's showing me that nothing is guranteed. I never thought I could catch feeling for anyone else besides my girl but I have. Since she's married, I won't purse anymore but, at least the whole experiance showed me that I could fall for someone else. So can you bro. It's going to hurt really really bad for a while. Trust me, I know bro. But be strong man. Talk to us on the board. She'll feel stupid in a few weeks or so and probably regret it. But if she's been cold through the whole situation, she doesn't deserve your forgiveness. This whole situation will make you a stronger person.
 
THANKS FOR THE INFORMATION GUYS. I FEEL BETTER TODAY. I KNOW SHE WILL REALIZE ONE DAY SHE MADE A MISTAKE AND PROBLEY COME CRAWLING BACK. BUT UNTIL THEN I AM GOING TO MOVE ON. OH YA I HAD A QUESTION I SAW THIS GIRL AT A RESTAURANT AND WHEN I WALKED BY HER WE MADE EYE CONTACT IT SEEMS SHE WAS CHECKING ME OUT. THE PROBLEM IS I SAW HER AT THE MALL AND SHE WAS WITH HER BOYFRIEND. I WANT TO ASK HER OUT BUT I AM 24 AND I THINK SHE IS ABOUT 17 WHAT DO YOU ALL THINK. SHOULD I ASK HER OUT? THIS GIRL IS HOT SHE LOOKS A LITTLE LIKE BRITTNY SPEARS. REALLY IF SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND I DONT WANT TO BOTHER HER.
 
Taurus,
Let me tell ya the best advice I can give you that was given to me a while back. LIVE YOUR LIFE LIKE YOU TWO WILL NEVER GET BACK TOGETHER. This will allow you to move on in the best way possible and if you don't get back together, you've prepared yourself for it. If however, you do get back together, that's just a huge plus you weren't expecting. If you keep on dwelling on this girl without trying to move on, you will stay in a continuous emotional spiral that will take a long time to get out of.

Two, as hard as it may be to do this (believe me, I've been there twice), break-off ALL communication with her. You CANNOT be a friend to her right now. All the continuous talk with her will get you is depression. IF you don't get back with her, time will heal your wounds and THEN you can be a friend. NOW isn't the time because there is too much EMOTIONAL feeling for her. For example, when I've gone through hard break-ups in the past, I'd go several days w/o talking to her/them and I'd start feeling better. Then, the instant I heard her voice on the other line or saw her face, I was right back where I started... YOU CANNOT MOVE ON LIKE THAT BRO.

Third, as long as she can have the best of BOTH worlds, why should she choose you man? I mean, right now she has this other guy, but she knows all she has to do is snap her fingers (no offense, I've been there) and you're there. So, let her know what it's like for you to not be there waiting on her and see if it changes how she feels about you. By doing so, you are moving towards a recovery and she is forced to make a REAL decision about her feelings.

Lastly, you guys may not ever get back together and that might be for the best. Although I don't pretend to be a portrait of Christianity, I do know that God IS the answer to alot of problems bro. HE can see the big picture when we cannot. Right now, YOU CANNOT because you are hurting and that sucks. If in my past I would have gotten my wishes and been allowed to stay with the girls that I was hurting over, I'd be robbed of the blessing I received when I met the girl I'm dating now... the best person I know. I'm not gonna throw the "there are many fish in the sea" analogy at you because that doesn't help the way you feel in times like these.

In closing, the only things that can make you feel better is TIME, God, and a new chick one day. But make sure you close all ties with her for now buddy. If you wish to discuss any of this further with me, email me. I hope this helps and sorry so long.
 
The ideal thing to do is remain friends, accept it, and move on. This is all well and good but it's not how it works. The best thing for you to do IMHO is to remove her from you life as much as possible. I was in love with my best friend for 5 yrs and when she went for another dude I lost my love and my best friend in one shot. How can you be friends with someone you love and hear how she's so happy with someone that isn't you. It's like they say nothing gets you over the last one like the next one.
I a truly sorry we've all been there at one point or another.
 
sweet 17. how yummy they taste. im 24. ive dated a 17 year old this year. i would go 17 and up, but not younger for me. so id say the age is fine, but she has a boyfriend. i dont start shit with other guys, i let them start with me and i just finish it. so me personally, i would not ask her out. id just be around and let her ask me out (being the body builders we are, women just flock! heh) so it depends on you. if you are the type to start shit, then go ahead. take your aggressions out when he steps up, which you know he will. if you are the type that doesnt, then find someone else. there are so many hotties out there. just go stand in front of the high school in front of your trans am with your shirt off...hehe. that will attract the little honeys. :)



-max
 
In all honesty bro, you HAVE TO FORGET ABOUT HER. And believe me you are not alone, as you can see alot of guys go through the same shit. I am one of them. But how you can even want a girl back after she told you that she had another guys cock in her mouth blow my mind(no pun intended). Go and live you life, just go to the mall and walk around, that alone should show you that there is a SHIT LOAD of beautiful women out there. And you are only 24 yrs old, you have your whole life ahead of you, don't let it pass you by. Now is the time that you can have fun and experience it, and sooner or later after you have fucked a so many woman you lost count....the right one will appear. Good Luck i wish you the best.

and remember...NEVER TRUST ANY WOMAN!

PS: STOP TYPING IN ALL CAPS!!

M56M
 
X GIRL.....NEXT GIRL DUDE....ITS ROUGHBALL BUT TIME WILL HEAL ALL WOUNDS....LOOK AT IT THIS WAY....MAYBE THERE IS A REASON YOU GUYS ARE BREAKING UP...MAYBE THERE SOMEONE BETTER FOR YOU OUT THERE...I KNOW ITS A ROUGH PILL TO SWALLOW BUT KEEP YOUR HEAD UP G.........ALL THE MORE REASON TO GET JACKED!!!!!
 
This is my first reply here and I lovethe sight just to let you know. This post lead me to register to the site because I myself have just gotten out of around a 4 year relationship with a girl that I supported through college. It has been the hardest thing in my life and I still cry to this day occasionally, but not as bad as it used to be. Time heals all.

Its even worse when the girl runs away like mine did. She rode my coat tails and got out. To feel used and to get dumped hurts more than anything. It makes you question yourself, your body, you actions and emotions. It makes you ask "what was wrong you?"

Some much more to say and ask, but here is the good thing about it. It made me re-examine myself, healed alot of realtionships and problems with my family and my dad in which I hadn't talked to in 13 years, and in the two months and one week I have gone from around 300 pounds to 249.
Work on yourself, yourself, yourself, and let her worry about herself. Silence is Golden. If she knows you are going to be there and are still there then she is going to string you on. And try to replace and move on. So many people out there, lonely and wanting to be with some one like us. Just be happy that you weren't married and with kids. I know that it doesn't make the pain go away just yet, but it gets better everyday and you will have your good days and your bad, your good minutes and then all of the sudden, BAM, pain, loathing, longing.

Will write more later(could write a book) but I need to go train and do my cardio. Stay tough. :fro:
 
sorry to hear that Man! She will come back tho trust me! I know this because It happend to me once.. She just wants to try another guy before you two get too close! She will realize that she misses you so much and come back just begging to get in your pants, Trust me!!!
 
I go by this mentality and it is the only way you can go..........

Concentrate on yourself, be selfish.
You can't read her mind or change it.
Silence is golden and get in better shape at the gym, go buy yourself something, get some new clothes.

But here is the bottom line and not to be a bible thumper but praying about it and asking God to give you strength and guidance helps. I am not a terribly religious man don't get me wrong, but it helps you internally.

AND IF IT IS MEANT TO BE WITH HER, IT WILL HAPPEN!!!!!!!!!!

Don't push or beg, because they see that as weakness and that turns them off even more. Stay away and see what's out there, and you can either move on or wait to see if she comes back, but you can't do anything to change her mind. So concentrate on YOURSELF and if it happens, it happens.

DMAC74 :fro:
 
DMAC74 said:
I go by this mentality and it is the only way you can go..........

Concentrate on yourself, be selfish.
You can't read her mind or change it.
Silence is golden and get in better shape at the gym, go buy yourself something, get some new clothes.

But here is the bottom line and not to be a bible thumper but praying about it and asking God to give you strength and guidance helps. I am not a terribly religious man don't get me wrong, but it helps you internally.

AND IF IT IS MEANT TO BE WITH HER, IT WILL HAPPEN!!!!!!!!!!

Don't push or beg, because they see that as weakness and that turns them off even more. Stay away and see what's out there, and you can either move on or wait to see if she comes back, but you can't do anything to change her mind. So concentrate on YOURSELF and if it happens, it happens.

DMAC74 :fro:
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Good Advice...like i said live your life.
Don't depend on her coming back becuase you will be wasting your time. IF it happens it happens but don't wait around.

M56M
 
3 Points to remember:

1. Always fuck em in the ass. - If you dont do it, some other guy will.

2. Nice guys finish last.

3. Never trust em as far as you can throw em.
 
hey bros:
i have been in the same boat as alot of you. it took me 2 years to get over my ex (lame, i know). but i realized that alot of it was based on a massive physical attraction i had to her, which made me see through the fact that she is a total bitch. go get another girl man, there are TONS of them out there and u will feel much better.
 
IT IS JUST HARD I REALLY SAW US TOGETHER FOR EVER. WE BROKE UP SATURDAY AND FRIDAY SHE WAS TALKING ABOUT MARRIAGE WITH ME. WE HAD JUST GOT A CHECKING ACCOUNT TOGETHER, WE HAD JUST GOT A NEW APARTMENT AND LAST WEEK SHE WAS CHECKING OUT WEDDING RINGS. HOW DO YOU GO FROM WANTING TO GET MARRIED ONE WEEK AND THE NEXT WEEK WANTING SOMEONE ELSE?
 
TAURUS1977 said:
IT IS JUST HARD I REALLY SAW US TOGETHER FOR EVER. WE BROKE UP SATURDAY AND FRIDAY SHE WAS TALKING ABOUT MARRIAGE WITH ME. WE HAD JUST GOT A CHECKING ACCOUNT TOGETHER, WE HAD JUST GOT A NEW APARTMENT AND LAST WEEK SHE WAS CHECKING OUT WEDDING RINGS. HOW DO YOU GO FROM WANTING TO GET MARRIED ONE WEEK AND THE NEXT WEEK WANTING SOMEONE ELSE?
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THAT IS FUCKED UP!!! Something must have happend in a VERY short time to change her mind cause I don't see her talking about marrige one day and breaking up the next. FUCK I HATE WOMEN!
 
TAURUS1977 said:
IT IS JUST HARD I REALLY SAW US TOGETHER FOR EVER. WE BROKE UP SATURDAY AND FRIDAY SHE WAS TALKING ABOUT MARRIAGE WITH ME. WE HAD JUST GOT A CHECKING ACCOUNT TOGETHER, WE HAD JUST GOT A NEW APARTMENT AND LAST WEEK SHE WAS CHECKING OUT WEDDING RINGS. HOW DO YOU GO FROM WANTING TO GET MARRIED ONE WEEK AND THE NEXT WEEK WANTING SOMEONE ELSE?
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Dude, that pisses ME off big time. What women have in emotions, they lack in a brain, 99% of the time. They have absolutely no rational thought whatsoever. They make stupid, rash decisions on the spur of the moment, and many times regret it later on down the road. They just don't have the ability to think. :bright:
 
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THAT IS FUCKED UP!!! Something must have happend in a VERY short time to change her mind cause I don't see her talking about marrige one day and breaking up the next. FUCK I HATE WOMEN!
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Believe me Mustang thats life, one minute you want to do a cutting cycle and the next a bulking!!!(j/k..) But to be honest thats how shit is you never know what to expect thats why you should try as hard as possible not to give 100% of you heart to anyone. Its easier said than done i know, but one must try.

Be strong bro, time will heal ALL wounds, so just give it time. If you run back to her, you will only push her away. Good Luck.

M56M
 
It is possible bro. My girl left me after almost six years once she found out I was happy and with someone else she came back! She wanted counseling and told me why she left and how stupid she was. She was fucking my best friend!!!!!!! Bitch! It took her 3 months to realize I was the love of her life. But I said to both of them him and her go fuck yourself! I know if she could leave once she might again. Do not waste your time bro I know from experience. If you want to talk more or know more about this kind of shit e mail me [email protected]. I am engaged now and have a kid on the way. You will meet your dream girl move on. It seems hard now but it gets better trust me we all go through it!

Cheers
 
I forgot to mention bro I did love her and did try for 4months to work it out before I gave up. When you give they realize they have lost you and will eventually come running back. If you fight you get hurt like me let it go the pain will be less and revenge when you meet someone else will be sweet. revenge will come you will see. Don't waist your time start fucking other chicks!

Cheers
 
I KNOW I SHOULD MOVE ON IT WILL TAKE AWHILE TO GET OVER. I AM JUST SCARED THAT SHE IS GOING TO GET MARRIED TO THIS GUY. SHE ALWAYS WANTED TO HAVE A BABY WITH ME AND I WANTED TO WAIT I ALREADY HAVE A SON FROM A PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIP. I KNOW SHE WANTS KIDS SHIT SHE IS ONLY 21. IT JUST SCARES ME BECAUSE SHE IS PROBLEY GOING TO GET PREGNANT. AND THE GUY SHE IS SEEING IS 21 I AM 24 IT SUCKS TO GET DUMPED FOR SOMEONE YOUNGER THAN ME. SHE WAS ALWAYS TALKING ABOUT MARRIAGE.
 
Hey TAURUS1977. Check out the thread I put up a little while ago. I bumped it up so you could see it. It's entitled, "Doing a cycle and your ex sees you." There are some great revenge stories and I think it will give you something to look forward to and give you some encouragement. Revenge is sweet. :D
 
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I KNOW I SHOULD MOVE ON IT WILL TAKE AWHILE TO GET OVER. I AM JUST SCARED THAT SHE IS GOING TO GET MARRIED TO THIS GUY. SHE ALWAYS WANTED TO HAVE A BABY WITH ME AND I WANTED TO WAIT I ALREADY HAVE A SON FROM A PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIP. I KNOW SHE WANTS KIDS SHIT SHE IS ONLY 21. IT JUST SCARES ME BECAUSE SHE IS PROBLEY GOING TO GET PREGNANT. AND THE GUY SHE IS SEEING IS 21 I AM 24 IT SUCKS TO GET DUMPED FOR SOMEONE YOUNGER THAN ME. SHE WAS ALWAYS TALKING ABOUT MARRIAGE.
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Come on bro!GET A LIFE AGAIN !!!She ain't worth it!If she ever returns kick her ass and BTW....don't fuck her first or you will be lost again!
 
Not like you haven't heard this at least a hundred times so far...
FUCK HER. :mad:
Do a cycle, put on some more mass for the spring.
Pick up a snuggle-bunny or two or more for the winter (shoot for friends first)
Cut up for the summer and fuck hot chicks all summer long or stick with one of the body-heat-providers if you were lucky enough to fall in love.

Turn that extreme anger and hatred into muscle and confidence.
Remember: YOU ARE THE FUCKING KING

Since my x and I have been through, I've managed to get a couple that'll fuck on a regular basis and a few that just want to hang out. I rarely think about the bitch.

:D
 
girls suck

broke up with mygirlfriend about a month ago. Starting to feel better now though (good days and bad days). The bitch said she wanted to have time to herself and it would take her months to get over our relationship. 3 weeks later shes hooken up with some other jerk. Ooch! Bitch..she can kiss my ass.

Anyway hitting the gym and hitting a cycle was the best thing for me in the world...cant wait to get results and rub it in her face!!

Made me feel so much better to hear i'm not the only sore person around. Theres lotsa support here...whata great bunch of people :)
 
BRO'S I AM SORRY TO KEEP POSTING ON THIS THREAD. BUT MY EX GIRLFRIENDS DAD JUST DIED LAST NIGHT. WHAT TIMING WE JUST BROKE UP A WEEK AGO. SHE CALLED HERE AND TALKED TO MY SISTER AND SAID SHE WANTED HER DADS PICTURES BACK. THE PROBLEM IS I DON'T HAVE ANY OF HER DADS PICTURES. WHAT SHOULD I DO I FEEL SO BAD ABOUT THIS SITUATION. BUT I DO NOT WANT TO CALL HER OR GO BACK. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
 
TAURUS1977 said:
BRO'S I AM SORRY TO KEEP POSTING ON THIS THREAD. BUT MY EX GIRLFRIENDS DAD JUST DIED LAST NIGHT. WHAT TIMING WE JUST BROKE UP A WEEK AGO. SHE CALLED HERE AND TALKED TO MY SISTER AND SAID SHE WANTED HER DADS PICTURES BACK. THE PROBLEM IS I DON'T HAVE ANY OF HER DADS PICTURES. WHAT SHOULD I DO I FEEL SO BAD ABOUT THIS SITUATION. BUT I DO NOT WANT TO CALL HER OR GO BACK. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
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I'm a mean SOB when it comes to people needing help. If someone has done me wrong, FUCK 'EM. They can die and burn in hell for all I care.

There was a post on the chat board about a guy who his g/f left him for some dude. That dude bragged to him and rubbed it in his face that he took his g/f. Then that dude got in a motorcycle wreck and ended up having his leg amputated. He asked what he should do about his ex and her b/f who got his leg cut off. Most responded they would have celebrated in some way, as well as rubbed it in his face that he still had two legs. And I agree. Worthless people have what's coming to them.

But that's just me.
 
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