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*MissFit*
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Noooooo
Actually girls don't like assholes, they just like made men. It just so happens that assholes have some traits of made men.
When I say made men...it could mean a few things..you are viewed as sexy by women. Why? Maybe you look like you take care of yourself. You have a certain charm. She connects with you when you talk. Etc.
It could mean you just have mastered the art of making a girl associate you with happiness, with laughing, with feeling good about herself. Also importantly, feeling COMFORTABLE.
The thing about made men..they're independent. They were made before the chick, and they're going to be made after the chick.
Well, assholes, have this same mentality..."with or without you, I'm pushing forward. I don't NEED you." But damnit they want us to need them. It really fucks with their head when they are so used to chumps begging for sex. "Let me open the door for you....HOW ABOUT SOME DICK?" Chris Rock is a very good observer.
Assholes aren't going to be as successful as true made men in the long run, because most of the time, assholes truly do not care about their women. Made men do--they treat them with respect, but they NEVER become dependent on the girl. They are their own man.
When I say made men...it could mean a few things..you are viewed as sexy by women. Why? Maybe you look like you take care of yourself. You have a certain charm. She connects with you when you talk. Etc.
It could mean you just have mastered the art of making a girl associate you with happiness, with laughing, with feeling good about herself. Also importantly, feeling COMFORTABLE.
The thing about made men..they're independent. They were made before the chick, and they're going to be made after the chick.
Well, assholes, have this same mentality..."with or without you, I'm pushing forward. I don't NEED you." But damnit they want us to need them. It really fucks with their head when they are so used to chumps begging for sex. "Let me open the door for you....HOW ABOUT SOME DICK?" Chris Rock is a very good observer.
Assholes aren't going to be as successful as true made men in the long run, because most of the time, assholes truly do not care about their women. Made men do--they treat them with respect, but they NEVER become dependent on the girl. They are their own man.
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flowerz
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If you are looking to attract the trashy whore type, then acting like an asshole will work for you.
If you want to attract a self-respecting, loving woman, be a gentleman.
If you want to attract a self-respecting, loving woman, be a gentleman.
PaganPunkstress
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flowerz said:
there ya go, I couldnt have said it better.
Forge
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flowerz said:
The REAL problem for the gentleman is keeping the loving woman's interest. This is the reason why nice guys tend to lose women and be alone; women like men who are unpredictable (to a degree) and slightly forceful. Women like power, or rather they like being around powerful men. And when I say power, I'm talking about the man's ability to stir an emotional response in her, good or bad. Nice guys tend to fawn over the woman or cater to her, after awhile she becomes bored and loses interest because he isn't stirring powerful emotions in her.
Assholes may be jerks, but they get emotional rises out of women, hence the jerks always getting the women over the nice guys. Humor can go a long way in stirring emotions too, even if it's at her expense. Kind acts and nice gestures rarely get the same kind of emotional responses. Women say they like nice guys because they think it's what they want, but in the end they go for the guys who get their emotions charged up.
The one thing that can make a truly nice guy more desirable is good looks, and that's only because his appearance alone gets emotional responses. A fat ugly short man who gets the door for a lady won't get a second glance, but if he is a Brad Pitt then he will get a smile and a look, and maybe more.
Emotions is the key to women.
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Gymgurl said:
True, but the REAL problem is that there aren't that many smart girls. If you want a better chance of hooking up for sex, especially at clubs or bars, then playing the asshole is your best bet.
I've never had a fling or a one night stand, it's just not my style, but I have had many offers and just about every one of them was when I was in a bad mood and just being an ass and not caring about the woman's feelings I was talking to. Alot of women seem to get off on that for some odd reason.
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In my opinion it is all about representing strength/dominance. An asshole persona shows that they are confident enough to act in a manner that will not please everyone and they don't care. You can be the man; know it, show it, but not treat people badly and this will be yeild the highest quality girls. The problem with it is that you can not fake what I just stated, your confidence and charisma must be geniuine or you will not project the strength you need to and you would be better off just being a dick. I could be wrong, I haven't been single in a while but I did pretty well when I was and I don't remember being a shithead.
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flowerz
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Mike LI said:
‘’An asshole persona shows that they are confident enough to act in a manner that will not please everyone and they don't care.’’
Asshole persona does not equal confidence IMO.
My definition of asshole is a guy who is rude, perverted, and doesn’t respect other people’s boundaries. That wreaks insecurity.
‘’You can be the man; know it, show it, but not treat people badly and this will be yield the highest quality girls. ''
Agreed.
Xx_Metro_xX
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Do give females all the power....When you go around needing sex like a fiend and chase them and buy them drinks you give them all the power to fuck with and spend your money for you and allow them to get the most out of that slutty, expensive dress they just bought....
Girls are attracted to assholes and homosexuals, because either they are so into themselves that sex isn't as high on their priority list or they are gay and don't want anything to do with women....either way sex is not a top priority.
Your good enough, your smart enough and gosh darnit they should be chasing you....
If you can't tell, i've been played with so many times and had to learn the hard way. I started off a really nice guy and now I manipulate the shit out of girls and get drinks from them....
Look for my book in a couple years
Girls are attracted to assholes and homosexuals, because either they are so into themselves that sex isn't as high on their priority list or they are gay and don't want anything to do with women....either way sex is not a top priority.
Your good enough, your smart enough and gosh darnit they should be chasing you....
If you can't tell, i've been played with so many times and had to learn the hard way. I started off a really nice guy and now I manipulate the shit out of girls and get drinks from them....
Look for my book in a couple years
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flowerz
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Xx_Metro_xX said:Do give females all the power....When you go around needing sex like a fiend and chase them and buy them drinks you give them all the power to fuck with and spend your money for you and allow them to get the most out of that slutty, expensive dress they just bought....
Girls are attracted to assholes and homosexuals, because either they are so into themselves that sex isn't as high on their priority list or they are gay and don't want anything to do with women....either way sex is not a top priority.
Your good enough, your smart enough and gosh darnit they should be chasing you....
If you can't tell, i've been played with so many times and had to learn the hard way. I started off a really nice guy and now I manipulate the shit out of girls and get drinks from them....
Look for my book in a couple years
You can CHOOSE a woman who uses you.
You can CHOOSE a woman who treats you right.
You can CHOOSE to use women.
Gymgurl said:
I don't go out of my way to act like an asshole, but I'm not a nice guy, and I'm very direct with people. I'm not touchy feely and I don't baby people, I generally treat people how they treat me. If they act like they don't give a fuck I do the same. If that makes me an asshole, so be it. I really don't care. As far as "assholes are great for good sex", I don't pick up random women so that really doesn't apply.
Snypr said:
You're going about this wrong my friend. If it's not real, if it's not true, then eventually it will show. Of course if all you're looking for is one night stands, then it's a moot point. Eventually you'll get tired of that and it will feel empty. No one is saying you need to be an asshole to attract women, you are better off just being yourself as cheesy as that sounds. Why would you want to be a fraud? Is getting a piece of pussy worth selling yourself out?
Mike LI said:
Michael, you described it to a tee. That's called "machismo". It's not necessarily being an asshole, but having the confidence to do what you want regardless of what people think, EVEN IF YOU DO COME OFF LIKE AN ASSHOLE. That's the difference. Exerting your dominance means you do what you do regardless of others, make your own way, self-reliance. Being an asshole non-stop is a dead end, it doesn't work longterm when you are looking for marriage material type women.
Xx_Metro_xX said:Do give females all the power....When you go around needing sex like a fiend and chase them and buy them drinks you give them all the power to fuck with and spend your money for you and allow them to get the most out of that slutty, expensive dress they just bought....Girls are attracted to assholes and homosexuals, because either they are so into themselves that sex isn't as high on their priority list or they are gay and don't want anything to do with women....either way sex is not a top priority.
Your good enough, your smart enough and gosh darnit they should be chasing you....
Part of what you said is correct. The reason why women find assholes and homosexuals intruiging is because sex isn't a priority and often not even a concern. That said, once they get over the novelty of your attitude, they will lose interest and the only type of woman you'll be left with is the low-self esteem types that generally stay in longterm relationships with assholes. However, if one night stands are your concern, you are certainly playing your cards right.
DIV
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And once again DIV tells it like it is...props to you bro...
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