yes, i believe so.........unless your are stinkin' drunk, goin' oral requires a degree of trust and faith in your partner than just bumpin' uglies does.
I think it is, I would never give oral to a stripper or a one nighter probably because I use these women to get me off but if I'm with a girl I care about going down on her is a must!
Oral sex is an important and exciting foreplay for the more traditional sex. There is something about oral sex which is submissive and yielding, which is obviously a very big turn on.
To me no any sex is intimate and personal, but head jobs are important in the sexual arena with someone you love.