I cant talk on the dam phone!

[awms]

When it comes to women i can get them and i can talk in person fine but on the phone i cant talk! i hate the phone! ne one eles? or am i a werido lol

 

[victoria978]

Usually it's the opposite. If you're on the phone, you can write down what you want to say before you dial the phone. Try that............

 

[awms]

fuck i dont wanna do that lol i just dont like the phone il strait up tell a girl lol but in person im fine. id rather talk in person its much better! what up with girl and the phone ne ways?

 

[victoria978]

fuck i dont wanna do that lol i just dont like the phone il strait up tell a girl lol but in person im fine. id rather talk in person its much better! what up with girl and the phone ne ways?

I dunno............ I'm 27 - if you're younger, then that's probably it. Young chicks love the phone. I prefer face to face contact.

 

[mrplunkey]

Some people get anxiety over "high pressure" phone conversations. The key is to just relax, take deep breaths, and be yourself. You're putting waaaaay too much emphasis on a single phone call. Basically you have to just say "fuck it" and start chatting her up.

 

[awms]

yea tru i hear u! i wonder why i do that its wierd!

 

[TVG]

Just don't talk on the phone for very long. I hate talking on the phone too lol. To be honest I find any flirting you do on the phone is not even close as effective as in person. If she calls you, talk for a good 5 minutes, shouldn't be to hard (it gets harder and harder the longer you talk) and then say you have to go.

 

[Ilk]

I dunno............ I'm 27 - if you're younger, then that's probably it. Young chicks love the phone. I prefer face to face contact.

I agree.. Just be comfortable and relax while on the phone.. Don't make the conversation 20min long, 10min is long enough, be yourself don't flirt on the phone thats pointless, better face to face Or just come right out and say yr not really a phone person and you prefer to look at her beauitful face while engaging in conversation! That'll work You've given her a compliment too, You can't go wrong! Make it clear.. or keep it short and sweet!

 

[needtogetaas]

bro you dont have to talk.lol
just ask them a few quastoins and lissen to them go.

 

[Ilk]

bro you dont have to talk.lol
just ask them a few quastoins and lissen to them go.

Damn I forgot to mention that! Very true! She won't stop talking!

 

[skochur]

they just keep goin nd goin

 

[Deleted member 33117]

they just keep goin nd goin

Exactally. Just learn how to periodically say "oh yeah, really?", "then what did he/she say/do?", "yeah, I really can't blame you for getting pissed off about that", etc.

 

[anthrax]

You can even play on your PlayStation 3 while she keeps talking

 

[Deleted member 33117]

You can even play on your PlayStation 3 while she keeps talking

Yep, just keep the volume down on your video games so she thinks you are listening intently.

 

[Razorguns]

it's natural. women have been masters of social conversation for centuries.

if you can't talk, just stick to the points, be direct and ALWAYS be he first to end the conversation.

not saying much, but being mysterious is a major turn on. stumbling and always looking for words and awkward silences isn't.