How Does Your Wife Compare to A Porno Queen?

[FLASHMAN1]

Flashman, I am glad you are having such experiences with your fiancee. I hate to tell you this all chicks are great when the relationship is new. Now fast forward 10 or 15 years your wife will not have sex everyday and when you do get it sometimes it ain't that great but sometimes it is.

What I was saying is that when you see some porn doing wild things it might hurt your relationship with your wife because she doesn't do what those chicks do.

Cure,

I am sure you are right. (even though I am awesome in the sack)

This relationship is not new...lol. We've already been together 6 years, and we're not 20-year old kids... Although I'm sure we won't be having sex as often in 15 years from now, I think because we're not afraid to discuss things of a sexual nature, our sex life will remain healthy. You don't necessarily have to have freaky porn sex all the time either...

As far as a guy watching porn, in some marriages, I'm sure it does hurt some relationships, as some women are prudes, and also some men don't show thier women that they are appreciated. But I still feel that if a man shows proper respect to his woman and makes sex fun for the both of them, (you two-pump chumps know who you are), then there's nothing a woman won't do or get into to please you...

I think part of the problem is that some men want thier women to do what the porn chicks do, but they're not willing to try to perform like the guys in porn do... In order for it to be enjoyable for both parties to have freaky sex enjoyably, it MUST be enjoyable for BOTH people... In other words guys, don't expect your ole lady to act like some freaky porn whore, talk dirty, blow you like a madwoman, let you blast loads all over her tits, face, etc, etc... if you're not going to properly please her orally, and do the things that she wants done. I think the major problem for women does not lie within the fact that thier man wants to do freaky shit, it's that the man doesn't want to properly learn to reciprocate. It's all about fair play, if you want your woman to lick your ass and do all kinds of freaky shit, you HAVE to learn to please her properly too... guys, PLEASE, don't expect your woman to be freaky in bed for you, if you're gonna chomp the chia for a few minutes, and ram it in, get off and roll over and go to sleep... it just doesn't work that way guys, sorry...

That's why my answer to your theory about porn is no, watching porn by itself is NOT enough to make a couple's sexual relationship unhealthy...

 

[THeMaCHinE]

I think porn in marriage is a tough sell because it is sex without intamacy; frequently denegrating the ideas of monogamy. I also believe that it de-emphasises the bond (love, commitment, emotion, trust) that leads to sex in a normal marriage.

That said, I also believe it is healthy for people to express themselves sexually and be open to new avenues of stimulus. If both partners are in complete agreement about porn, then there is probably no harm in (very) occasional viewing. But I would think there are many other avenues a couple can explore erotically -- porn is almost like inviting strangers into the bedroom... (which is fine if you're single, but doesn't make a lot of sense for most marriages)

I think porn is more suited to single people...

 

[Temple]

Flashman, I am glad you are having such experiences with your fiancee. I hate to tell you this all chicks are great when the relationship is new. Now fast forward 10 or 15 years your wife will not have sex everyday and when you do get it sometimes it ain't that great but sometimes it is.

What I was saying is that when you see some porn doing wild things it might hurt your relationship with your wife because she doesn't do what those chicks do.

Cure,

I am sure you are right. (even though I am awesome in the sack)

There are ebbs and flows to sex in any marriage but if it isn't BETTER 15 years into it then there is something wrong somewhere. As for porn hurting a marriage - I can't imagine how it could if the relationship is solid.

 

[HumorMe]

There are ebbs and flows to sex in any marriage but if it isn't BETTER 15 years into it then there is something wrong somewhere. As for porn hurting a marriage - I can't imagine how it could if the relationship is solid.

I agree Temple. We have been married for 15 years this July and our marriage and sex could not be more solid. Although we do not watch porn, we are very open as to what we want to experiment with...except for sharing...lol. We use our imagination more than anything. I don't see anything wrong with watching porn with each other or by yourself. Nothing wrong with it in my books.



For everyone else......What I posted in my first response was for everyone to get a laugh out of....I meant nothing by it.

 

[Shrebly]

This thread is debate if pornos hurt marriages. I would say they do. For these reasons. When you watch porno you watch a chick that has a super body, fixed up and knows how to do it. I mean they know what they are doing to please a dude. They moan, they breath heavy, they always want it harder and they will do some really kinky stuff.

So you watch the porno and then it comes time to make love to your wife. Now she has a good body but not perfect like the porno chick. She sometimes gets fixed up and other times she comes to bed looking rather homely(no makeup and tired from running your household and raising your children. She is tired not really turned on but since she loves she does it. She moans just a little and she doesn't act like a wild nympho like the porno chicks. And she will only do kinky stuff every once in a while.

So you finish and now you are comparing the chick in porno(that probably doesn't do that well in real life) that is a hoar that screws strange dudes for chump change like $400 to $500 to your wife that loves you and has given her life to you. See why I think pornos are not a good thing for a married dudes to look at? I mean you can debate this but do you see my point?

First, unless you are going to The Bunnyranch - I would like to know where you got the $400.00 - $500.00 pricerange for whores [not hores]. That is an expensive piece of ass that better balance my checkbook in addition to whatever sexual services she's been contracted out to do.

Second, and this might ruin porn for some guys - oh well. Next time you have a fist full of your manhood and are jackin' so hard the friction could start a forest fire - think about the nasty little pig fuck you are watching and how many loads have been launched across her face, ass, tits and cooch. THEN think about all the guys she has to screw to get in the film... Yeah, if I had a dick I'd really want to waste my time thinking about nailing a hole that's seen more traffic than a public toilet

Third, porn is a business. If you aren't into it then don't knock those that are. If you would rather sit and watch porn than screw someone that is in the next room and made of flesh and blood... then there might be a problem. What does being married have to do with watching porn - guys in relationships watch it - but some silly little piece of paper makes all the difference in the world.

If she won't take it in the ass, swallow your load or bring home a girlfriend to play with - throw the fish back and find a new one.

Hey Corn... Satin Angels LOLOLOLOL

 

[spentagn]

I agree Temple. We have been married for 15 years this July and our marriage and sex could not be more solid.

Congrats to you and Temple

 

[manny78]

WHat if you get both ?

 

[HumorMe]

Congrats to you and Temple

Thanks spent!

In today's society it seems like it isn't the norm though!

 

[kronk]

Personally, I feel that most chicks in porn really are not that hot. However, for porn they are great to look at.

Kronkette and I go to rent/buy porn together. We get stuff that we both like. As a matter of fact we just got back from the video store and she picked the dvd we rented.

We have been married for 9 years and communicate about everything sexual. Shit, in my house she is a porn star. We watch porn when we feel like sitting around smoking a joint or drinking a little bit and we keep it on in the background as a turn on.

I have never wanted her to be anything other than what she is, and I sure as hell wouldnt want her to look like a porn star. Kronkette is much hotter than any of the porn stars that I have ever seen.

I think it is very silly to think that porn could hurt a marriage. If it does, you are in the wrong relationship. But thats just my opinion, I could be wrong

 

[wyst]

We have been married for 9 years and communicate about everything sexual. Shit, in my house she is a porn star. We watch porn when we feel like sitting around smoking a joint or drinking a little bit and we keep it on in the background as a turn on.

I do this with my bf too! We have the sound off half the time so we don't have to hear the bad acting, and we just talk and smoke and watch a little, and then after a while, we've forgotten about the porn altogether. Sometimes it's just nice for different mood, that kinda thing. We tend to watch plaboy tv, the talk shows. Not so into the hardcore stuff. It's really really interesting, but less sexy than the softer, funnier talk shows like night calls 411, that kinda thing. In my opinion, it's fine as long as you're both into it.

Wyst