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is mutual mind fucking okay?

juiceddreadlocks said:
just wondering, it seemed fun at the time now my head is fubar'd again. oh well.

I was afraid of that... Especially since she's a PRO at it.


The mindgame thing might seem like fun at the time, but you gotta keep things in perspective... Think long term. The only thing mindgames accomplish is an increased hostility, while prolonging the inevitable.

The best revenge is success in life. You are well on your way to success, so focus your energy on that instead. Just my opinion.
 
Everytime I have a conversatiion with my wife that isn't a fight, my head gets fucked up.
 
beefcake28 said:
I was afraid of that... Especially since she's a PRO at it.


The mindgame thing might seem like fun at the time, but you gotta keep things in perspective... Think long term. The only thing mindgames accomplish is an increased hostility, while prolonging the inevitable.

The best revenge is success in life. You are well on your way to success, so focus your energy on that instead. Just my opinion.

Indeed.

Don't subject yourself to abuse that you don't deserve. Stay focused on where you want to be. :rose:
 
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beefcake28 said:
I was afraid of that... Especially since she's a PRO at it.


The mindgame thing might seem like fun at the time, but you gotta keep things in perspective... Think long term. The only thing mindgames accomplish is an increased hostility, while prolonging the inevitable.

The best revenge is success in life. You are well on your way to success, so focus your energy on that instead. Just my opinion.


yeah, unfortuntately I dont think I can win because I'm not willing to fuck her and then treat her like shit like she's willing to give it up. She called again last night, but I didnt answer I was rockin out up to work on the allez.
 
UGH. Best to just make a clean break. That prolonged death is TORTURE. I know. I've been there before.
 
mountain muscle said:
Accidental discharge.

End of problems.

"I was cleaning it and the next thing I know, officer, she was laying on the floor bleeding. I thought she was just being dramatic. My bad." :evil:
 
juiceddreadlocks said:
just wondering, it seemed fun at the time now my head is fubar'd again. oh well.
I'm assuming this is a "back and forth" with an ex. I learned years ago that it's best to cut all ties with a break-up when it was anything more than a casual dating relationship. Once feelings are involved you need to cut that shit off, as men we're raised to compartmentalize these things, just do it. It will save you a world of grief in the long run. I finally figured this out after an on and off again relationship of almost two years that SHOULD have ended in the first two months. Just end it and stay strong.
 
javaguru said:
I'm assuming this is a "back and forth" with an ex. I learned years ago that it's best to cut all ties with a break-up when it was anything more than a casual dating relationship. Once feelings are involved you need to cut that shit off, as men we're raised to compartmentalize these things, just do it. It will save you a world of grief in the long run. I finally figured this out after an on and off again relationship of almost two years that SHOULD have ended in the first two months. Just end it and stay strong.

I agree... but, sadly, there's more to it than just that. I'm not gonna divulge details, but she lives about a block away from him, and has done some pretty "stalker-ish" shit, which myself, and MM, have witnessed personally... making it more difficult for things to just end.
 
beefcake28 said:
I agree... but, sadly, there's more to it than just that. I'm not gonna divulge details, but she lives about a block away from him, and has done some pretty "stalker-ish" shit, which myself, and MM, have witnessed personally... making it more difficult for things to just end.
My tough love response is, "Your door locks?" I understand, I lived that back and forth crap for too long. :)
 
mountain muscle said:
If you only knew.


Exactly.


I hear what Java is saying, and I agree with him in principal, but there is much more to it. Like I said, I'm not gonna divulge details. It isn't my place to do that... but I wish it were that simple.
 
Being that I had to read the thread title three times to "get it" - I'm probably not a good person to even answer the question because apparently I can't even read.
 
Ok, I dropped my .02

You either continue the path you are on or you change it. Welcome to the rest of your life or not.:)
 
velvett said:
Being that I had to read the thread title three times to "get it" - I'm probably not a good person to even answer the question because apparently I can't even read.

I still claim Vel as mine, mutual mind whatever.
 
I'm embarrassed to admit but I dropped 12k on an engagement ring for aforementioned ex when she claimed all she needed was some "security" and everything would change. Just sayin' bor, I've been in the trenches. :) There is a reason I'm a cold hearted bastard with break-ups.
 
javaguru said:
I'm embarrassed to admit but I dropped 12k on an engagement ring for aforementioned ex when she claimed all she needed was some "security" and everything would change. Just sayin' bor, I've been in the trenches. :) There is a reason I'm a cold hearted bastard with break-ups.
I'm out of the trenches for the moment... Beefcake gave me a hell of a pep talk at the bar one night. I was ready to conquer the world after that. :theshadow

it's just hilarious... she comes and jumps in bed twice this weekend crying about how things are for her, and I dont do anything with her either time.
 
juiceddreadlocks said:
I'm out of the trenches for the moment... Beefcake gave me a hell of a pep talk at the bar one night. I was ready to conquer the world after that. :theshadow

it's just hilarious... she comes and jumps in bed twice this weekend crying about how things are for her, and I dont do anything with her either time.
Stay strong.
 
juiceddreadlocks said:
I'm out of the trenches for the moment... Beefcake gave me a hell of a pep talk at the bar one night. I was ready to conquer the world after that. :theshadow

it's just hilarious... she comes and jumps in bed twice this weekend crying about how things are for her, and I dont do anything with her either time.
Bor, didn't realize the difference. You are uber mature.....just sayin'. Damn, I was a total retard at that age.....major props.
 
juiceddreadlocks said:
dood, when we compared EF hookup lists she was number 5 on yours... not even going to say who you put ahead of her.

wth? Vel knows better.

You just earned a hip check into the Platte


Halfway through your list I had to remind you it was ef WOMEN.
 
javaguru said:
Bor, no contact is your friend!

Huh? No contact with what?

All I did was get waaaaaaaaaaaay too drunk from a very tasty bottle of Goldschlager, which was eventually confiscated by a couple of cops... while I was in the middle of 16th Street in downtown Denver.

Oh, and I think I drunk-texted HH a couple of times, but that's about it.

:worried:
 
velvett said:
Being that I had to read the thread title three times to "get it" - I'm probably not a good person to even answer the question because apparently I can't even read.
We are in the same boat
 
WOW, the level this mind fucking got taken to last night was above and beyond anything I expected could happen... low, very low...

Control is definitely an illusion, and I'm never above falling back to square one.
 
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