Stick, now bear in mind, just stating a fact here ... I can remember on at least two separate occasions my husband had scabs on his uhh, y'know ... to be perfectly blunt, you tickle and screw for about 6 hours straight things get rubbed plain raw.
Yes, I drew blood
you can't play with scabs, you gotta leave that stuff alone and let it heal hun.
Now is it neglect or exuberence, hell, I don't know. We had a helluva good time wearing it out and we had a damn good time waiting for it to heal so we could try to wear it out again