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How often do you get hugged?

How often do you get hugged?

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    Votes: 6 30.0%

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  • Every Day

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uamaverick

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Apparently, most people get hugged at least once a day. I might get hugged about 10 times in an entire year. WTF.

Also, side hugs don't count. I'm talking about real hugs.
 
If you hug me your ass gets suplexed and then scissors kicked in the fucking head. Fuck hugs and fucki displays of affection, I hate all you mutha fuckers and wish to strangle you all with your own intestines. :) Hope the rest of your day goes good bro.
 
Oh is that what it is?
 
Never. I never hug anyone. That's strange to me that people touch each other that often :lmao: Oh, I forgot about Abby, I hug her all the time...
 
I hate being hugged, but that's because I have high-functioning autism. Hugging is an invasion, and is highly offensive, and you might as well kick me in the nuts. Feeling is the same to an autistic. I cringe when I have to allow it to be polite to "nice" people who think everyone likes to be hugged. (does not apply to my wife, of course ;) )

Charles
 
kx250rider said:
I hate being hugged, but that's because I have high-functioning autism. Hugging is an invasion, and is highly offensive, and you might as well kick me in the nuts. Feeling is the same to an autistic. I cringe when I have to allow it to be polite to "nice" people who think everyone likes to be hugged. (does not apply to my wife, of course ;) )

Charles
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I also, do not like being hugged. I will hug everyone if I've been drinking though ;) but I don't even hug my parents. We just don't touch each other like that :lmao:
 
I can honestly say I hug all of my friends or family every time I greet them or say goodbye. I also make a make sure I hug everyone in my home at least once a day (i.e., husband, daughter, some cats) just on general principal.

Cindy, LOL, you made me remember something ... the first time I met my first husband's mother, as we were leaving her I realized he hadn't given her a hug and kiss goodbye. I asked him why not, he said he never kissed his mother, like it was gross. I said "Go kiss your mom!" :lmao: (he did, too).

Nice thing about it being a habit, you may never know when it is the last time you say goodbye. I can honestly say the last exchange I had with my mother ended with me giving her a kiss and saying "I love you, ma, see you tomorrow" her response was "okay, babe, love you too."

Okay, I'm outta here, my eyes have fogged over ...
 
I hate hugs unless its from my youngest...sometimes my spouse

I rarely get hugs...I view it as an invasion of space
 
I would like to hug all you fuckers.
 
LOL my husband's family is white and they are affecitonate as hell...my FIL hugs me all the time, and kisses me...ON THE LIPS!!!!!!!! So strange....I'm always like, omg. He's so sweet but I'm not used to it at all..I get stiff as a board and so uncomfortable :lmao:

MM, I know I need to be more affectionate and tell people how much I care. Sometimes I'm standing there and I want to hug or say I love you...but I can't. I just can't get it out of my mouth? :confused:
 
cindylou said:
MM, I know I need to be more affectionate and tell people how much I care. Sometimes I'm standing there and I want to hug or say I love you...but I can't. I just can't get it out of my mouth? :confused:
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Well, that's where the hugging part comes in. You hug instead of saying I love you and work up to the words. Baby steps.

I thought Christians were all about the love? Weird. Pagans are big time huggers.

I'm not big on the kiss on the lip thing, either, though, much prefer the cheek.
 
cindylou said:
LOL my husband's family is white and they are affecitonate as hell...my FIL hugs me all the time, and kisses me...ON THE LIPS!!!!!!!! So strange....I'm always like, omg. He's so sweet but I'm not used to it at all..I get stiff as a board and so uncomfortable :lmao:

MM, I know I need to be more affectionate and tell people how much I care. Sometimes I'm standing there and I want to hug or say I love you...but I can't. I just can't get it out of my mouth? :confused:
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I'm like this too...my best friend is male....and I truly love him but rarely say it

he knows it...hes more likely to say it than me

if he touches me at all Im always horrified
I even get stiff when my older kids touch me (nice mom huh?) but always held them constantly when they were babies..

I'd love to know what the dynamic here that causes that
 
musclemom said:
Well, that's where the hugging part comes in. You hug instead of saying I love you and work up to the words. Baby steps.

I thought Christians were all about the love? Weird. Pagans are big time huggers.

I'm not big on the kiss on the lip thing, either, though, much prefer the cheek.
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I'm all about the love, I love everyone! It just seems so :rainbow: to say it all the time, I've learned to move my face so he gets my cheek now lol
 
cindylou said:
I'm all about the love, I love everyone! It just seems so :rainbow: to say it all the time
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:confused: I say it to my husband every time we talk on the phone, when he leaves for work, he says it back, too ... I only said it to my mom when I was leaving or going out, something like that.
 
shirlene29 said:
I'm like this too...my best friend is male....and I truly love him but rarely say it

he knows it...hes more likely to say it than me

if he touches me at all Im always horrified
I even get stiff when my older kids touch me (nice mom huh?) but always held them constantly when they were babies..

I'd love to know what the dynamic here that causes that
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What about your husband? I was always up for a hug or I'd sit on his lap or cuddle while we watched a movie/tv. I'm pretty affecionate w/ Abby....
 
musclemom said:
:confused: I say it to my husband every time we talk on the phone, when he leaves for work, he says it back, too ... I only said it to my mom when I was leaving or going out, something like that.
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I dunno. I wasn't raised that way. My parents were totally different from my husband's family, mine are formal and private his were laid back and loud. I'm really close w/ my parents, I see them almost every day but we don't say I love you or hug or anything like that. :confused: we must be weird....dysfunctional :lmao:
 
ceo said:
This is what I go for too, if the chick is good looking. If not, just a hug.



no shit, huh? Fucking white people are the only ones that have problems with this shit. I hate white people!
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Who the fuck is white around here? :confused:
 
some girls are major huggers and will attempt sweet embrace every time you see them. in college multiple times per day, now like never
 
Really, please don't fucking touch me. A handshake is about as much intimacy I can stand from anyone unless there's the potential for sexage.
 
People who think hugs are weird, are weird. I have no invasion of space issues here, but I can understand a bit of weirdness.

I usually associate prolonged (more than second) physical contact with something romantic/intimate, so I only truly liked hugs from the ex gf. She's the only one that I'd really hug...I'd squeeze the stuffing out of her several times a day. Everyone else gets a perfunctory hug.

Hugs from Mom are ok, from Dad less so...but not awkward or uncomfortable. Other hugs are just business-like, and rare.

I'm not especially warm or demonstrative, but I do believe that physical contact (whether it's a hug or something else) is important, saying "I love you" is also important...just showing your love in general. I think it can make a difference in oyur overall health and well-being.

It's hard, we take it for granted, etc...but it's the better way to be.
 
I give hugs.... and reach arounds :D

Nah, on a serious notes, just my husband and just sometimes and once in a while when I see mom or my siblings after months of not seeing them, other than that I dont like touching or being touched, specially my face, husband knows he can touch anything but the face, I dont like it, makes me tense and uncomfortable.

True story:

When working in Alienware this guy was all touchy feely (like many latin dudes) and would put his arm around you or his hand on your leg or shit like that I find very disrespectful but is normal over there.... anywho I was riding in the company transportation and was telling another coworker about how I didnt like him and how hw touched me but that I knew it was normal and I just dont like it. Next day my boss calls me to his office and says he got reports that Max had touched me innapropriately and that he wanted to know what happened so we could tell HR :lmao: poor guy almost got into trouble :worried:
 
jackangel said:
People who think hugs are weird, are weird. I have no invasion of space issues here, but I can understand a bit of weirdness.

I usually associate prolonged (more than second) physical contact with something romantic/intimate, so I only truly liked hugs from the ex gf. She's the only one that I'd really hug...I'd squeeze the stuffing out of her several times a day. Everyone else gets a perfunctory hug.

Hugs from Mom are ok, from Dad less so...but not awkward or uncomfortable. Other hugs are just business-like, and rare.

I'm not especially warm or demonstrative, but I do believe that physical contact (whether it's a hug or something else) is important, saying "I love you" is also important...just showing your love in general. I think it can make a difference in oyur overall health and well-being.

It's hard, we take it for granted, etc...but it's the better way to be.
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Time is what is important to me and my family and I give them lots of it. I don't have to be showered with physical affection or dripped in kisses. I just want time from the people who say they love me. I've heard the I love you crap when it's empty, and it does not mean shit if there is nothing behind it. There are a million ways to show love and it does not have to be with a hug or a kiss or a phrase :heart: My parents may not have hugged me often, but they were always there for me and still are there for me to this day, I know they love me, and I know they know I love them because of the time I spend w/ them.
 
jackangel said:
People who think hugs are weird, are weird. I have no invasion of space issues here, but I can understand a bit of weirdness.

I usually associate prolonged (more than second) physical contact with something romantic/intimate, so I only truly liked hugs from the ex gf. She's the only one that I'd really hug...I'd squeeze the stuffing out of her several times a day. Everyone else gets a perfunctory hug.

Hugs from Mom are ok, from Dad less so...but not awkward or uncomfortable. Other hugs are just business-like, and rare.

I'm not especially warm or demonstrative, but I do believe that physical contact (whether it's a hug or something else) is important, saying "I love you" is also important...just showing your love in general. I think it can make a difference in oyur overall health and well-being.

It's hard, we take it for granted, etc...but it's the better way to be.
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Space is one thing, but being distant with the people you are close to is not a healthy, or happy way to live, and this one's been proven by science. For lack of a better phrase, hugs are good for your health:

FOXNews.com - A Hug A Day Could Save Your Life - Health News | Current Health News | Medical News

For those who aren't interested in clicking the link, I think this is probably one of the more pertinent paragraphs:

There’s an underlying scientific explanation for the seemingly magical qualities of a hug that these researchers uncovered. Each time we hug, we increase the level of oxytocin in the blood. This hormone is known as the bonding hormone because it triggers a “caring” response in both men and women. Oxytocin stimulates contractions of the uterus during labor and the release of milk during breast-feeding, so we literally learn to depend on it in the womb.

As adults, that daily dose of oxytocin-laced hugging protects us from heart disease. And while it works for both sexes, women seem to be the greater benefactors as exhibited by the second phase of the study.

The men and women participants were taken to separate rooms where their blood pressure and levels of oxytocin were tested. The couples were reunited and instructed to sit together and talk about a time when they were especially happy. After their talk, they watched five minutes of a romantic film and then were left alone to talk to each other for another 10 minutes. Finally, the couples were asked to hug for 20 seconds.

When the researchers tested the levels of oxytocin after the hug, both men and women showed an increase. However, the researchers also discovered that all of the women had reduced levels of cortisol following the hug. Cortisol is another hormone produced by the adrenal glands as part of the body’s response to stress. The fact that the women participants’ cortisol levels were significantly lower means that females are especially responsive to the calming effects of a hug-- proving that a hug a day can go a long way to keeping a woman you love heart healthy.
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few times a day by various bishes and sometimes one of my buddies, I rarely go a day without a hug anymore...

I make sure I smell nice all the time, that helps I think lol :biggrin: no homo
 
cindylou said:
Time is what is important to me and my family and I give them lots of it. I don't have to be showered with physical affection or dripped in kisses. I just want time from the people who say they love me. I've heard the I love you crap when it's empty, and it does not mean shit if there is nothing behind it. There are a million ways to show love and it does not have to be with a hug or a kiss or a phrase :heart: My parents may not have hugged me often, but they were always there for me and still are there for me to this day, I know they love me, and I know they know I love them because of the time I spend w/ them.
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maybe if you were hugged more, you wouldn't be such a rabid christian hate machine
 
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I get plenty throughout the day. I also give plenty. for me, its almost automatic, i don't really think before hugging friends and family.
 
after I visit my Dad tomorrow I'll give him a hug and tell him I love him. I didn't realize our relationship was so dysfunctional :lmao:
 
Phnx i will hug your fucking throat with my hand
 
I rarely receive a hug. I think that if I got them more often it would help bring my stress and anxiety levels down. Sometimes you need to FEEL loved. Anyone can say it, but showing it means more I think.
 
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Strongbow said:
If you hug me your ass gets suplexed and then scissors kicked in the fucking head. Fuck hugs and fucki displays of affection, I hate all you mutha fuckers and wish to strangle you all with your own intestines. :) Hope the rest of your day goes good bro.
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What about those quick hugs with three manly back slaps the mob guys do?
 
*ebony* said:
I get plenty throughout the day. I also give plenty. for me, its almost automatic, i don't really think before hugging friends and family.
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:heart: People like you can snap me out of a sad or angry mood with those hugs. I'm glad that most of my female friends are huggers.
 
canadianhitman said:
:heart: People like you can snap me out of a sad or angry mood with those hugs. I'm glad that most of my female friends are huggers.
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yea, hugs can have that affect on me as well, its reassuring and calming, i love getting them.

Im a pretty affectionate person, thus my thoughtlessness when it comes to physical contact sometimes..most times. just never thought it was a big deal.....i guess it is to a lot of people.:whatever:
 
jackangel said:
Threatening EF members (especially females) is not allowed.

Banned.
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I will hug your 126 lbs ass as well, with my hand round your throat bish. And that was not a threat.
 
cindylou said:
I'll hug you! I'm sick too :(
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I just spent the last 4 hours in the ER with Abby because she drank my cough syrup this morning. Guess who was waiting for me in the waiting room when I got there? My Dad :heart: He told me that I shouldn't have to face these things alone. He does not need to hug me to show me that he loves me :heart: :heart: :heart:

not that I needed him there, Abby gets into everything, I'm always on the phone w/ poison control..but it was nice to see him anyway
 
cindylou said:
I just spent the last 4 hours in the ER with Abby because she drank my cough syrup this morning. Guess who was waiting for me in the waiting room when I got there? My Dad :heart: He told me that I shouldn't have to face these things alone. He does not need to hug me to show me that he loves me :heart: :heart: :heart:

not that I needed him there, Abby gets into everything, I'm always on the phone w/ poison control..but it was nice to see him anyway
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it's nice to share moments of affection with family and friends doesnt have to be physical, I've gotten tons of love from my mom and husband since the shitty weekend and we've barely touched eachother.
 
nangiggles said:
it's nice to share moments of affection with family and friends doesnt have to be physical, I've gotten tons of love from my mom and husband since the shitty weekend and we've barely touched eachother.
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aww....I'm sorry you had a bad wkend. I do need to be better with the affection toward family members. I know I'm a little strange in that way. I'm in denial. This seems pretty :rainbow: but I realized something about myself in this thread that I didn't know. lol I guess EF is good for something.

I'm giving you an e-hug right now nan! lol
 
:busy:

cindylou said:
I just spent the last 4 hours in the ER with Abby because she drank my cough syrup this morning. Guess who was waiting for me in the waiting room when I got there? My Dad :heart: He told me that I shouldn't have to face these things alone. He does not need to hug me to show me that he loves me :heart: :heart: :heart:

not that I needed him there, Abby gets into everything, I'm always on the phone w/ poison control..but it was nice to see him anyway
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*ebony* said:
how would you guys greet people from here if you met IRL?
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I'd hug you all. Mix in some ass grabbing too. You know, feelin the love. :D
 
*ebony* said:
just never thought it was a big deal.....i guess it is to a lot of people.:whatever:
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Mostly only a big deal to uppity, white devils.
 
cindylou said:
aww....I'm sorry you had a bad wkend. I do need to be better with the affection toward family members. I know I'm a little strange in that way. I'm in denial. This seems pretty :rainbow: but I realized something about myself in this thread that I didn't know. lol I guess EF is good for something.

I'm giving you an e-hug right now nan! lol
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:friends:
 
nangiggles said:
I've seen bunch of wimmenz all up in billfred's profile/wall... must be some powerful pictures.
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just wait till OMEGA unveils his pics!!!
 
On a lighter note I would like to offer CEO a hug
 
no one hugged me today

now Im keeping track and feeling unloved

someone hug me...fuck my boundary issues
 
this is who usually hugs me :)

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shirlene29 said:
no one hugged me today

now Im keeping track and feeling unloved

someone hug me...fuck my boundary issues
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lol (((((((HUG)))))))

you should know that very few people get hugs while im in my panties and a tank fresh out the shower. Its only fair that u should know our ehug was not a fully clothed one. But thats what u get asking for one right as im heading to bed!lol
 
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Unless we're blood relatives, or you want me to stick my penis into one of your holes, a handshake is as intimate as I want to get.
 
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