Is this a form of ‘sexual harassment’?

[SeXKiTTen_CanDy]

There is this fellow that I see sometimes (trying to avoid as much as possible), he is probably around about 36 years old. He used to wait for me at the train station in the afternoon so he could walk with me. He would ALWAYS make comments on the way I look, really overboard comments, not the kind a 36 year old should make to a 19 year old, and sometimes he would grab my arm, or put his hand on my back, he would always try to touch me like that. I try to avoid him because he is freaking me out, but I don’t want to say anything to anyone because he seems innocent in a way, but then it’s just too weird. Not long ago he offered me a lift home, he said “I don’t know if I should ask you this, etc……….., but do you want a lift home” I am afraid he is trying to find out where I live. May be I am just going over the top here……….. ?

 

[kitKat]

Girl that is scary.

Ways to get rid of him:

1 It would be a stretch since he is only 36 but you could tell him he reminds you of your father.

2 Mention a very large brother that doesn't even like the thought of his baby sister being in the company of men.

3 Get that boyfriend of yours to show up with you and tell him to scowl at the guy.

4 tell the guy you are late for an appt at the health clinic to keep the raging case of herpes in check

5 Have Satanic Goatslayer deal with him

 

[MuSuLPhReAk]

Not sexual harassment unless u tell him to stop. Seems more like a stalker instead.

 

[talonracer]

Damn that freaky...........you should be very scared as he sounds rather obsessive. Don't mess around if you touched you technically that's assault.......call the cops

 

[cyberstiener]

I don't know how your laws are written, but in Canada if he laid hands on you, that is sexual assault. Sexual harassment is rules governing the work place or school. Call the cops, too many freaks out there.

 

[SeXKiTTen_CanDy]

Ok, but the thing is, he seems so polite. I really don’t know how to take this guy.

He has asked me if I was married, I said no (I should have said yes)….

I told my boyfriend about it when it was happening everyday, so he came and picked me up from work (how sweet) for a week or two, now it’s died off (I don’t see this guy as much)…. I don’t like to mention if I have seen him because my boyfriend will kill him or do something stupid, and I don’t want him to do that because this guy hasn’t really done anything to harm me, it’s really hard to explain people.

If I told my brother he would knock him out straight away (he beats a lot of people up), again I don’t want that to happen.

Thanks for the replies.

 

[Golfer18--old]

My sister is 20. She has a guy that use to fuck with her. He grabbed her ass in front of me and jammed his head into the side of a dodge ram dulley, then beat him with his booksack.

Violence should be legal in the case of sister and BF's in special circumstance.


DONT TREAT HIM AS HE'S INNOCENT< HE COULD BE A KILLER OR A NICE GUY

DONT TAKE THAT RISK PLEASE.

 

[SeXKiTTen_CanDy]

If he starts this shit up again I am going to tell him to leave me alone.

I hate it when he grabs my arm or puts his hand on my lower back. When he did do it, I pulled away and ignored him, everytime he did talk to me and shit, I wouldn’t hardly talk back, I thought I was being quite rude actually, but he just didn’t get the picture.

Argh he pisses me off bad.

 

[Taps]

Tell him to quit touching you! No offense, but what the fuck is wrong with you? You don't have to put up with that kind of crap.

Call him an asshole and tell him to fuck off. If he keeps bothering you, get the cops involved, not your bf or brother. I know that if some prick messed with my sister or gf, I'd probably end up going to jail for assault. Us guys don't always think to clearly when a female we care about is in peril.

Seriously, stand up for yourself. Chances are he'll go away if you tell him to.

 

[Frackal]

Serial killers are usually described as nice and polite individuals. Osama Bin Laden actually LOOKS like a very kind man...looks dont mean shit sometimes.