Well, since reading this thread I have been very tempted to explain myself. To write out an explination of my history, and why I view sex in the manner I do. Of course if I were to do that, no one on here would ever have the same view of me again. I would get one of two reactions 1) wow, you have some seriously fucked up baggage, and your a nuttcase, or 2) oh my god... that is a very sad story, I can see where you are coming from now.