Just to let ya'll know what kind of husband I am . . .
yesterday I got home from work before my wife. It stormed pretty bad here with high winds and lots of pouring rain. Our power was out when I got home, so I took the dog outside so she could pee, got dressed to go to the gym and called my wife to see when she would be home.
About 10 minutes before I expected her to arrive, I had picked up the house a bit, lit candles, placed the lighter in clear sight, along with the flashlight, lit a bunch of candles in the bathroom and drew up a nice warm bath so she could relax when she got home, especially since there wasn't much else she could do (she passed up going to the gym with me). She was pleasantly surprised and took me up on my offer to relax in a nice warm candle lit bath.
Now about 5 years ago I would have expected some sex before she got in the bath, or maybe later that night, but now I know better LOL. I don't expect anything at all in return for stuff like that. I just do it because I love her so much.
I'm very optimistic that we will get the sexual problems solved sometime in the next 10-20 years (hopefully ASAP, but i'm patient). So if this is the worst thing we have to go through, I think we will have been very blessed. Maybe I should go on a Deca cycle and no PCT to reduce my own cravings... lol