I like this girl

[Blue Star]

I like this girl who works with me. I've only started talking to her recently and we get on quite well. I am certain she likes me plus everybody at works seems to think so.

The problem is she's married, separated and has a kid. Now, I've never dated anyone with a kid before. I'm not too sure what is the best way to approach this. She works 5 days a week and i'm assumin the time she has off is spent with her kid. Plus, don't know how close she is with her ex?

How should i play this folks.

 

[PBR]

bro a "seperated woman" should be treated with great care...personally i wouldnt even go there- youre setting yourself up for a fall...youre going to be the transition guy and get used while she goes thru her divorce if thats her choice....you need to find out alot more info before jumping into anything with a married woman....
in this situation you also have the kid deal- where visitation rights and times come into play....during a divorce this is a bad time for kids....alot of stress is placed on all parties involved...an EX or current husband in a new divorce is not ideal to say the least....get more info....IMO you will be opening PANDORAS BOX....

 

[Juice Authority]

Fuck her and forget about it.

 

[Railgun]

You should also consider the fact that you work with her--if things don't work out you're going to have to see her every day. Also, if your co-workers already know she likes you then they will also know if things turn sour...

 

[Tytan]

Don`t get involved w/ the kid just yet.Take time to get to know her first and see if things click. Once you spend time w/ her kid things could change a little so go slow.

 

[theoak01]

Don`t get involved w/ the kid just yet.Take time to get to know her first and see if things click. Once you spend time w/ her kid things could change a little so go slow.

exactly,always out her child first,a child doesnt need guys running in and out of their life all the time,it will fuck them up. go slow and visit once little johnny goes to bed,thats how I went about seeing a girl with a child

 

[markshark]

Don`t get involved w/ the kid just yet.Take time to get to know her first and see if things click. Once you spend time w/ her kid things could change a little so go slow.

yea. this one girl i had a crush on the whole time in highschool (im now 22) had a kid and i hadnt really seen her since highschool but then we both worked in the mall so i would see her every so often and eventually we hooked up, but she asked me one day to come see her with her kid at a local playground and i didnt because i dont know it was just weird. plus shes not with the baby's dad, shes with some other guy now and wouldve been cheating on him with me. woulda been fucked up.