I hate the fucking things, without you can ride all night ,come (more or less) when you want and do the thing justice . With ,it's a different story , I'm not into quick things at all so if the girl is unsure I usally say ,"we can wait until you are".Thankfully it's not ususally that long. I never get that thing where if you're on the job for pleasure , you're prepared to sacrifice at lest half of that pleasure for a quick lay.