Inside a swingers club

[milo hobgoblin]

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actually the first time it did cause a little problem for her... she got a little bugged when she saw me inside another girl for the first time.... just take things at your own pace... you may get in there see all the sex and get turned on by seeing her flirt a little... like I said before.... everything changes once you step through those doors... feelings you may think you will have never happen.

Its kind of like when you go to Vegas and get really crazy. You know how the old saying goes "what happens in Vegas stay in Vegas"... well its kind of the same thing... you just have to trust ech other and feel secure that no matter how wild you get in there... that its reserved for those situations only. That outside of that lifestyle and more importantly EMOTIONALLY you still belong only to each other. I cant stress how important that is.

Its something you talk about and try and decide if its for you. Anytime you do anything unconventional in a relationship its going to be difficult

remember this... when we venture into these arenas we are going against 30+ years (or however old you are) of social conditioning about whats right and wrong when it come to sex.

What matters is what makes the two of you happy. Try not to consider what people think the "norm" is..

The people at that club were some of the most laid back, happy bunch Ive been around DEFINITELY better than regular night clubs. Lots of laughing and just hanging out.

and sex of any kind turns me on so... no I dont get jealous. Im a kinky bastard

Hell, its not like either of us were virgins before we met...

 

[THeMaCHinE]

Heh-heh, very cool. Good points to boot. If we ever visit SD, I may shoot you an e-mail to get pointed in the right direction ...

 

[WideTexxx]

fuck bro, i couldnt hang there i freak the fuck out if some dude oogles my chick at the mall, ... but more power to you and your lady.

 

[milo hobgoblin]

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I think a lot of guys "think" they would freak... but its kind of strange... you dont really feel that way.. all you can see is sex sex sex. Its a huge turn on.

Again, everyone is diffeerent as to what they can and cant handle in terms of relationships. After two marriages and an ungodly number of relationships Ive become pretty secure with myself and with women.

 

[dawookie]

Ive had a similar experience at a swing club here in S.Florida.

Me and my girl had talked about going to a swinging club back when we first met and were only fucking.. After a couple years of being exclusive and living together we took the next step and checked out the nicer swing club in Ft. Lauderdale.

We already go to the nude beach and get hit on all the time by other swinging couples.. Its funny, some couples walk around nekked except for a bunch of business cards with their names and pictures that they give out to other couples..

The women are definately in control in the swing club.. It was always the women that came up to see if we wanted to play.

I wasnt jealous watching my girl get fucked by another guy.. because at the same time I had one girl rubbing my chest and another riding my dick.. all the while Im watching my girl and the rest of the orgy in the mirror on the ceiling.

My trip to a swing club was great.. Got to have sex with an asian women (check that off the list), a spanish woman, and a white woman.. and of course my girlfriend too (spanish woman).. somehow when we got home we were still horny and had great sex for awhile after that.

 

[gonelifting]

"The longer you are their the more you stop looking for peoples physical flaws and start looking and seeing whats attractive about them. No one is going to judge or critisize you. They are just there to enjoy each other"

that`s good, Great explanation of everything in your first post.

 

[triplesixmaf]

if yu truly love someone you cant watch them get fucked by another person im sorry. trash

 

[milo hobgoblin]

well..

I think there are quite a few people on here who would disagree... but to each his own.

 

[anabolicmd]

Re: Hmmm

You have to keep this in mind... most people who enter into this lifestyle are very secure in their relationships

I thought I read somewhere recently that wife swappers have much higher divorce rates than non-swinging couples?

 

[Austin316]

eh only way in hell I would do something lke that(aybe) is if a girl "friend" of mine pretend to be together jst so we can go have soe fun lol...no way in hell would I with a girl I was supposedly in love with