just wondering, it seemed fun at the time now my head is fubar'd again. oh well.
juiceddreadlocks said:just wondering, it seemed fun at the time now my head is fubar'd again. oh well.
beefcake28 said:I was afraid of that... Especially since she's a PRO at it.
The mindgame thing might seem like fun at the time, but you gotta keep things in perspective... Think long term. The only thing mindgames accomplish is an increased hostility, while prolonging the inevitable.
The best revenge is success in life. You are well on your way to success, so focus your energy on that instead. Just my opinion.

beefcake28 said:I was afraid of that... Especially since she's a PRO at it.
The mindgame thing might seem like fun at the time, but you gotta keep things in perspective... Think long term. The only thing mindgames accomplish is an increased hostility, while prolonging the inevitable.
The best revenge is success in life. You are well on your way to success, so focus your energy on that instead. Just my opinion.
mountain muscle said:Accidental discharge.
End of problems.

that's how I got into this worldmountain muscle said:Accidental discharge.
End of problems.
dirty~d~ said:"I was cleaning it and the next thing I know, officer, she was laying on the floor bleeding. I thought she was just being dramatic. My bad."![]()

I'm assuming this is a "back and forth" with an ex. I learned years ago that it's best to cut all ties with a break-up when it was anything more than a casual dating relationship. Once feelings are involved you need to cut that shit off, as men we're raised to compartmentalize these things, just do it. It will save you a world of grief in the long run. I finally figured this out after an on and off again relationship of almost two years that SHOULD have ended in the first two months. Just end it and stay strong.juiceddreadlocks said:just wondering, it seemed fun at the time now my head is fubar'd again. oh well.
javaguru said:I'm assuming this is a "back and forth" with an ex. I learned years ago that it's best to cut all ties with a break-up when it was anything more than a casual dating relationship. Once feelings are involved you need to cut that shit off, as men we're raised to compartmentalize these things, just do it. It will save you a world of grief in the long run. I finally figured this out after an on and off again relationship of almost two years that SHOULD have ended in the first two months. Just end it and stay strong.
juiceddreadlocks said:that's how I got into this world
My tough love response is, "Your door locks?" I understand, I lived that back and forth crap for too long.beefcake28 said:I agree... but, sadly, there's more to it than just that. I'm not gonna divulge details, but she lives about a block away from him, and has done some pretty "stalker-ish" shit, which myself, and MM, have witnessed personally... making it more difficult for things to just end.
javaguru said:My tough love response is, "Your door locks?" I understand, I lived that back and forth crap for too long.![]()
I can imagine, based on what my ex and I mutually did to each other. It was a cluster fuck.mountain muscle said:If you only knew.
mountain muscle said:If you only knew.
velvett said:Being that I had to read the thread title three times to "get it" - I'm probably not a good person to even answer the question because apparently I can't even read.
dood, when we compared EF hookup lists she was number 5 on yours... not even going to say who you put ahead of her.mountain muscle said:I still claim Vel as mine, mutual mind whatever.
I'm out of the trenches for the moment... Beefcake gave me a hell of a pep talk at the bar one night. I was ready to conquer the world after that.javaguru said:I'm embarrassed to admit but I dropped 12k on an engagement ring for aforementioned ex when she claimed all she needed was some "security" and everything would change. Just sayin' bor, I've been in the trenches.There is a reason I'm a cold hearted bastard with break-ups.
Stay strong.juiceddreadlocks said:I'm out of the trenches for the moment... Beefcake gave me a hell of a pep talk at the bar one night. I was ready to conquer the world after that.![]()
it's just hilarious... she comes and jumps in bed twice this weekend crying about how things are for her, and I dont do anything with her either time.
Bor, didn't realize the difference. You are uber mature.....just sayin'. Damn, I was a total retard at that age.....major props.juiceddreadlocks said:I'm out of the trenches for the moment... Beefcake gave me a hell of a pep talk at the bar one night. I was ready to conquer the world after that.![]()
it's just hilarious... she comes and jumps in bed twice this weekend crying about how things are for her, and I dont do anything with her either time.
juiceddreadlocks said:dood, when we compared EF hookup lists she was number 5 on yours... not even going to say who you put ahead of her.
sonic_death_monkey said:Stay strong..... and tell beefcake to lay off the devil water.

Bor, no contact is your friend!beefcake28 said:![]()
I'm still trying to remember the last half of that night...
beefcake28 said:I'm still trying to remembergood luck with that at your age
habitualhealth said:beefcake28 said:I'm still trying to rememberAt 40 you have experience, you need to mentor.good luck with that at your age
javaguru said:Bor, no contact is your friend!

that would mean me caring about someone other than myself.javaguru said:At 40 you have experience, you need to mentor.
habitualhealth said:beefcake28 said:I'm still trying to remembergood luck with that at your age
Still trying to figure out the quote thingys work, huh?
Mememememememmememem...I know. Ever watch Scrubs? Yeah, that's us.habitualhealth said:that would mean me caring about someone other than myself.![]()
c'moooooon.
um yah, i do believe you and juicedrunktard texted and dialed me.beefcake28 said:Oh, and I think I drunk-texted HH a couple of times, but that's about it.
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habitualhealth said:um yah, i do believe you and juicedrunktard texted and dialed me.

javaguru said:Where is juiced....hh is attempting another hijacking.
"us"...i love how you're publicly accepting our love for each other.javaguru said:Mememememememmememem...I know. Ever watch Scrubs? Yeah, that's us.
Just because I knocked you up a few times doesn't mean I care.habitualhealth said:"us"...i love how you're publicly accepting our love for each other.
but i love youjavaguru said:Just because I knocked you up a few times doesn't mean I care.
Deadbeat dads don't care...stick and move.habitualhealth said:but i love you
We are in the same boatvelvett said:Being that I had to read the thread title three times to "get it" - I'm probably not a good person to even answer the question because apparently I can't even read.
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