It is a 50% 50% with me and my girl... some times she jumps on me some times I jump on her. Sex is like a therapy to me, I have to have it or it becomes like build up stress... There are times when she is not in the mood and she will still drop her panties and bend over the bed so that I can have some release... Some times when I come home stressed from work she'll lay me back on the bed and give me as nice BJ and ride me till I bust, she'll then serve me dinner... if she is not feeling well she will let me know and we leave it at that... But most of the times she helps me bust a nutt.