How many of you are really in love with your spouse?

[heavy_duty]

wow..i'm impressed! Maybe only the in-love spouses are answering?

I've been married 4 years, together for 6.. great guy in so many ways.. but he doesn't get me.. i'm not "in love" with him although i care about him alot. He was never one to make my heart flutter..



The guys who are in love- what are the qualities that your spouses possess that make you feel so strongly about them?

K4U

 

[sshadoww]

I am in my 30's and I have never been in love with a woman... I mean true love.. how many others share this? discuss

I've been in love 5 times. Ironically, the two I was most in love with I never ended up having an intimate relationship with. As for the one I'm with now...well, there's a fine line between love and hate, and she's crossed the line a few too many times

 

[sshadoww]

wow..i'm impressed! Maybe only the in-love spouses are answering?

I've been married 4 years, together for 6.. great guy in so many ways.. but he doesn't get me.. i'm not "in love" with him although i care about him alot. He was never one to make my heart flutter..



The guys who are in love- what are the qualities that your spouses possess that make you feel so strongly about them?

Ahhh...I feel the same way with my current lady. Just when I think everything is in sync, something happens that makes me realize she just doesn't get me...not fully. She too has many great qualities- but I've realized that we don't connect on the deepest of levels.

As for qualities- I love her individuality and genuiness...but she also gets into jealous tirades that makes life impossible at times.

 

[Arabian]

Ahhh...I feel the same way with my current lady. Just when I think everything is in sync, something happens that makes me realize she just doesn't get me...not fully. She too has many great qualities- but I've realized that we don't connect on the deepest of levels.

As for qualities- I love her individuality and genuiness...but she also gets into jealous tirades that makes life impossible at times.

I totally understand that.. good luck to you.. for whatever its worth , there are alot of great females on ths site that offer unbiased advice.. again good luck to you

 

[miplank]

wow..i'm impressed! Maybe only the in-love spouses are answering?

I've been married 4 years, together for 6.. great guy in so many ways.. but he doesn't get me.. i'm not "in love" with him although i care about him alot. He was never one to make my heart flutter..



The guys who are in love- what are the qualities that your spouses possess that make you feel so strongly about them?

Originally...It was her face/body...She's absolutely gorgeous. I was so intimidated by her I never talked to her thinking she'd never go for a guy like me. Come too find out, through mutual friends, she had a "thing" for me too.

Then I got to know her and she has one of the best personalities i've ever seen.

So...why am I so in love with her.

She's kind hearted, loves me unconditionally, takes care of me, I can have a conversation with her for hours, she's funny, etc....


oh, and she's drop dead gorgeous!!!

 

[Tatyana]

I have been truly, madly, deeply in love and I have been very, very heartbroken.

I plan on being in love again, just once more.

Being in love has nothing to do with anyone else but yourself.

You either love or you don't.

You don't love with the expectation of getting love back, that is not love.

 

[captainahole]

wow..i'm impressed! Maybe only the in-love spouses are answering?

I've been married 4 years, together for 6.. great guy in so many ways.. but he doesn't get me.. i'm not "in love" with him although i care about him alot. He was never one to make my heart flutter..



The guys who are in love- what are the qualities that your spouses possess that make you feel so strongly about them?

A few things.
Respect for each other. good or bad decisions she doesn't jam mistakes in my face if I made one and likewise.
She still makes me laugh. I enjoy talking to her and look forward to seeing her at the end of my day.
I think the biggest though is her Trust in me. I am aware with my past history that this could be an issue but she tries to always have trust in me and I have given her good reason not to in the past.

And it feels so warm when she's in my arms.

 

[bdd814]

I've been married for 10 years. Still deeply in love w/ my husband. We were high school sweethearts and while life situations haven't always been easy, our love has been consistently growing over the years and continues to daily.

 

[needtogetaas]

ya wtf ever. I love my wife. Am I deeply "in love" with her. No prob not any more. She and I do not mix she thinks she is better then me even though I got her where she is now. Though like a women she will never admit that.

Fuck everything I got me and me only.

 

[Arabian]

I've been in love 5 times. Ironically, the two I was most in love with I never ended up having an intimate relationship with. As for the one I'm with now...well, there's a fine line between love and hate, and she's crossed the line a few too many times

Please explain crossed the line?