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How many partners is tooo many?

FreakMonster

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Let's say you've just met a girl and you want to start a relationship and the talk comes round to how many people you've both slept with. How many is too many and at what age? What would totally put you right off.
 
I refuse to hold the # of people a person's been with against them. It doesn't seem fair. It's not like they were supposed to "wait" for me. I don't really think it matters as long as both people are open about their sexual histories and everyone is safe.
 
FreakMonster said:
Let's say you've just met a girl and you want to start a relationship and the talk comes round to how many people you've both slept with. How many is too many and at what age? What would totally put you right off.
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What would put me off?

Somebody that is too worried about how many women I've slept with.:(
 
how many partners is too few? what matters in this world to som doesn't matter to others... ther is no answer to your question my friend... in fact I am not really sure there is anything such as the right decision or answer to anything.
 
Let's see there are 6,000,000,000 people so if the slept with 5,999,999,999 other people, basically everyone but me then I would have to take a stand on principals. I mean that's just being rude!
 
manny78 said:
well lets say over 1000 there's an obvious problem.....
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LOL

But seriously if a chick had been with over 5 by the time she 20 I would think twice about her as being a possible wife.
 
As far as the number, well anyone who says it doesnt matter is taking a risk. The higher number of past partners is more risky as far as STD's or AIDS. I'd want to know for that reason.

But more important is how long they were with a person; was it a one night stand, or was it long term, etc. Someone who changes partners a lot i'd be suspicious of how stable they are and how committed they are to a person.

Personally, i'd rather have a girl with a few long term relationships then one who changes partners every few months.
 
The past is the past.
 
You can't be serious - you actually question 5 partners by the time she is 20? The average person has intercourse for the first time @ 15. Five partners in five years isn't acceptable? It seems the younger the male the more they're insecure about the quantity of sexual partners. What you should worry about is the quality of partners.

The past is the past as long as there's not a psychological issue related to it – like screwing the entire Laker Team.
 
It doesn't really matter. If she's a ho she a ho. You don't need to hear a number to find out if she's a ho or not. Just a little will well to you. And remember y'all, you can't make a ho a housewife.
 
I'll have to say that the number doesn't matter. As long as there is no risk as was said before of anything being contracted and shared shall we say, it shouldn't really matter.
 
I met a girl/wonam who was 24, she had 45 previous guys. Now that was just too many for me. Those were different men, some were boyfriends some were not. She was probably a warm pail of water :P


##spiderbaby##
 
As I have told every girl I have ever dated.... as far as I am concerned, you were a virgin until I slept with you. And I was one too.

I just simply don't wanna know.
 
Michael Gigante said:
You can't be serious - you actually question 5 partners by the time she is 20? The average person has intercourse for the first time @ 15. Five partners in five years isn't acceptable? It seems the younger the male the more they're insecure about the quantity of sexual partners. What you should worry about is the quality of partners.

The past is the past as long as there's not a psychological issue related to it ? like screwing the entire Laker Team.
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So you are saying you would marry a girl that has done the whole laker team hmmm? What about a whole football team then? Or what if she had done all your friends before you met her? So everytime you had a get together with your buds you know all of them have had your wife. Seriously that wouldn't bother you?
 
manfromyard said:
So....if she had one man's dick in her ass 33 times..is that better than three guys 11 times each...lol
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uh...yeah...because those 3 guys have each slept with 10 girls and those 10 girls have each slept with 3 other guys, which means she has now actually slept with 63 people!!!!! Ewwww....:xeye:
 
polarpixie said:



uh...yeah...because those 3 guys have each slept with 10 girls and those 10 girls have each slept with 3 other guys, which means she has now actually slept with 63 people!!!!! Ewwww....:xeye:
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I guess that's true...but if you take that out..it's all the same mathematically...:mix:
 
I feel anything over 6-8 by the age of 20 is getting to "whore status" also if a chick is willing to fuck you or blow you on the first or 2nd date always take a mintue to think to yourself "well I know I am not that speical that I am the first one she has done this to" just use common sense. Another good arguement not to go down on a girl till you know her past history, you don't want to be sucking the equivlant of 45 dicks while you are downtown on her.....just something to think about.

Drizz
 
God I def would be completely turned off at a high number, if its low Id almost rathr just not know
 
if she can count them on one hand then i am ok, but it goes past that then i am little on the not sure if this is the right girl for me side. if more than two hands, i will fuck her and send her on her way. I DON'T KEEP WITH SLUTS. My definition of a slut, anybody who has had a lot of partners. A lot depends on age, and other factors.

ok ok. most of you don't give a shit about my opinion. so why did i type all that out? i have no freaking clue. ok, i will get to my point. bottom line, i think you should decide how many is too many. it comes down to what you are comfortable with.
 
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Like Matt the Skywalker said "the past is the past", it makes no difference, you guys on here are judging a person by how many people they have slept with? First, who are you to judge anyone? Judge yourself first, if you did this in a proper fashion your quick to judge ass would see you are a living contradiction. peace
 
Reality check for those who say it doesn't matter. Every time you do something it becomes easier to do. Promiscuous people make a very poor risk if you value loyalty.

I'd say that more than one partner/year would concern me. It's just statistics....I look at those closely.

If we are just having fun then I do not care about her past.
 
Well...

There's a girl I'm becoming interested in. She's a good friend and it looks like something more may develop.....
She's been with a LOT of guys. I won't say how many, but's it's like 5 times the number of girls I've been with.

Know what? It doesn't bother me at all. I care about her and she cares about me. Whoever came before and whoever may come after just isn't a factor.

I'm the most openminded person I know when it comes to sex, so maybe I'm unique. :) I know 99% of other guys coun't hanlde it. But hey, if you hold someones past against them, it's your loss.
 
echoing what taps, havoc, matt and other said, the past is the past

men who sleep around are ok, but women arent? whats a good no. for men?

is there any difference between a woman who sleeps with 80 guys or a woman who has slept with 2 guys 40 times each, provided they are all with a condom?

i WOULD hold it against her if she did any of them unprotected. she's at WAYYY higher risk of contracting EVERYTHING


i wuite liberal in this respect i guess, but i have no problem with free love and shit. if a person wants to satisfy thenmselves that way they can and i would have no problem with it. i wouldnt think about it either as i can detach myself from a lot of stuff like that.
 
Taps said:
Well...

There's a girl I'm becoming interested in. She's a good friend and it looks like something more may develop.....
She's been with a LOT of guys. I won't say how many, but's it's like 5 times the number of girls I've been with.

Know what? It doesn't bother me at all. I care about her and she cares about me. Whoever came before and whoever may come after just isn't a factor.

I'm the most openminded person I know when it comes to sex, so maybe I'm unique. :) I know 99% of other guys coun't hanlde it. But hey, if you hold someones past against them, it's your loss.
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Number 256, please step forward!!!
 
danielson said:
echoing what taps, havoc, matt and other said, the past is the past

men who sleep around are ok, but women arent? whats a good no. for men?

is there any difference between a woman who sleeps with 80 guys or a woman who has slept with 2 guys 40 times each, provided they are all with a condom?

i WOULD hold it against her if she did any of them unprotected. she's at WAYYY higher risk of contracting EVERYTHING


i wuite liberal in this respect i guess, but i have no problem with free love and shit. if a person wants to satisfy thenmselves that way they can and i would have no problem with it. i wouldnt think about it either as i can detach myself from a lot of stuff like that.
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Yep...huge difference. One person had 80 partners and the other had 2 partners.

You really expect people to use a condom the first time they have sex with a new partner? Most of us too eager to get it on... to start the girl to wondering if she would really be doing this. Of course we should wear condoms but I'll confess I don't use them as much though I should. But then....I think promiscuous but I'm not really.

Doesn't the day after pill make someone bloat?
 
Test boy said:
Yep...huge difference. One person had 80 partners and the other had 2 partners.

You really expect people to use a condom the first time they have sex with a new partner? Most of us too eager to get it on... to start the girl to wondering if she would really be doing this. Of course we should wear condoms but I'll confess I don't use them as much though I should. But then....I think promiscuous but I'm not really.

Doesn't the day after pill make someone bloat?
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well a lot of people do. some dont, which is why i would always use a condom.

if she had sex with 80 people safely, assuming no condom breakage, her risk for HIV should be fairly low. if she had sex with 1 guy, and he had HIV her risk of infection would be higher.

ok....so a lot more comes into play, those 80 people are all unknown status etc....but if she took precautions her risk should be low

no idea about the bloating...id think that would be the least of her worries though :)
 
danielson said:


well a lot of people do. some dont, which is why i would always use a condom.

if she had sex with 80 people safely, assuming no condom breakage, her risk for HIV should be fairly low. if she had sex with 1 guy, and he had HIV her risk of infection would be higher.

ok....so a lot more comes into play, those 80 people are all unknown status etc....but if she took precautions her risk should be low

no idea about the bloating...id think that would be the least of her worries though :)
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Easier said than done(using a condom). Getting laid sometimes involves various forms of deception and trickery. Pulling out a condom is wise but I could easily see it putting the brakes on the seduction. You couldn't provide the needed friction to keep her brain shut down while you fussed with the condom.
 
Test boy said:
Easier said than done(using a condom). Getting laid sometimes involves various forms of deception and trickery. Pulling out a condom is wise but I could easily see it putting the brakes on the seduction. You couldn't provide the needed friction to keep her brain shut down while you fussed with the condom.
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maybe but if she didnt wanna screw with a condom id have doubt about giving it to her at all. if you bring your own one it shouldnt be a problem getting it to fit :)
 
danielson said:


maybe but if she didnt wanna screw with a condom id have doubt about giving it to her at all. if you bring your own one it shouldnt be a problem getting it to fit :)
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Probably wise thinking in the final analysis.

I don't need the XLG condoms though I once ordered some because the Playboy poll said that I should based on measurements. An average condom will fit over your arm. Guys who claim that condoms are too small are dreaming.

However...telling some dames that you buy custom condoms will not hurt your cause in my experience. :)

Didn't you say that you can do extraordinary things with your tongue? That should score more pussy than you can handle. I'll bet I could get 33% of the girls in a typical bar if I walked up to them and offered to go down on them. They love it more than anything. Anything!
 
If she's raised enough crabs to open a seafood restaurant- reconsider.;)

I'm not sure I'd use previous relationships to determine if she's marriage material.
 
curling said:


So you are saying you would marry a girl that has done the whole laker team hmmm? What about a whole football team then? Or what if she had done all your friends before you met her? So everytime you had a get together with your buds you know all of them have had your wife. Seriously that wouldn't bother you?
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Where and how in the content of my post did you get the impression that I thought it was cool to sleep with a girl that srewed the entire Laker Team? Read it again, slowly. Hmmmmm

"The past is the past as long as there's not a psychological issue related to it - like screwing the entire Laker Team."
 
Test boy said:
Probably wise thinking in the final analysis.

I don't need the XLG condoms though I once ordered some because the Playboy poll said that I should based on measurements. An average condom will fit over your arm. Guys who claim that condoms are too small are dreaming.

However...telling some dames that you buy custom condoms will not hurt your cause in my experience. :)

Didn't you say that you can do extraordinary things with your tongue? That should score more pussy than you can handle. I'll bet I could get 33% of the girls in a typical bar if I walked up to them and offered to go down on them. They love it more than anything. Anything!
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yeah but if you get too small a size it ends up acting like as noose and cuts of all the blood to your weiner. you last wayyy longer and it hurts going on and off :) condoms are really cool things though, great for keeping matchboxes dry when camping :D

its kinda hard to work into the conversation though.....'hey look what i can do with my toungue'.....if only i ould find some way of introducing it to the conversation :D
 
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