How long is your intercourse?

[Whiskey]

I have went hours before, but she wouldn't let me O because she liked to watch me go in and out of her, but damn, when I did... that was my only session with her too unfortunately, she moved away... sniff sniff

Whiskey

 

[The Shadow]

...30-45 w/o foreplay

 

[chesty]

depends on my mood and hers. can be anything really, whatever she wants.

 

[Devastation]

as long as it takes for her to cum at least 3x's

 

[Dirk Howat]

depends on how long she can handle it, how long she wants it, and if she has had her feel of orgasms.

Agree with that.

I would amend it to "and if she has had her FILL of orgasms."

 

[oatsandgrains]

I don't have a time LIMIT. Whenever the heck I want to blow is when I blow! If I want I can last for hours or just 5 minutes. Its alllllllllllllllll gooooooood

 

[ThatGirl]

Re: Depends

Sometimes I can go after 20 strokes, other times I can go as long as I want. It takes most women at least 10-20 min to come so I focus on lots of foreplay.

Masterbating beforehand can also help if I do it within an hour sex.

Awareness of my state of arousal is key for me. I can tell when I'm getting hot. Early pops can be avoided if I slow down before it starts to feel too good. I get into trouble when I try to maximize the pleasure for too long b/c I can hit that point where I've got 2 choices: stop completely & regain control or pop. Some women don't like it when you mess with the rythym, so I try to avoid these situations at all times, but sometimes its necessary. Often I change positions to give me some, 'regain my composure time'.

My best sessions are when I get into this state detachment, where it feels good, but not awesome. I don't get absorbed into how sexy she is, how great she feels or looks. When I'm in this state I can focus on her pleasure by hitting her G-spot & playing with penetration (I start with shallow strokes until she's really hot b/c most of her nerve endings are in the first few inches of the vagina).

Lastly, I find that its not how long you last, but how hot u can get her. If she dries up & loses her arousal, it doesn't matter if you go like a jackhammer for eternity b/c niether of you are gonna like it.

Get her as hot & wet as you can & she'll be begging you for more even if you don't last that long.

If you do go early you can always daty. It can be a little satly, but as one of my lovers told me, "its just us".

I have to go home and masturbate dammit!

 

[obiwan9962]

Re: Depends

I have to go home and masturbate dammit!

can i watch?

 

[ChefWide]

depends on how turned on I am: the more turned on the longer I fuck. If its just going through the motions, I would rather be fucking my hand.

 

[obiwan9962]

I still say if it takes you more than 15-20 minutes to give someone an orgasm YOU SUCK!

what if i got my lover to cum 3 times in an hour?