How do you treat a date?

[stilleto]

treat someone the way you'd want to be treated. be polite but yourself, show more interest in them than in yourself, be appreciative, happy, sincere, and charming. if you're a woman- act like a lady. if you're a guy, be a gentlman.
i think that even after you are comfortable enough with someone to talk about or do anything in front of them, you should still follow these rules.

 

[needtogetaas]

I'm really cold and bitchy on a first date. I talk about myself and how amazing I am. I ask for compliments and let him know that I'm one sexy bitch. I expect him to pay for everything because I deserve everything.

If he tries to kiss me at the end of the night I knee him in the groin and tell him that I'm a lady not a whore. Then I key his car.

sonds like me and angels first date

 

[Sweet_Bitch]

i go all out on my dates. i even go as far as buying a new outfit. for some reason if i go with an outfit i have previously worn i dont feel the date is special. so i have to feel comfortable so i can let her feel comfortable. i always put on cologne but i dont over do it. i love it when a woman smells good. and french manacures and pedicures are a plus to me as well. shows me she takes are of herself. i always get a haircut before the date. i trust my stylist so she can do it the same day and not mess it up. i make sure my car is extra clean. one time i even rented a limo so we can both have fun and not worry about drinking and driving. and i always open doors for a woman. that is in my blood and i am a new york native, grew up there for 17 years. i let them go first, i treat them like a princess.

as far as the date and where we go depends on her interests. i usually get to know the woman before hand whether we talk on the phone or it was while we met. i always get to know the personality of the woman, if it didnt connect there then we wouldnt be going on a date in the first place. in the past i have taken a date to an off broadway play, nothing boring but fun. but if i feel thats not for her i will take her on a river boat cruise. dinner, dancing, moonlight walks on the boat deck. but if i feel she doesnt like boats then i take her somewhere else. you see, i really get to know woman before i do anything. i ask them suttle questions, they may not understand why at the time, but when we go on our date they always say "so thats why you asked me this".

but dinner is always part of the night. at the end of the night i love to stroll along the river bank here in downtown jacksonville. it is very romantic and you have a nice breeze. and the other place is the beach. if i feel the woman may be insecure about being alone in a secluded place like that then no i wont take her there. but if she trusts me, and most do, i take them to the beach and we walk along the sand in out bare feet. all the while talking about whatever comes to mind. i love to listen. i love to listen to a woman talk and make her feel like she is the center of attention. i will tell her whatever she asks about me but mostly i listen. i have been told that i am a real good listener.

at the completion of the date i always ask if they had fun and if they would like to go out again. thats if i feel it went well and there is a connection between us. i never ask for sex and i always kiss there hand goodnight and put the ball in their court as to the kiss on the lips. and most of the time they initiate it and that is when i move in, slowly with passionate eye contact. i place my hand upon her cheek, and just as i am about to place my wanting lips to her waiting lip, i stop, and at this moment she most likely has her eyes closed she will open them when i stop. i then look her in the eyes one more time and with a very sexy smile (one of my attributes) i gaze back at her and then continue in and the passion explodes. i never put my tongue in on the first meeting of the lips, i kiss her open mouth, close the lips, then slowly open back up and very gentley touch her tongue with mine. and after i kiss her for a little bit i always finish with a slide of my cheek across hers and give her a little peck kiss on her warm cheek. as we are lost in the moment and come back to reality they always have a moment of silence before they open there eyes i say in a warm, soft, voice "thank you for this wonderfull evening" and she then looks into my eyes and say "wow, thank YOU". i then say goodnight and i always wait for them to go inside and close the door before i take a step away.

it is funny, i have never been stood up, i have never been turned down for a second date, but something always seems to go wrong further down the road. and im a full commital type of guy. maybe thats it, i commit too much. oh well.

hope you liked my version of dating.

Gave me goosebumps reading it....sigh....

That would describe my perfect date. Oh, and the kiss....talk about melting someone's heart!!!

 

[Sub-Zero]

LOL, okay, lets hear how youd get someones balls off without violence

^ still waiting NYCgirl

 

[nycgirl]

^ still waiting NYCgirl

Its called the legal system.

 

[bigmann245]

Gave me goosebumps reading it....sigh....

That would describe my perfect date. Oh, and the kiss....talk about melting someone's heart!!!

thank you. i like to be as detailed as possible. sometimes i get carried away but it is all true. i am a hopeless romantic. i just finished my first semester in college and my english teacher asked me to stay after class for a few minutes. so i did and she went on about how she loves my papers, she loves the details, and that she hopes i continue using my skills in my future. she also asked my permission to read them to the other classes. especially the one i wrote about "a Beautifull Woman" and what it meant to me. oh i had the woman in my class in tears.

 

[Gemini_Man]

Men are judged by what they can give, women are judged by what they can take.

 

[Sweet_Bitch]

thank you. i like to be as detailed as possible. sometimes i get carried away but it is all true. i am a hopeless romantic. i just finished my first semester in college and my english teacher asked me to stay after class for a few minutes. so i did and she went on about how she loves my papers, she loves the details, and that she hopes i continue using my skills in my future. she also asked my permission to read them to the other classes. especially the one i wrote about "a Beautifull Woman" and what it meant to me. oh i had the woman in my class in tears.

Your welcome. I too was a hopeless romantic...I lost that part of me when I married my husband. LOL....sort of....

 

[Sweet_Bitch]

Men are judged by what they can give, women are judged by what they can take.

If a chick can take a dick up the ass the very least she should get is a dozen roses, a nce dinner (read expensive), and someone to open a door and pull out her chair. I'm just saying....

 

[Sub-Zero]

Its called the legal system.

so the legal system can cause balls to disappear?

 

[Sub-Zero]

If a chick can take a dick up the ass the very least she should get is a dozen roses, a nce dinner (read expensive), and someone to open a door and pull out her chair. I'm just saying....

if u dont WANT a dick up ur ass don tdo it.

and as for a dick up the vag...if ur not getting pleasure out of that dont do that either....

 

[Sweet_Bitch]

if u dont WANT a dick up ur ass don tdo it.

and as for a dick up the vag...if ur not getting pleasure out of that dont do that either....

Like I said...I was just saying...

 

[Sub-Zero]

Like I said...I was just saying...

lol?

 

[habitualhealth]

what the hell is a date?

 

[Evil_Frisky]

what the hell is a date?

date

n.
The sweet, edible, oblong or oval fruit of the date palm, containing a narrow, hard seed.
A date palm.

 

[StickFigure]

what the hell is a date?

That's what I was thinking when I read the thread title!

 

[habitualhealth]

date

n.
The sweet, edible, oblong or oval fruit of the date palm, containing a narrow, hard seed.
A date palm.

in that case, i'd prolly throw it in the trash...i'm not a fan of dates.

 

[bigmann245]

Your welcome. I too was a hopeless romantic...I lost that part of me when I married my husband. LOL....sort of....

im sorry to hear that. but you should never lose it. my wife and i have been married for 9 years, 10 next april and i still treat her the same as the very first day. we even still have date nights where just her and i go out together without our son. we always keep the passion and romance going. i get excited just holding her hand...

 

[habitualhealth]

That's what I was thinking when I read the thread title!

haha, i just saw your location. how's that whole thing workin' out fer ya?

 

[StickFigure]

haha, i just saw your location. how's that whole thing workin' out fer ya?

You tell me!!

 

[Evil_Frisky]

You tell me!!

E-flowers won't get you laid

 

[Sub-Zero]

You tell me!!

shes taken.

back off my gal

 

[StickFigure]

E-flowers won't get you laid

Just tryin' to make a friend.

 

[nycgirl]

E-flowers won't get you laid

Hee hee.

According to GS, if they buy his lifetime plat plan and send an EF lady a thong, he may get a date.

 

[Evil_Frisky]

Just tryin' to make a friend.

thats what yellow roses are for

 

[habitualhealth]

shes taken.

back off my gal

hmm i don't see my name in your location, boyfriend.

 

[StickFigure]

shes taken.

back off my gal

If you don't like my sig, make me a new one.

And to answer your question from the other day, I am a Broncos fan.

 

[Sweet_Bitch]

im sorry to hear that. but you should never lose it. my wife and i have been married for 9 years, 10 next april and i still treat her the same as the very first day. we even still have date nights where just her and i go out together without our son. we always keep the passion and romance going. i get excited just holding her hand...

Don't take this the wrong way but you suck!!!! And I say that with nothing but love for you I wish I had that, more then anything. My husband was never very romantic, but he definetly had his moments. They pretty much ended when we signed that damn piece of paper

 

[StickFigure]

thats what yellow roses are for

I'm colorblind.

 

[IvanOffelitch]

shes taken.

back off my gal

Dood...she'd wreck you.

 

[StickFigure]

Dood...she'd wreck you.

LOL!!

 

[bigmann245]

Don't take this the wrong way but you suck!!!! And I say that with nothing but love for you I wish I had that, more then anything. My husband was never very romantic, but he definetly had his moments. They pretty much ended when we signed that damn piece of paper

i still dont understand why people do this. so what, it is just a piece of paper. it doesnt mean we can stop lying and you are mine now. you should stay the way you are no matter what. not saying i lied, its just a lot of men seem to lie to there fiances to get them to marry them and then bam, they arent who they said they are.

i let my wife go out with her friends, shoot i encouraged her to go. i send her flowers at work for no special reason at all. i even drove all the way to her job which is about 30 minutes in traffice just to put a rose on her windshield with a shoe box card. i love those cards, they have every stuation and they always say what you want. i go to lunch with her when i have the time. when she worked at blockbuster i would hang out there and help her stock the videos at the end of the night so she could get off work faster and we can spend time with each other.

i just dont see why people must change when they get married. it saddens me to hang out with a couple and the guy is treating his wife like complete crap and is right out in the open. then when its just him and me he thinks im on the same page and tries to tell me how he has her wrapped around his finger and what not. i stopped him right there and told him that it was wrong and i didnt want to hear it. needless to say they didnt remain friends with us for very long. and he forbid his wife to talk to mine. he thought we would corupt her and make her see the light.

sorry, i treat all woman like they deserve to be treated. with the upmost respect, love, and compasion for there thoughts. my mom taught me to be the way i am and i am so proud to be her son. so is my wife....

seriously, if you ever need to vent im just a pm away. i listen well and i answer honestly. take care.

 

[Scotsman]

so the legal system can cause balls to disappear?

It's a metaphor man a fucking metaphor, get with it.

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[Evil_Frisky]

It's a metaphor man a fucking metaphor, get with it.

Cheers,
Scotsman

lol

 

[Sweet_Bitch]

i still dont understand why people do this. so what, it is just a piece of paper. it doesnt mean we can stop lying and you are mine now. you should stay the way you are no matter what. not saying i lied, its just a lot of men seem to lie to there fiances to get them to marry them and then bam, they arent who they said they are.

i let my wife go out with her friends, shoot i encouraged her to go. i send her flowers at work for no special reason at all. i even drove all the way to her job which is about 30 minutes in traffice just to put a rose on her windshield with a shoe box card. i love those cards, they have every stuation and they always say what you want. i go to lunch with her when i have the time. when she worked at blockbuster i would hang out there and help her stock the videos at the end of the night so she could get off work faster and we can spend time with each other.

i just dont see why people must change when they get married. it saddens me to hang out with a couple and the guy is treating his wife like complete crap and is right out in the open. then when its just him and me he thinks im on the same page and tries to tell me how he has her wrapped around his finger and what not. i stopped him right there and told him that it was wrong and i didnt want to hear it. needless to say they didnt remain friends with us for very long. and he forbid his wife to talk to mine. he thought we would corupt her and make her see the light.

sorry, i treat all woman like they deserve to be treated. with the upmost respect, love, and compasion for there thoughts. my mom taught me to be the way i am and i am so proud to be her son. so is my wife....

seriously, if you ever need to vent im just a pm away. i listen well and i answer honestly. take care.

Don't get me wrong, he doesn't treat me like crap. But things change I guess. I've changed too but I think I quit doing some of the things that I use to do as a reaction to him stopping. I'm easy-all it takes is a flower and a card and I'm thrilled. He's definelty not the romantic type, but he use to surprise me once in awhile. I guess with growing up came a lot of responsibility-work and such-and all that hallmark mushy crap just takes a back seat to the latest deadline or report. I think that's true for a lot of people. You and your wife are probably the minority But I'm still jealous!!!

 

[Scotsman]

If you don't like my sig, make me a new one.

And to answer your question from the other day, I am a Broncos fan.

As in Denver Broncos?

If so I think it's going to be another long season. I live in Denver and none of us are very excited for the regular season.

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[awittyusername]

Who is Bigmann245?? And, is The Shadow and Radar pissed he has overtaken them in being Elites Biggest Cockblock.

 

[RADAR]

The day i quit doing all that i'm doing I hope someone buries me!
Women should be put on a pedistal And cherished,Admired And loved..........Except for my Ex May she rot!
RADAR

 

[StickFigure]

As in Denver Broncos?

If so I think it's going to be another long season. I live in Denver and none of us are very excited for the regular season.

Cheers,
Scotsman

Denver for sure. I lived there as a kid and have been a die hard fan for 20 years. Ever since John retired, every year has been a long year. I'm kinda used to it.

 

[bigmann245]

Don't get me wrong, he doesn't treat me like crap. But things change I guess. I've changed too but I think I quit doing some of the things that I use to do as a reaction to him stopping. I'm easy-all it takes is a flower and a card and I'm thrilled. He's definelty not the romantic type, but he use to surprise me once in awhile. I guess with growing up came a lot of responsibility-work and such-and all that hallmark mushy crap just takes a back seat to the latest deadline or report. I think that's true for a lot of people. You and your wife are probably the minority But I'm still jealous!!!

i understand. i didnt think he treated ya bad. but i know how it feels to want that little extra something. i guess being in the navy for 12 year and going to sea for months at a time has made us appreciate the time we have when we are together. we promised each other that we would keep the spark. break the everyday routine. and like you said all it takes is that one rose, or card and it makes you remember what it was that brought you two together. but like i said, my offer still stands and that goes for anyone. im just a pm away. take care.

 

[Scotsman]

Denver for sure. I lived there as a kid and have been a die hard fan for 20 years. Ever since John retired, every year has been a long year. I'm kinda used to it.

Yeah the post Elway years have been really bad, they soooooo need to get rid of scamihan since he is a horrible coach. I finally abandoned them after the uniform change, new stadium fiasco, and making greise the starter.

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[StickFigure]

Yeah the post Elway years have been really bad, they soooooo need to get rid of scamihan since he is a horrible coach. I finally abandoned them after the uniform change, new stadium fiasco, and making greise the starter.

Cheers,
Scotsman

greeeeezy sucked ass!! At least Plummer has a little talent but he's just too damn inconsistant! I havn't had too much time to keep track of what's been going on latley, what's the word on Porter?

 

[Sub-Zero]

It's a metaphor man a fucking metaphor, get with it.

Cheers,
Scotsman

yup, except nycgirl said that in a thread in response to raina saying shed cut off a guys nuts with a spoon.

she meant it literal no matter how she tries to crawl out of it this time..

someone tell us how a man loses his testicles in a non violent way (assuming he doesnt volenteer them off)

 

[theoak01]

yup, except nycgirl said that in a thread in response to raina saying shed cut off a guys nuts with a spoon.

she meant it literal no matter how she tries to crawl out of it this time..

someone tell us how a man loses his testicles in a non violent way (assuming he doesnt volenteer them off)

hey bro chill out on nycgirl,she didnt try and start shit with you

 

[Sub-Zero]

hey bro chill out on nycgirl,she didnt try and start shit with you

naw man, she follows me around calling me snide and shit.

if i find out im on her ignore list ill quit bumping this thread and asking her, but untill then, im gunna chat and converse in chat and conversation.

i disapproved of her post and called her out on it (like i would do to you or anyon e else) instead of giving her red for random posts like she does to me, instead i challenge her and ask her to explain herself.

this time she got cought in a bs statement, and im not gunna stop till she answers or admits there is no way

 

[Scotsman]

greeeeezy sucked ass!! At least Plummer has a little talent but he's just too damn inconsistant! I havn't had too much time to keep track of what's been going on latley, what's the word on Porter?

Not sure I haven't had a chance to watch them at all this preseason. All I know is they have a crappy d-line, plummer is a jackass, their wideouts can't catch much, and elam can't hit any fg's with consistency.

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[StickFigure]

Not sure I haven't had a chance to watch them at all this preseason. All I know is they have a crappy d-line, plummer is a jackass, their wideouts can't catch much, and elam can't hit any fg's with consistency.

Cheers,
Scotsman

Sounds like another loooooong year!

 

[nycgirl]

hey bro chill out on nycgirl,she didnt try and start shit with you

Thank you. at him stating I'm trying to crawl out from it.

Let me break it down for him. Not that I need to explain myself to him. Scotsman is right, do you need him to define metaphor for you too. My post was in reponse to Raina's post. Physical violence is too quick. You obviously don't read my posts. If you did you would know that when it comes to breaking someone down, I strongly believe the legal system way is the best, slow and painful way.

Hence the statement he would be living under a bridge (i.e., he would be homeless), with just a coat (i.e., no clothing/possessions at all) and with no money (because I would see that by the time I'm done, he would have none). Do you get it now?

If I was a recluse, I would have the time to break down all of my posts. But, unfortunately, I'm still at work and I have other things to do.

 

[Sub-Zero]

Thank you. at him stating I'm trying to crawl out from it.

Let me break it down for him. Not that I need to explain myself to him. Scotsman is right, do you need him to define metaphor for you too. My post was in reponse to Raina's post. Physical violence is too quick. You obviously don't read my posts. If you did you would know that when it comes to breaking someone down, I strongly believe the legal system way is the best, slow and painful way.

Hence the statement he would be living under a bridge (i.e., he would be homeless), with just a coat (i.e., no clothing/possessions at all) and with no money (because I would see that by the time I'm done, he would have none). Do you get it now?

If I was a recluse, I would have the time to break down all of my posts. But, unfortunately, I'm still at work and I have other things to do.

k you answered my question pretty well....it took you..what? all day to think of that defense? if i need a lawyer who can think fast ill be sure not to call you...

maybe you would be done with work if you wernt so unprofessional as to post on a chat board from work... ever think of that?

(my apologies to all the good bros who post from work, just had to call her out on that too since shes pulled the professional iv got shit to do card)

 

[nutsnack]

like 7UP.. never have never will!

 

[nycgirl]

k you answered my question pretty well....it took you..what? all day to think of that defense? if i need a lawyer who can think fast ill be sure not to call you...
maybe you would be done with work if you wernt so unprofessional as to post on a chat board from work... ever think of that?
(my apologies to all the good bros who post from work, just had to call her out on that too since shes pulled the professional iv got shit to do card)

 

[Scotsman]

naw man, she follows me around calling me snide and shit.

if i find out im on her ignore list ill quit bumping this thread and asking her, but untill then, im gunna chat and converse in chat and conversation.

i disapproved of her post and called her out on it (like i would do to you or anyon e else) instead of giving her red for random posts like she does to me, instead i challenge her and ask her to explain herself.

this time she got cought in a bs statement, and im not gunna stop till she answers or admits there is no way

Maybe you need to let it go, it's the fucking internet, m'kay? Perhaps you should log off and go do something fun for a change instead of getting all huffy and overserious over a chat board. Your still very young and should try and go out an experience as much as you can while you are blessed with the time to do it, because trust me someday you'll be sitting at a job working 60+ hrs a week with little motivation to do anything but go home and sleep and wish you had done more than get into stupid arguments on a chat board.

Try going out on dates, go fishing, go mountain biking, or whatever you want do to. This is why I don't post at night, I only do it from work so my weekends and nights aren't cluttered up with all this foolishness. I am not trying to be condiscending but please for you own good go and do something and grow up with those experiences.

Anyways I am out for the weekend.

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[Sub-Zero]

glad you find it funny. i find it inappropriate that you would try and personally attack me with the recluse comment...iv been trying to keep it someone civil and not bring real llife shit in, because im above that...

iv tried to be nice but im losing patience for you, and your constant need to follow me around disapproving of every comment i make, and then acting like your above me doing the same.

 

[nycgirl]

 

[Sub-Zero]

:childish: :childish: :childish: :childish:
:childish: :childish: :childish: :childish:
:childish: :childish: :childish: :childish:

 

[ziggyziggy]

glad you find it funny. i find it inappropriate that you would try and personally attack me with the recluse comment...iv been trying to keep it someone civil and not bring real llife shit in, because im above that...

iv tried to be nice but im losing patience for you, and your constant need to follow me around disapproving of every comment i make, and then acting like your above me doing the same.

Give it break dude. You opened your mouth, and are reaping the consequences of your actions.

She does have one point. A young man of your age should spend a lot more time socializing with people of your age group, and I don't mean online. You seem like a good person despite some of your statements. I would hate to see you end up socially retarded because of your own behavioral tendencies.

I'm not flaming you, merely making an observation. I hope you will step back and make some observations about yourself on your own.

Zig

 

[Sub-Zero]

Give it break dude. You opened your mouth, and are reaping the consequences of your actions.

She does have one point. A young man of your age should spend a lot more time socializing with people of your age group, and I don't mean online. You seem like a good person despite some of your statements. I would hate to see you end up socially retarded because of your own behavioral tendencies.

I'm not flaming you, merely making an observation. I hope you will step back and make some observations about yourself on your own.

Zig

reaping the consequences of what? quit trying to jump to the defense of a lady, just for the fact that shes a female...

she has one point, that has absolutely nothing to do with the topic, and is extremely childish to make, simply because she cant keep her emotions from driving her to post personal stuff (that isnt even true).

and if you have a problem with the way i live, then keep it to yourself. if i had a problem with my situation i would make a change. thanks for your concern

 

[ziggyziggy]

reaping the consequences of what? quit trying to jump to the defense of a lady, just for the fact that shes a female...

she has one point, that has absolutely nothing to do with the topic, and is extremely childish to make, simply because she cant keep her emotions from driving her to post personal stuff (that isnt even true).

and if you have a problem with the way i live, then keep it to yourself. if i had a problem with my situation i would make a change. thanks for your concern

Its not just the things you have said in this thread. BTW, I have kept it to myself for sometime now. I just hate seeing you make an ass out of yourself by continuously whining. I only see one person getting emotional here. Take a look in the mirror, and you will see that person too.

Zig

 

[Sub-Zero]

Its not just the things you have said in this thread. BTW, I have kept it to myself for sometime now. I just hate seeing you make an ass out of yourself by continuously whining. I only see one person getting emotional here. Take a look in the mirror, and you will see that person too.

Zig

nope, looked in the mirror and no tears....dumbass

out of all my posts id say 11,000 of them arnt even halfway serious... find me some other places iv been "continuously whining"

not everybody gets emotional if they have a disagreement with someone, so by you assuming im sad/angry/upset or whatever it is you think i am, your proving that your one of those weakminded individuals that cares about every little thing

heres a little advice....for the fuuture....learn to keep more things to yourself douchebag

 

[ziggyziggy]

nope, looked in the mirror and no tears....dumbass

out of all my posts id say 11,000 of them arnt even halfway serious... find me some other places iv been "continuously whining"

not everybody gets emotional if they have a disagreement with someone, so by you assuming im sad/angry/upset or whatever it is you think i am, your proving that your one of those weakminded individuals that cares about every little thing

heres a little advice....for the fuuture....learn to keep more things to yourself douchebag

Denial of reality is not going to get you far in life. I guess some have to learn that on their own, though. Good luck, kid.

Zig

 

[Sweet_Bitch]

You know, the first few pages of this thread were so warm and fuzzy.

 

[ziggyziggy]

You know, the first few pages of this thread were so warm and fuzzy.

Weren't they just?

Zig

 

[Sweet_Bitch]

Weren't they just?

Zig

Things seem to have a taken a turn to a southernly direction. Where is the love??

 

[Sub-Zero]

Denial of reality is not going to get you far in life. I guess some have to learn that on their own, though. Good luck, kid.

Zig

face it, not everybody wants to read your bullshit opinions. get over it. goodluck, adult.

 

[ziggyziggy]

face it, not everybody wants to read your bullshit opinions. get over it. goodluck, adult.

Is it really necessary for you to resort to emotional attacks and hyperbole to get your point across? I would say, "Grow up, act your age." You have proven that you are incapable of doing so, however. You chose to put your personal life out here. You should have understood the risks of doing so. It's not my fault that your maturity level is incapable of dealing with the consequences of your actions in a rational, adult manner. Flame someone else. Initially I was trying to help, now I'm just laughing.

Zig

 

[Sub-Zero]

Is it really necessary for you to resort to emotional attacks and hyperbole to get your point across?

I would say, "Grow up, act your age." You have proven that you are incapable of doing so, however.

You chose to put your personal life out here. You should have understood the risks of doing so.

yes, i put bits of pieces of my life on here that i dont mind hearing about, and post exagerations of my personal life (see 11,000 joke posts). did i post i was a recluse? if thats what your refering to, no i didnt, the person who said that was digging for things to say

It's not my fault that your maturity level is incapable of dealing with the consequences of your actions in a rational, adult manner.

oh, big boy! reread this sentence... was that a mature thing of you to say? its not my fault i couldnt give 2 shits about your opinion

Flame someone else. Initially I was trying to help, now I'm just laughing.

Zig

look whose talkin big boy, your the one who who tagged in on this with the "reaping the consequences of what you said" . your not helpin anyone buddy, just trying to make yourself feel big and bold on an internet chat board....

your attempts at rational thinking are laughable at best. if you were a comedian, all you would have to do is open your filthy mouth and spew some of your useless dribble

 

[ziggyziggy]

yes, i put bits of pieces of my life on here that i dont mind hearing about, and post exagerations of my personal life (see 11,000 joke posts). did i post i was a recluse? if thats what your refering to, no i didnt, the person who said that was digging for things to say
oh, big boy! reread this sentence... was that a mature thing of you to say? its not my fault i couldnt give 2 shits about your opinion

look whose talkin big boy, your the one who who tagged in on this with the "reaping the consequences of what you said" . your not helpin anyone buddy, just trying to make yourself feel big and bold on an internet chat board....

your attempts at rational thinking are laughable at best. if you were a comedian, all you would have to do is open your filthy mouth and spew some of your useless dribble

I don't need to feel big and bold. I've grown past that stage, as you have yet to do. Opinions are like assholes, and everyone has one. But the kicker is when you feel the need to continue personal attacks against me, especially the part that I have so thoughtfully put is bold for you.

Your age is definately showing, as is your maturity level. Although you do your best to act grown up, you lack the necessary tact, insight, and life experience to do so. It shows. I have every intention of refraining from personal attacks, but if you want to make it personal, I will oblige you.

Feel free to red me again. I'm not going to stoop to the level of a 17 year old kid when there are so many alters running around here that make perfectly good targets. Perhaps when you have finished a time-out session, and have calmed down again, we can discuss this in a rational, adult manner, without the need for you to resort to emotion when logic would better serve you.

Again, not a flame, merely on observation based upon your statements and actions here.

Zig

 

[bigmann245]

man and i felt good about this thread too. just ignore him, he will go away. this is what thrives on. he wants the drama. just let it go.

man thats it, im taking my dating sugguestions elsewhere.

 

[Sub-Zero]

I don't need to feel big and bold. I've grown past that stage, as you have yet to do. Opinions are like assholes, and everyone has one. But the kicker is when you feel the need to continue personal attacks against me, especially the part that I have so thoughtfully put is bold for you.

She does have one point. A young man of your age should spend a lot more time socializing with people of your age group, and I don't mean online. You seem like a good person despite some of your statements. I would hate to see you end up socially retarded because of your own behavioral tendencies.

scuse me for taking offense to that PERSONAL attack. im glad you are comparing opinions to assholes, and all sorts of things that turn you on, but no matter how you look at it, you started by attacking ME, when i had no previous interaction with you. quit trying to act above this all, and above me. the very fact that you are participating in this thread makes you just as low as you think me to be. (even lower since you started it)

Your age is definately showing, as is your maturity level. Although you do your best to act grown up, you lack the necessary tact, insight, and life experience to do so. It shows.

blow me homo

I have every intention of refraining from personal attacks, but if you want to make it personal, I will oblige you.

you mean like this:"I would hate to see you end up socially retarded because of your own behavioral tendencies" which is what you already said to me...

or like this: give me your best shot, you loser nogood worthless piece of trash. get some friends. seriously, youv got nothing to live for. go out and have some drinks at a bar, or go do something with your buddies, your starting a flame war with a 17 year old kid who you dont even respect on elite fitness. what are you doing pretending to be mature and above everything when your the one who started with him?

Feel free to red me again. I'm not going to stoop to the level of a 17 year old kid when there are so many alters running around here that make perfectly good targets

lol@ saying using the karma system=stooping to the age of a 17 year old. the very person you stepped in for redded me...shes not immature! shes great.

Perhaps when you have finished a time-out session, and have calmed down again, we can discuss this in a rational, adult manner, without the need for you to resort to emotion when logic would better serve you.

perhaps you can quit trying to hide little witty insults in what you think to be mature and well structured sentences.
you act all big saying you dont have time for insults, and then call me illogical, and socially retarded, and saying i cant control my emotions .

Again, not a flame, merely on observation based upon your statements and actions here.

Zig

same here buddy, im not flaming anyone....im just having a nice discussion



cliffnotes:
-You say you arnt gunna stoop to the level of a 17 year old, but you already have.
-you say you are above insults and personal attacks, but you started this with one
-you disguise your posts with punctuation, and then insert attacks on my emotion and logic, right after youv said that you arnt gunna attack me


oh yeah, im acting like an idiot because im a kid....whats your excuse ziggy?

 

[Sub-Zero]

man and i felt good about this thread too. just ignore him, he will go away. this is what thrives on. he wants the drama. just let it go.

man thats it, im taking my dating sugguestions elsewhere.

sorry for shitting on your thread man...i actually didnt ask for this ziggyziggy started the interaction....

i guess its too late to save your thread, but people will probably post alot more serious stuff on it if u post it in seduction boards at the bottom under BTS section...

again sorry for ruinin ur thread

 

[Sweet_Bitch]

man and i felt good about this thread too. just ignore him, he will go away. this is what thrives on. he wants the drama. just let it go.

man thats it, im taking my dating sugguestions elsewhere.

NO! NO! NO! Come back!!!!! I want to hear more

 

[anthrax]

Damn, that's a long thread
I didn't read all the previous posts but here's my input:

If you treat a chicik like a princess (flowers, opening the door, chair, good restaurant etc) she'll lose respect for you guys!

She'll make the assumption that she can expect everything from you

 

[Sub-Zero]

Damn, that's a long thread
I didn't read all the previous posts but here's my input:

If you treat a chicik like a princess (flowers, opening the door, chair, good restaurant etc) she'll lose respect for you guys!

She'll make the assumption that she can expect everything from you

dood ur gunna get flamed for that

 

[bigmann245]

NO! NO! NO! Come back!!!!! I want to hear more

you know i can never leave. im addicted to this board. thanks george.... lol. the funny thing is i was so hung up on the steroid board i never even looked over here. i joined this board shortly after it was created but i guess i was too tied up with the BS of the Navy.

so what else do you want to hear?

 

[anthrax]

dood ur gunna get flamed for that

By who?

Metrosexuals or feminists?

 

[Sub-Zero]

By who?

Metrosexuals or feminists?

both

 

[velvett]

I don't date.

I'll let you know when I do and how I behave at that time.

Thanks for asking.

 

[bigmann245]

I don't date.

I'll let you know when I do and how I behave at that time.

Thanks for asking.

why dont you date? if you dont mind me asking.

 

[velvett]

why dont you date? if you dont mind me asking.

Just ended a relationship and going through what I assume to be a pre/early mid life crisis, all about re-finding self, all about needs, making lots of changes, new hobbies/adventures and I don't want to be involved or be part of a "we" for a while.

 

[bigmann245]

Just ended a relationship and going through what I assume to be a pre/early mid life crisis, all about re-finding self, all about needs, making lots of changes, new hobbies/adventures and I don't want to be involved or be part of a "we" for a while.

i hear ya. yea i hate the brake up blues. but at leased your moving on, well besides the crisi and all, but your moving on. id give ya a hug if i could but its a little impossible. i hope you get through it well. we are here for ya if you need to vent. take care.

 

[Sub-Zero]

Just ended a relationship and going through what I assume to be a pre/early mid life crisis, all about re-finding self, all about needs, making lots of changes, new hobbies/adventures and I don't want to be involved or be part of a "we" for a while.

aw...

wanna go out for some coffee? it might make ya feel better...

 

[habitualhealth]

Damn, that's a long thread
I didn't read all the previous posts but here's my input:

If you treat a chicik like a princess (flowers, opening the door, chair, good restaurant etc) she'll lose respect for you guys!

She'll make the assumption that she can expect everything from you

Yeah so talk to us like we're scum of the earth, curse too...that rocks. Yell when you're giving orders. And once in while, just for funsies of course, spit on us.

 

[Mavafanculo]

Yeah so talk to us like we're scum of the earth, curse too...that rocks. Yell when you're giving orders. And once in while, just for funsies of course, spit on us.

I've been looking for a girl like you.

 

[bigmann245]

Yeah so talk to us like we're scum of the earth, curse too...that rocks. Yell when you're giving orders. And once in while, just for funsies of course, spit on us.

could you imagine that? i would die if i heard of someone actually doing that...

 

[habitualhealth]

I've been looking for a girl like you.

Yew wanna bay my SO? Then i could go in that thread and actually have something to say other than blah blah blah bla. (well, no probably not, but still)

 

[IvanOffelitch]

Interesting to note the tone this thread had when it started vs. the tone it has now.

Things that make you go "hmmmmmmmmmmmm".

Carry on.

 

[habitualhealth]

could you imagine that? i would die if i heard of someone actually doing that...

Can I imagine it...hmmmm. Well, I've never had anyone spit on me...nor yell out orders (they would HAVE to be clinically diagnosed for that to happen) but the name calling and talking to like scum....unfortunately, happens more often than should in life ya know.

 

[buffer1]

unless there a real fucktard,with respect

 

[Mavafanculo]

Yew wanna bay my SO? Then i could go in that thread and actually have something to say other than blah blah blah bla. (well, no probably not, but still)

no carbs today huh?
-

 

[habitualhealth]

no carbs today huh?
-

Actually, no carbs and in the gym twice. grrrrrrr.


Did i mention....grrrrrr?

 

[bigmann245]

Can I imagine it...hmmmm. Well, I've never had anyone spit on me...nor yell out orders (they would HAVE to be clinically diagnosed for that to happen) but the name calling and talking to like scum....unfortunately, happens more often than should in life ya know.

yea well i dispise disrespect of woman. im sorry. i have gotten my nose stuck in others business before because of it, but in the end i feel good for helping out a woman in need. i guess thats why i became a bouncer. most fights start over a woman. the best is when 2 chicks fight, oh i love getting inbetween those.

 

[Mavafanculo]

Actually, no carbs and in the gym twice. grrrrrrr.


Did i mention....grrrrrr?

well the results look good . keep at it.

 

[Austin316]

I treat every girl differantly. If I can sense that she's quality and I wanna pursue it I go out of my way to be a gentleman, ask lots of questions, and offer but don't insist on paying, some women nowadays get offended if you force that


if she's wild and crazy I just let my evil side out to deal with her, talk about sex, whatever, basically I treat them based on who they are which I try and figure out right away, if they aren't the first girl I mentioned I don't care how the date ends so whatever lol

 

[habitualhealth]

well the results look good . keep at it.

thank you weird eye girl avi guy

 

[Mavafanculo]

thank you weird eye girl avi guy

 

[anthrax]

Yeah so talk to us like we're scum of the earth, curse too...that rocks. Yell when you're giving orders. And once in while, just for funsies of course, spit on us.

There's a (slight) difference between kissing your ass and treating you like less than nothing

I'm more into mutual respect and equality (even though I agree the guy may want to "run the show")