I have a hard time finding a female who is strong enough to do the type of deep tissue that I need to get the knots out of my back. Although I've had some rather limp-wristed guys do massage which is just flat out annoying.
I talked my dad into getting a massage because he was having Sciatica problems but wouldnt' so a chiro about it despite the fact that it was cutting into his golf game (unheard of in m family, btw). He ended up seeing this older lady LMT. He said it felt good but didn't do much. He felt pretty weird about having another female (other than my mom) touch him, though mom said he probably liked it. I am not sure if he woudl've done it if it were a guy.
But yea, I guess the one thing if you are remotely comfortable working w/ a guy (and you are a guy) is to make sure you both understand that its for a massage and not more.
I was watching last weeks episode of Entourage, not sure if any of you guys watched it. Anyways Drama played by Matt Dillions brother has this massage therapist in Vegas who claims he is the best. Of course his friends tease him about it because he's a guy but Drama says there's nothing sexual about a man giving you a massage.
So he ends up going to Vegas to get his massage and books the guy for the whole weekend. Drama invites him out and toward the end of the night Drama says he has a kink in his neck that needs a rub down so they go back to the salon but the salon is closed. So drama suggest they go back to the room for him to get a rub down. So they go back to the room and while Drama is in the bathroom changing, the massage therapist thinks that Drama wants more than just a massage so he strips naked and jumps in the bed and waits for Drama to come out. So when he comes out Drama says "Bro what the funk do you think your doing?" Shakes his head and walks out the door freaking pissed off. LOL
To me I have never had a guy massage me and I would feel VERY uncomfortable if a guy was touching me. I don't know why but it FREAKS me out even if it's not meant to be in a sexual way. So I'm on myspace and there's this guy who won't leave me the funk alone bugging me about wanting give me a free massage because he's in massage school. I swear he's messaged me about 15 times and I haven't responded but I'm just about to snap and go off on him. Should I write him back a really nasty email?
And how do you feel about a man giving you a massage?
my husband gets a 15-minute massage at his office building every thursday and the massage therapist is a male. the same massage therapist who comes to my house on weekends lately. i guess if youre not secure in your manhood, that might feel weird for you.
my husband gets a 15-minute massage at his office building every thursday and the massage therapist is a male. the same massage therapist who comes to my house on weekends lately. i guess if youre not secure in your manhood, that might feel weird for you.