Jealous people

[renee1980]

specifically those who are jealous about your accomplishments. I just finished my PHD and am also planning on getting married soon. so thinks are going amazing for me, yet it seems like everywhere I turn I run into jealous losers.

what is the best way to deal with jealous chicks?

 

[shirlene29]

not invest any sense of accomplishment or approval through other people and their reactions

ie; don't give a shit

alternately if someone is in a really low spot in their life its probably best to just listen to THEM rather than tell them about you.

 

[cindylou]

projection

 

[shirlene29]

Im not projecting!!!!

haha

 

[cindylou]

Im not projecting!!!!

haha

Haha not you Shirl! <3

 

[shirlene29]

I know...I was going for a paranoia angle there....

just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they aren't out to get you!

 

[cindylou]

I know...I was going for a paranoia angle there....

just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they aren't out to get you!

haha!


What I meant was that I think people tend to see in others what they are themselves. Not just one or two people but when I hear someone say things like everyone is, or people tend to be, or everyone in my city was...blah blah

I think if someone runs into jealous losers "everywhere they go" then they're probably someone that gets jealous of other people's accomplishments and is assuming that others think the same way.

 

[shirlene29]

mmmm...indeed

I think the same when someone tells me they have relationship that don't work out over and over again...or in a similar thread of thinking anyway
people are mirrors to you

if you see the same thing happen over and over again its probably you!

also...since when is getting married some huge accomplishment

jus sayin

 

[nangiggles]

mmmm...indeed

I think the same when someone tells me they have relationship that don't work out over and over again...or in a similar thread of thinking anyway
people are mirrors to you

if you see the same thing happen over and over again its probably you!

also...since when is getting married some huge accomplishment

jus sayin

Well getting married and having kids is still a huge deal for a lot of people, I on the other hand don't want kids and got married because the government pretty much forced me to do so.

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[AFeedz]

Sometimes people are jealous, but I agree, anyone who thinks "everyone is jealous" or sees patterns like that is jealous of someone their selves and insecure over what they have. That's my immediate reaction when I hear things like that.

I think if someone were secure and happy in a relationship and with themselves, they wouldn't even notice who else was jealous and who wasn't because it wouldn't concern you. When I'm happy, I don't are about what anyone else thinks about it.

 

[psizzle_8]

Surrounding yourself with the wrong peeps home slice

 

[jeremyng25]

haha!


What I meant was that I think people tend to see in others what they are themselves. Not just one or two people but when I hear someone say things like everyone is, or people tend to be, or everyone in my city was...blah blah

I think if someone runs into jealous losers "everywhere they go" then they're probably someone that gets jealous of other people's accomplishments and is assuming that others think the same way.

This to a T...lol someone knows their psychology

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[hulkamainia 119]

Well if some one is jealous and being rude and disrespecting mine, then I start bragging about ask of my accomplishments and future plans, as I'd I was rubbing their nose in it, so they shut up.

You gots to keep that shit real.

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[nangiggles]

I'd appreciate it if you men leave the WOMEN'S section

 

[AFeedz]

Well if some one is jealous and being rude and disrespecting mine, then I start bragging about ask of my accomplishments and future plans, as I'd I was rubbing their nose in it, so they shut up.

You gots to keep that shit real.

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Lol except the problem is the *large* majority of the time, people you think are jealous, aren't jealous.

If someone gets annoyed by that, it's over someone acting like a douchebag, not jealousy.

It's sort of like this ex I had who was so upset I was with someone new, he thought telling me how great he was would make me jealous and go back to him. Hed consistently tell me how much money he had, what lavish gifts he gave etc. And when that didn't work, he made up a fake girlfriend and would assign her traits and stories that exactly matched my accomplishments or story. And I wasn't jealous the more he bragged (falsely) about her. The more he bragged (true or false), the happier and more thankful I was that what I have now is nothing like him.

 

[psizzle_8]

I'd appreciate it if you men leave the WOMEN'S section

Gave them both a time out.

I don't see Hulk in here often but the Jeremy kid reminds me of a creepy guy who stands in the parking lot at Curves and won't leave. Over it

To guys reading this: DO NOT POST IN THIS SECTION!!!!

 

[nangiggles]

Gave them both a time out.

I don't see Hulk in here often but the Jeremy kid reminds me of a creepy guy who stands in the parking lot at Curves and won't leave. Over it

To guys reading this: DO NOT POST IN THIS SECTION!!!!

It's great to finally have someone enforce the rules, thank you so much

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[psizzle_8]

Of course. Bothers me just as much as it bothers you!

Sometimes I don't see it as soon as you guys do (case in point, this thread) so shoot me a pm if something ever happens and I'll take care of it.

 

[cindylou]

Renee, I hope you write more about this. I would like more of an in depth glimpse into pathological envy. If you would like some male insight please feel free to post in chat and convo.

 

[shirlene29]

Lolololololol

 

[cindylou]

Lol except the problem is the *large* majority of the time, people you think are jealous, aren't jealous.

If someone gets annoyed by that, it's over someone acting like a douchebag, not jealousy.

It's sort of like this ex I had who was so upset I was with someone new, he thought telling me how great he was would make me jealous and go back to him. Hed consistently tell me how much money he had, what lavish gifts he gave etc. And when that didn't work, he made up a fake girlfriend and would assign her traits and stories that exactly matched my accomplishments or story. And I wasn't jealous the more he bragged (falsely) about her. The more he bragged (true or false), the happier and more thankful I was that what I have now is nothing like him.

LOL what a loser

 

[cindylou]

I'm just jealous

 

[nangiggles]

I'm just jealous

Me too, I'm jealous of Afeedz and OP, clearly they're in love and we dont even know what that feels like maybe some day we'll know cindy

 

[AFeedz]

Cindy's aware I don't think she's jealous.