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Is It Normal For A 30 Year Old Who Wants To Party Every Weekend?

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slick635235

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I am getting sick of it as she wants to keep going to clubs where everyone is around 21 years old. When is she going to stop and relax?
 
At least its not every night. I resurrected my party life from age 30 - 35 (of course I had South Beach & Ft. Lauderdale as my playground) but it did get old fast. My old party pal still does it -- he's a 41 yr old gay guy from Bolivia. Of course he's cruising for straight guys so I guess its a little different. It got old for me tho.

Maybe its just a phase.

You need some quality time?
 
I have this friend that was married forever and had kids young and when she got a divorce she went ape shit. Going to the bars as often as she could but she finally got tired of it. It plays such a toll on your body and apperance if you ask me
 
This is girl is my girlfriend and claims we don't go out often enough. She is always telling that wants to go on vacation all the time. The truth is that I need to save money, because I partied when I was younger and I am trying to pay off my credit card debt and other debt so we can preparing for our future. Meanwhile, she wants a future. However, she wants both. I don't have the money to do both. Shouldn't this girl be willing to work with me?




ksharp01 said:
I have this friend that was married forever and had kids young and when she got a divorce she went ape shit. Going to the bars as often as she could but she finally got tired of it. It plays such a toll on your body and apperance if you ask me
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as normal as it is for you to complain about it.

to each his/her own. if that's what she wants, and its not what you want, plus you don't like her ass OR her friends... MOVE ON.
 
slick635235 said:
This is girl is my girlfriend and claims we don't go out often enough. She is always telling that wants to go on vacation all the time. The truth is that I need to save money, because I partied when I was younger and I am trying to pay off my credit card debt and other debt so we can preparing for our future. Meanwhile, she wants a future. However, she wants both. I don't have the money to do both. Shouldn't this girl be willing to work with me?
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I would say yes. Hell just think if yall saved the money you spent going to the bars! Me and beau can easily spend over 100.00. Of course he has to drink crown and coke at 5.00+ a drink. I like that to and hate beer but I will suffer and drink beer only because it is cheaper.
I can't even remember the last time we went to a bar....okay once this past year but that was to see a comedian at the Funny Bone. They have a bar that is attached and we did hang out awhile.
 
stilleto, friend, can you talk to someone about this fellow? what i mean is, i'd like to hear of his body being cut up into small chunks, doused in gasoline, set on fire, and then buried in a ditch somewhere.
 
going clubbing and bar hopping isnt fun once you are with someone.

what's the point in spending $60+ in one night? it's not like you needed to do it to get laid?

i would rather chill with my friends at their place or mine and drink, rather than going out to over-packed, extremely loud, expensive clubs/bars.

it was cool for a few months when i was 21, but not so much now.
 
hey buddy, what did i do to you to deserve this?.............i am just discussing the facts and i never point these flaws to my girl.......so what's the problem? i am just trying to understand what is going on.


jackangel said:
stilleto, friend, can you talk to someone about this fellow? what i mean is, i'd like to hear of his body being cut up into small chunks, doused in gasoline, set on fire, and then buried in a ditch somewhere.
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Compromise..........What is it that attracts her there? The drinking, hanging out with friends or what?
You could always do some of the get togethers at you place....so much more cheaper. Hell, I can buy a 1/2 gallon of Seagrams for 24.00!!
I had to do something similar with beau before but he like going to play poker at the casino which of course was costing alot. So now I have poker night at the house at 20.00 head and I even cook for everyone.
 
stilleto said:
as normal as it is for you to complain about it.

to each his/her own. if that's what she wants, and its not what you want, plus you don't like her ass OR her friends... MOVE ON.
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Agreed...Every day is a new complaint about this chick
 
jackangel said:
stilleto, friend, can you talk to someone about this fellow? what i mean is, i'd like to hear of his body being cut up into small chunks, doused in gasoline, set on fire, and then buried in a ditch somewhere.
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lol
its like a split screen with you and slick and me and foxxie.
 
slick, let me point something out to you, in case you weren't aware...
here are your last 5 threads.

this one, about your girl pushing you into marriage:
http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?t=527419

this one, about how she won't use birth control:
http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?t=527380

this one, about how you don't like her coke snorting lawyer friends:
http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?t=527229

This one, about how you don't like her cellulite:
http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?t=527327

this one, about how she criticizes herself all the time:
http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?t=527232

this one, which i don't even understand but you're obviously complaining about something about her again:
http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?t=527321
 
so what should I do? should i dump her or not?





stilleto said:
slick, let me point something out to you, in case you weren't aware...
here are your last 5 threads.

this one, about your girl pushing you into marriage:
http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?t=527419

this one, about how she won't use birth control:
http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?t=527380

this one, about how you don't like her coke snorting lawyer friends:
http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?t=527229

This one, about how you don't like her cellulite:
http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?t=527327

this one, about how she criticizes herself all the time:
http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?t=527232

this one, which i don't even understand but you're obviously complaining about something about her again:
http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?t=527321
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slick635235 said:
so what should I do? should i dump her or not?
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Do what ever the hell you feel like doin!
But really stop f'n making stupid threads and asking peoples opinions when we know neither you nor your mate!
 
It doesn't sound like your really happy, if you were you wouldn't find so many faults in here imo. Best to be aware of this before marring her or anyone. Just imagine how these things are really gonna bug you give a couple of more years. Sounds like you might need to take a step back and look at the big picture. Trust me, I have been married twice and the 1st time I just got married to young and at that age(19), of course I knew everything..lol and the 2nd time I married for all the wrong reasons.
 
WELL BUDDY, STOP READING THE THREADS IF YOU THINK THEY ARE STUPID.



Angel said:
Do what ever the hell you feel like doin!
But really stop f'n making stupid threads and asking peoples opinions when we know neither you nor your mate!
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slick635235 said:
YES IT IS IF YOU ARE DECIDING WHETHER OR NOT TO BREAK UP WITH THIS GIRL.
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If it were me I would not be making threads like this.
I would sit back and take time to myself. I would weigh out all the pro's and the con's associated with this relationship. And if (Yes If) I were to ask for any ones opinion I would ask some one that was not only close to me that I could trust but I would also ask some one who knew my partner.
Now move the fuck on and stop gloggin up the board with stupid threads..It is obvious that I dont stand alone here!
 
She's not ready to settle down orbly... everything you've posted points to that.

She wants to go out and mingle... if something develops with someone else... she'll bail on you. *MOST* peeps once they feel they are with that person may want to go out every so often but in more social settings like dinner / drinks - but not clubs..... lmao...

Trust me on this..

I loved going to clubs, but it was always to pick up some hawt ass tail that I knew was down to get down... roll on E, do some blow... whatever.... I had the money, they had the pussy..
 
slick635235 said:
I am getting sick of it as she wants to keep going to clubs where everyone is around 21 years old. When is she going to stop and relax?
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she owns you. I assume she better looking then you and this is about all you could get. If you had some game you could just move on to something better.

plus club girls are big time cheaters (no stats to show but its true)
 
I was the same way until I found someone I am truly happy with. I haven't been out in months. Kinda miss it at times, but I have more money and never felt better.
 
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