ChefWide said:
Ok, Scooter, PLEASE sit down before you pull a muscle.
please sit down before you shit your old man diapers.... (was that mature of me to say? no...it had no place in this topic, just like what you just said to me
My first reaction is that it will take until you reach manhood before you come to understand that GIVING is not about WHAT YOU RECIEVE IN RETURN! Capiche?
not worth it....(even responding to this part, not giving, i mean)
REAL MEN, and i use that term without tongue in cheek, and I mean MEN that are responsible for their actions, emotions, and have experienced the fruits of both, KNOW that these things are what you DO for women. Not what is 'expected' or somesuch horsehockey. Its what a man DOES.
your talking to me like i dont do those things. i do them. i go
out of my way to do them. and i feel like iv done a good thing when i do that. not that iv done an expected thing. my posts like the one you quoted are in response to some of the women here making comments such as "I EXPECT this, i EXPECT that." and in my opinion its the people who appreciate what they are given that deserve it the most. the ones who expect it are just spoiled. do you think a child should EXPECT money for helping around the house? no, they shouldnt, but its still nice for parents to give them an allowance (provided they can afford it) to reward the kids... its normally what is done, but shouldnt be expected, and if a kid bitches and moans that he didnt get paid cause he took out the trash, then it wreaks of selfishness
If your partner is 'grateful' or 'nonplussed' or 'completely ambivalent', it matters not. You do these things because how we love and respect others is the standard by which we are measured. We are not the sum of how OTHERS react to our moral fiber, we are MEN. The whole 'i do you, so now you do me' selfish claptrap is a sickening thing to behold, you should strive as you mature to avoid it with all your cunning and with the inner strength that you can muster.
even if someone expected me to open doors for them, and was a bitch about it, i would do it for them, but i wouldnt ever see them again, because selfish people arnt worth my time. your talking to me like you just saw me open a door walk in and have it slam in some womans face... your talking to me as if you know how i act in public. snobbish assumptions arnt very MANly
As to your last sentence, 'to deserve anything but slaps, a quick fuck, and a boot out the door', thats pure mouth feces: stow it.
it was more of a hyperbole, saying that women who EXPECT and are not grateful for being treated like royalty, are ones that deserve to be treated like trash.
No man that has ever known the word love for what it is has ever done anything like that,
once again your making assumptions about what iv experienced or havnt... ever heard the saying "to assume makes an ass out of u and me"?
and to hear that shit coming from not only a kid but a virgin at that... is goofy beyond measure.
quit throwing around your age. in fact, to bring in real life issues like my virgnity into an online chat board, is just silly. someone as old and wise as you
should know this... and how do you know im not saving my virgnity for marriage? does someone have to have sex to know love? thats what it seems like your saying here..
Do think that kind of misogynistic cowpattie is 'coo' or 'impressive'? You know whats impressive? Be nice to people that treat you like shit.
once again your talking to me like im not nice to people who treat me like shit. i have so many stories of instances like this, but im not gunna bother typing them out (unless ur interested ill PM them to u), but once again ists irrelivent...just tryin to act wise and give unsolicited advice
Be polite to a total cunt
to a total cunt? CUNT! is that the word a wise old man uses?
ok ok, seriously, this is what im really getting at...just because im being nice to a "total cunt" is she any less of a "cunt"? you said it yourself there are "cunts" out there...if expecting to be showered with praises and favors and chivalry isnt an example of "cuntory" then your opinion and mine differ. again, my opinion of people with that attitude deserving to be treated like trash, (which is pretty much how I FEEL "cunts" should be treated) doesnt mean i do do that. but c'mon...their still "cunts"
and never EVER, E V E R, lower yourself to the standard of an asshole. To quote a very wise man, 'Never let an asshole catch you being an asshole'. Live by that, at least partially, and you will be richer for it.
is being an asshole sticking up for yourself? is being an asshole not being willing to be treated like a worthless dog? if a girl smacks you for not opening the door for her, and you call her a bitch for it, are you an asshole?
where do you draw the line?
if a female teacher BEATS your kid, for talking out in class, if she fucks him up real bad, are you gunna open the door for her and hold her bags as she goes home for the night? cause shes a woman after all. hell, shes a "cunt" but you best not speak rudely to her or stop being chivalrous, because a real MAN wouldnt do such things
'Be a man' is something you will hear many times in your coming up, it is YOU who must decide what defines that.
so this statement, i ask myself "WHY THE FUCK" did i just read all your advice and morals that youv set for yourself, if in th eend your telling me to decide for myself?
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yall deserve it. even though i didnt write it, i was thinking it.. lol
