Its much harder for good looking guys to settle down and get married

[rush]

I am 30 now and thinking about my freinds who have got
married and it seems like the ones who get married are the
ones who no longer get any action, be it from losing their
hair or generally just not looking good. My good looking
friends say why the hell get married when I can still get some.

Do you all think that if one is good looking they are more likely
to remain single

 

[polarpixie]

lol...It feels like the opposite to me. If that were the case then I'd be meeting more good looking single guys.

 

[AAA]

Good looking or not its all in there personality and values! If your friends are just out to play the field then why would they want to get married? You get married when you find the one you want for the rest of your life your soulmate! IMO

 

[vinylgroover]

I am 30 now and thinking about my freinds who have got
married and it seems like the ones who get married are the
ones who no longer get any action, be it from losing their
hair or generally just not looking good. My good looking
friends say why the hell get married when I can still get some.

Do you all think that if one is good looking they are more likely
to remain single

I'm with you bro. I'm 29 now and believe me, being good looking can be a curse.

A man once said to me "vinyl, why buy the book when you can borrow from the library". Only problem is, if you abuse the priveledges of your library card, eventually it gets taken away, y'know, late returns, pages torn out, lending to friends, get my drift.

 

[the nature boy]

actually, quite a bit of the guys I know (mid to late 30's) that are married are good looking guys. And generally their wives are hot. I am good looking but I'm not married yet. And no I'm not gay.

 

[rush]

I have yet to meet a good looking person say that its all to
with personality. Sure its important but one would be very
naieve not to recognize the importance that looks plays in
relationships work and just about everything else

 

[GenetiKing]

Re: Re: Its much harder for good looking guys to settle down and get married

lending to friends

I wish my friends would lend me their books more often.

My favorite is reading two books at once.

I like to read.

Reading is fundamental, or something.

 

[the nature boy]

I have yet to meet a good looking person say that its all to
with personality. Sure its important but one would be very
naieve not to recognize the importance that looks plays in
relationships work and just about everything else

you're right, there is more to a relationship than looks. if she has a large inheritance it's important too.

 

[strong island]

you're right, there is more to a relationship than looks. if she has a large inheritance it's important too.

Where you meeting all the wealthy chicks...the library, church...temple?

 

[HighIntensity]

marrige is something I look foward to,

 

[Lumbuss]

most guys who think they are good looking are actually unattractive. just because your big and strong doesn't mean your good looking. here are the things that keep people from being good looking.

1. your under six foot.
2. your not muscular.
3. you are over 14%
4. your face is ugly.


hair loss isn't on that list because all you have to do is get a rug and no one can tell. if you meet 1-4 you are not good looking no matter what you think. it doesn't matter what your girl looks like, i see guys whos faces look like asses with hot girls all the time. just too many ugly people out there today.

 

[velvett]

naw...


being over 30, single, never married, good-looking and successful is when people will start to talk behind your back trying to figure out what is WRONG with you.

 

[HansNZ]

Hey strongisland. Great avatar - you have excellent chest development/shape.

As for the goodlooking guy thing - I have noticed that the guys who don't stray tend not to be overly appealing to the opposite sex. These guys tend to marry because once they find someone they like they aren't usually going to find another equally appealing person so easily. Spunky guys can pick and choose.

I think women are wrong when they say all the good-looking guys are either married or gay. When you analyse what they really mean, they are saying that the good-looking guys who are well adjusted and domesticated are married. So many good looking guys aren't into the relationship thing because they want to play around. They dump girls after a few dates so these women feel used - hence they aren't classified as the "decent good looking guys" that so many women (and gay guys) seek.

Guys who are good looking frequently need to play around for sometime until it loses its appeal. This ofteny doesn't happen until they are in their thirties - then they settle down. I have noticed that many good looking guys who marry early often regret it and/or start cheating because of all the temptation and opportunities they have.

 

[furious]

Hmm, interesting....what if you are good-looking and willing to look for a mate, but find all girls just want to play with you?
Reverse objectification, if you will.

 

[Jimsbbc]

Guys who are good looking frequently need to play around for sometime until it loses its appeal. This ofteny doesn't happen until they are in their thirties - then they settle down.

Cool, so I have at least 3 more years until domestication

 

[Hengst]

I'm not too sure of the coorelation between good-looking-guys (GLG) and marriage, however, I do know that GLGs have lots more advantages and opportunities than ugly guys do.

GLGs earn more money, have more professional success, get preference in mundane things like waiting in lines, getting attention from sales clerks and so on.

 

[rnch]

it's all about MATURITY, stupid.........or lack of.

 

[cm3504jm]

It's not about looks...

Confidence in one's self makes you successful and attractive, not conceit.

I'm not especially good looking, but i treat people with respect and that gets me all these perks(?) like preference in line, attention from clerks, and professional success.

 

[HansNZ]

Remember us men are *not* good characters of deciding who are "good looking men". We are straight and we don't spend all day dating guys and rating them when they walk in a club. But we sure as hell know what attractive women look like.

-= nav =-

Hey, i'm not straight! AND I have much better taste in men than my female acquaintances, lol. I KNOW what an attractive guy looks like/is like. Women often use me as their quality control officer, LOL!

 

[KAYNE]

GETTING MARRIED IS NOT ABOUT STILL BEING ABLE TO GET SOME ASS. IF IT WERE ABOUT THAT ONLY, NOONE WOULD CHEAT!!! ITS ABOUT BEING IN LOVE AND WANTING TO SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH THAT PERSON. IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH NOT BEING ABLE TO GET ANY ASS. THOUGH THERE ARE SOME EXCEPTIONS.


KAYNE

 

[Hengst]

cm3504jm - you are absolutely right, it IS about self confidence.