In Your Last 10 Sexual Encounter How Many Were Initiated by You and Your Spouse?

[curling]

I am just doing a little research here for married persons. Please state how many times you initiate the sex out of the last 10 times and then how many times your spouse did. Oh and if your user name ain't obvious say what gender you are. Oh and how long you been married.

I'll go first... I am a dude married 17 years and out of the last 10 times I innitiated 9 of them. But I have to say the sex is getting better from themachine's advice. I think I am going to have to cut the grass to get her to come on to me more.

What about ya'll?

 

[curling]

hmmmm

last 100 times

99 me
1 my girlfriend

I know what you mean dude. I hate to give any conclusions until more data is gathered. But I bet this is going to be the norm. Hardly ever. What is wrong with women? Damn, if they only knew how much this means to us(especially when we are coming off a cycle), they would do it. Well, hopefully they would.

 

[Boach]

I say toss horniness juice into the water supply that affects women only. I don't need anymore!

 

[Boach]

BTW: out of the last 10 times, I initiated 8 times and my gf (of 4 years) initiated twice. However, I was rubbing her tits one of those two times so maybe it's only once.

 

[vixenbabe]

We'll be married 16 years May, 28th. I'm female(if there was a doubt) I've jumped his bone 8 of the 10 times. I guess I'm making up for our early years when he did all the jumping!

I read an article the other day, which asked a couple married 52 years, how they made their marriage work for so long.... The response was , "We've never fallen out of love at the same time"...Fantastic response! It just goes to show you;sometimes you have to work for the other person when they are lagging behind!

 

[addickt]

My wife always initiates sex..... She is a slut. I think that after a year or so you should be able to upgrade wives. Like the Gateway computer thing.

Just kidding, I love my wife. She makes good Pot Roast.

 

[curling]

One thing this thread is making me feel better. At least I don't feel alone in this anymore. I guess misery does love company huh?

 

[Boach]

My wife always initiates sex..... She is a slut. I think that after a year or so you should be able to upgrade wives. Like the Gateway computer thing.

Just kidding, I love my wife. She makes good Pot Roast.

Can I try her roast?

 

[curling]

My wife always initiates sex..... She is a slut. I think that after a year or so you should be able to upgrade wives. Like the Gateway computer thing.

Ok before I get jealous...when you say "slut" what do you mean? I mean is she only slut for you or others?

 

[addickt]

Ok before I get jealous...when you say "slut" what do you mean? I mean is she only slut for you or others?

She is only a slut for me, unless on special occasion I get ger to bring a friend along. Then she is a slut for her too. There is one in particular..... Yum..

Anyways, she likes to be choked while we have sex and sometimes I will even stun her with a stun gun. So i guess she is a slut.

If you try her roast, please try and leave some for me. I am generous but I need mines too.

 

[curling]

Ok knowing that dude I wouldn't call her a "slut" I would call her a "keeper".

 

[addickt]

Ok knowing that dude I wouldn't call her a "slut" I would call her a "keeper".

Wow, I never thought of that..... Seriously. The things we take for granted.

 

[Longhorn85]

Male

Married 12+ years

Sex 3-4 times a week

I have initiated 99 out of the last 100, and probably 999 out of the last 1000 but my wife says I never give her a chance to initiate, cuz I always jump her bones whenever I get a chance.

 

[Citruscide]

I would say I have initiated almost every sexual action for the last 20 or so between my girlfriend and I.

C

 

[HumorMe]

We'll be married 16 years May, 28th. I'm female(if there was a doubt)

Prove it......show us your tits.....uhm....nevermind.......you're right....you are a female.

Anyway.....back to the question.
I've been married 15 years on July 11 and the last 10 times we had sex...I initiated sex....uhm.....let's see...the first time was about 2 years ago and I initiated it that time and the next time was....let's see.....that was about 4 months later....and she...no, no, no....I initiated that one also and then about 3 months later....she initiated that one.....I think.....well shit....can we make it a little easier.....say...the last 2 times we had sex?


Now seriously, it's usually me that initiates it but sometimes she does it out of the blue. It's real nice when she does that! For every 10 times we have sex...she initiates probably 2 or 3 times.

 

[KA-BAR]

Married 7 years. last 999x me and her 1x. And her way of initiating it is saying we can have sex if you want to. lol. I told her I would like for one day her to grab me by the balls and say lets FUCK!

 

[WODIN]

Shouldn't this be and "or" question rather than an "and" question.

What's a sexual Encounter? I have a dim recollection...but...

 

[Bikini Mod]

I was married for 11 years, with the ex for 13 - hopefully FREE in a few weeks. We had four children.

But as memory serves, barring pregnancy, I initiated sex more often than not. I can honestly say that he turned me down more than the other way around (this rarely happend). When he wasn't acting like a complete tool, he was getting it MINIMUM 5 days a week....but then again, I have a very high drive.

 

[havoc]

I was married for 11 years, with the ex for 13 - hopefully FREE in a few weeks. We had four children.

But as memory serves, barring pregnancy, I initiated sex more often than not. I can honestly say that he turned me down more than the other way around (this rarely happend). When he wasn't acting like a complete tool, he was getting it MINIMUM 5 days a week....but then again, I have a very high drive.

Can I help?

 

[WODIN]

......he was getting it MINIMUM 5 days a week....but then again, I have a very high drive.

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[Bikini Mod]

You guys have NO IDEA what a freaking curse this is!

I mean, I couldn't even get a pierce!.....I would've had to go WITHOUT for minimum 6 weeks!

I was like, not even ORAL?!

The piercer was like - NOOOOOOO!

I was like, KEEP YOUR PIERCE THEN!... I'll be back when I am TOO OLD!.... heheheheheheheeee

 

[WODIN]

Banging head through wall!*

 

[curling]

Just from the responses, I guess I was correct in my observation huh? Maybe we should start sharing a little test with our wives.

I hope women on this board take note. Meet your unexpecting husband in your birthdate suit or a sexy negligei(sp) at the door and tell him you want to bang his brains out and then start attacking him agressive like. If you will do this, it will make so happy that he will probably take you shopping and lets you go crazy. Just treat'em right in the dressing room too.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I hope women on this board take note. Meet your unexpecting husband in your birthdate suit or a sexy negligei(sp) at the door and tell him you want to bang his brains out and then start attacking him agressive like. If you will do this, it will make so happy that he will probably take you shopping and lets you go crazy. Just treat'em right in the dressing room too.

You mean ALL THE WIVES don't do this?

 

[curling]

You mean ALL THE WIVES don't do this?

Sadly no, well except for the dressing room thing. Man that was fun.

I have to tell you this bikini mom but you probably already knew that your husband had no idea what a find he had in you. And I bet he regrets letting you go.

 

[Bikini Mod]

You are too kind, Curling... I have my faults BELIEVE ME. But one thing that he always said was the life with me WAS NEVER BORING!

Sadly, he STILL refuses to let go.... I know he is hurting very badly and that is the ONLY reason that I am being so patient (Yes, THE CHILDREN are the MAIN REASON.). I can't discuss specifics as it will SURELY be thrown up to me in trial, but he is DESPERATELY trying to hold and control and hurt me STILL...

I need to send him some positive energy so he can let his hate go.... perhaps this will work.

It does hurt me to see him so miserable....

 

[Trance]

It's funny that this was brought up - I was just bitching to someone about a problem I've been having.

My fiancee used to date a very frigid little gal who would have a stroke if he initiated sex. It always had to be her, if at all(isially not at all). I on the other hand, have somewhat large of an appetite. Every day is fine with me.

However, it seems that the poor training that my fiancee's ex provided has permanently screwed him up. He never initiates sex. He's more than happy when I do, which is basically every damn night, but I get tired of always being the one to get things going. It's irritating. He is also very vanilla - doesn't like to try anything new.

It's not a huge problem, but it could be. I'm not sure what to do about it.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Get him drunk and all loosened up (but not so drunk that he can't "perform" hehehe)... then bring out the 7" go-go boots and pleather thong..... and ROCK HIS WORLD!

Get all freaky on him and he will feel soooooooo good that I highly doubt he will EVER go back to old "vanilla" again. LOL

(Serious advice here)

 

[Trance]

Get him drunk and all loosened up (but not so drunk that he can't "perform" hehehe)... then bring out the 7" go-go boots and pleather thong..... and ROCK HIS WORLD!

Get all freaky on him and he will feel soooooooo good that I highly doubt he will EVER go back to old "vanilla" again. LOL

(Serious advice here)

yee hee hee

I have some freaky lingerie, and it has remained dormant, because I feel like I would scare him. LOL

I hate to feel like a ho.

Then again, I also hate the four-minute missionary bop.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Baby, ain't NUTHIN' wrong with bein' a ho!!!

In private - IT IS ALLLLLL GOOD!

 

[curling]

Man, bikini mom,

I hate to ask this but are you telling me he still has feelings for you? Cause you know how the ole saying goes you really don't know what you have until you lose it. So maybe he realizes he made a terrible mistake and would like another chance to correct it. But obviously you would still have to have feelings for him to give another try. I hope I am not stepping out of line here. (I have always been kind of an idealist) You just seem real nice and you have four girls wouldn't it be great if you could salvage the marriage and even make it better?

 

[Trance]

Baby, ain't NUTHIN' wrong with bein' a ho!!!

In private - IT IS ALLLLLL GOOD!

True, very true.

Maybe I'll get my freak on tonight.

"Getcha freak on, getcha freak on..."

 

[Bikini Mod]

Man, bikini mom,

I hate to ask this but are you telling me he still has feelings for you? Cause you know how the ole saying goes you really don't know what you have until you lose it. So maybe he realizes he made a terrible mistake and would like another chance to correct it. But obviously you would still have to have feelings for him to give another try. I hope I am not stepping out of line here. (I have always been kind of an idealist) You just seem real nice and you have four girls wouldn't it be great if you could salvage the marriage and even make it better?

Curling, u r not out of line AT ALL. As a matter of fact, it was my SINCERE HOPE that after our divorce, he would REALIZE how much he took me for granted that we would eventually remarry... but ALL LOVE AND RESPECT I had for him were gone in the blink of an eye and not for what he has or is doing to me. I am sorry, but I can not say anymore.

You are a good man and I can see that you have only the most sincere and genuine hopes for me and my girls and I truly appreciate it. But TRUST ME when I say that I and my children ARE MUCH BETTER OFF DIVORCED FROM MY EX... not downing him, just stating a fact.

Perhaps he will have the strength one day to face his own issues as I have my own this past year and he will begin to heal so that he will be able to recognize and appreciate the next woman he meets who will love him and be good to my children.

 

[vixenbabe]

Originally posted by bikinimom
Baby, ain't NUTHIN' wrong with bein' a ho!!!

In private - IT IS ALLLLLL GOOD!
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AMEN SISTER!

I'm a wife, I'm a mother, I'm a friend, and damn it I can still be the best damn Ho around!

 

[Bikini Mod]

Originally posted by bikinimom
Baby, ain't NUTHIN' wrong with bein' a ho!!!

In private - IT IS ALLLLLL GOOD!
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AMEN SISTER!

I'm a wife, I'm a mother, I'm a friend, and damn it I can still be the best damn Ho around!

Can I get ANOTHER AMEN?! tee-hee

 

[curling]

Bikini mom I understand. It did sound like you did everything in your power and he was just not going to try. I do wish you and your girls an awesome man next time. Just make sure you date em a while and know him inside and out before you let him around your girls. I say this because I have two girls too. And one of my worries if I ever died or divorced that maybe my wifes new husband might mess with them. It is just a fear of mine. I have just heard to nightmare stepdad stories I guess.

 

[Bikini Mod]

My children will only meet ONE MAN... PERIOD.

No, I am in no hurry to bring ANY MEN around my girls... they already have a daddy. Though he may be hurt and acting in ways that he may regret some day, he loves them just the same.

No, the man that I will introduce to my children will be amazing in every way... a true friend who loves and supports me REGARDLESS of the notion of sex.

Sex will be THE LEAST of it... But by GOD - WILL IT ROCK! tee-hee

 

[curling]

Cool. It sounds like you have really thought it out and have a good plan and goal. May God bless you with an awesome spouse and partner.

 

[bigguns7]

Girlfriend of 4 years - I've inititated 9 out of the last 10 times. If I had to give a total, I'd say I initiate it about 98% of the time. This post is really sad, but it makes me feel better about my relationship.

 

[curling]

Girlfriend of 4 years - I've inititated 9 out of the last 10 times. If I had to give a total, I'd say I initiate it about 98% of the time. This post is really sad, but it makes me feel better about my relationship.

Man, bro I know exactly how you feel. It is sad and at the same time it makes feel better about my relationship too. But I would even feel better if she jump my bones soon as a walked through the door one day.

 

[addickt]

What if the sex didnt involve your spouse? How do we answer then?

 

[Bikini Mod]

Cool. It sounds like you have really thought it out and have a good plan and goal. May God bless you with an awesome spouse and partner.

If it happens, then that will be awesome... if not, then that is OK too. Don't get me wrong. I have no desire to go through life alone. But I have EVEN LESS of a desire to put my girls through THIS HELL...AGAIN.

I have faith, too. I have always believed in God, Curling. The problem was not with him. It was with me. I had NO FAITH IN MYSELF.

Now that I am learning to believe in myself for the FIRST TIME SINCE I WAS A LITTLE GIRL, I have no doubt that everything will fall into place. I truly believe that God helps those who help themselves!

 

[curling]

Now that I am learning to believe in myself for the FIRST TIME SINCE I WAS A LITTLE GIRL, I have no doubt that everything will fall into place. I truly believe that God helps those who help themselves! [/B]

Definetely.

Also as far as the man hunt goes. Just do what you women do the best "SHOP" and get the best one.