I think like you said - its a matter of being responsible for yourself. There are lots of temptations in the world -- food, sex, anythign that occupies an inordinate amount of your time & keeps you from getting done the things you need to get done. (Wait... like EF??
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But sex is something that is so tightly tied to emotion, commitment and everythign that is fundamental to relationships. Personally
I find porn fascinating for about 5 min, then it gets old. I guess maybe I'm de-sensitized, but mostly it just becomes uninteresting in the sense that it doens't add much to my real life. Do I think its impacted my life or my brain in a negative way? PRobably not. I probably have more ideas of what you can "do" as well as stuff I have absolutely no interest in. Porn can desensitize you but in a way I think it takes the "shock value" out of a lot of stuff that some people get really hung up on & allows you to set it into the pile of things that you've already determined have no value in your life (e.g. people who get excited about hitting McDonalds for dinner -- its not conducive to my diet and the grease generally makes me sick to my stomach, therefore I don't even need it in my life.)
I need to ponder this more & see if I can find more to add...