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How are fit men supposed to marry grotesquely overweight women?

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gorillahung

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I just read some sad statistics from the CDC. I'm 3 inches taller than the average woman today but I only weigh 6 lbs. heavier and I'm not skinny. Whether it sounds shallow or not, I can't be with a woman that weighs as much as I do unless she's 6'2". Of course men are fatter now too. I'm attracted to women because they are smaller than me, softer than me, and smell nicer than me. If you value a woman that looks feminine, there aren't a lot of options any more.
 
gorillahung said:
I just read some sad statistics from the CDC. I'm 3 inches taller than the average woman today but I only weigh 6 lbs. heavier and I'm not skinny. Whether it sounds shallow or not, I can't be with a woman that weighs as much as I do unless she's 6'2". Of course men are fatter now too. I'm attracted to women because they are smaller than me, softer than me, and smell nicer than me. If you value a woman that looks feminine, there aren't a lot of options any more.
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I completely agree. I hated using the dating apps because all you get matched with are the thicker chicks, and the only attractive ones are bots trying to lead you to their escort site! Turns out, most girls are just not into taking care of themselves.

It's really sad.

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mellomuscle said:
I completely agree. I hated using the dating apps because all you get matched with are the thicker chicks, and the only attractive ones are bots trying to lead you to their escort site! Turns out, most girls are just not into taking care of themselves.

It's really sad.

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I've read about this pretty new movement called MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way) where young men are just doing away with dating. I think it's a result of a combination of factors including radical feminism but also the fact that women are no longer attractive in the eyes of men. On top of being overweight, the modern woman feels the need to get covered in tattoos and have a bull ring pierced through her septum. I can handle a small inconspicuous "girly" tattoo that is normally covered by clothes but these elaborate ink drawings covering large areas of her body is an instant turn off to me. I'm not a fan of tats. To me I don't see a piece of art. They all look like random blobs of ink. With fat rolls added, they look even worse. I never can even tell what they are supposed to be.
 
mellomuscle said:
I completely agree. I hated using the dating apps because all you get matched with are the thicker chicks, and the only attractive ones are bots trying to lead you to their escort site! Turns out, most girls are just not into taking care of themselves.

It's really sad.

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I have had the same experience with dating sites. When I find one that looks like a good prospect and write to her, I get a response directing me to a porn site. My favorites though are the women who say things in their profile like "I don't want any losers"! If you're introducing yourself that way, it definitely says a great deal about you.
 
move to a place where women take care of themselves. you want to live in the sticks in middle america, then you will get fatter women. sorry but that is how it is. move to either coasts, women take care of themselves. lots of hot women in the northeast, FL, and west coast who are OBSESSED with fitness more than any man you will meet.
 
There are plenty of fish in the sea. The best place to meet females that have the same goals and interests as you IS at the exact place where you do those hobbies.

Approach females at the gym, grocery store, library etc. Just come off as a friendly guy and start a conversation.

You could always try online dating as well.
 
That's the dumbest thing I've heard to date, hot chicks with smart tattoos are like a free Harley with a 66 gto, I'll bang those all day long, you can keep the unoriginal girls. I like girls with sex appeal and style
 
Lucy01 said:
I think this goes both ways tho. I know very very few men my age that are fit.
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Yes, it sure goes both ways. It just seems to me based on nothing more than observation that women will overlook a man's physical flaws if he has money. I can overlook a woman's physical flaws to a certain extent if she's intelligent and cares for me. However for me there needs to be some sort of physical attraction. It seems to me that women are more after an emotional attraction.
 
stevesmi said:
move to a place where women take care of themselves. you want to live in the sticks in middle america, then you will get fatter women. sorry but that is how it is. move to either coasts, women take care of themselves. lots of hot women in the northeast, FL, and west coast who are OBSESSED with fitness more than any man you will meet.
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I live close to Boston, that east coast enough? Apparently not cuz there's still a bunch of fatties running around.

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gorillahung said:
Yes, it sure goes both ways. It just seems to me based on nothing more than observation that women will overlook a man's physical flaws if he has money. I can overlook a woman's physical flaws to a certain extent if she's intelligent and cares for me. However for me there needs to be some sort of physical attraction. It seems to me that women are more after an emotional attraction.
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You may be right to some extent, but I'm sure most women would rather have a healthy man to hold tight at night should they have the choice.
 
stevesmi said:
move to a place where women take care of themselves. you want to live in the sticks in middle america, then you will get fatter women. sorry but that is how it is. move to either coasts, women take care of themselves. lots of hot women in the northeast, FL, and west coast who are OBSESSED with fitness more than any man you will meet.
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I live in the fattest metropolitan area of the country. My town is also known as the heroin capital of the country. We once had close to 30 heroin overdoses in a 4 hour time span. If people around here can't stay away from heroin or oxycontin then they aren't going to give a damn about fitness. I'm very seriously considering moving to the West coast, possibly Oregon to teach science in public schools, preferably at the high school level. I have a B.S. in geology I just need to get teaching credentials.
 
muskate said:
There are plenty of fish in the sea. The best place to meet females that have the same goals and interests as you IS at the exact place where you do those hobbies.

Approach females at the gym, grocery store, library etc. Just come off as a friendly guy and start a conversation.

You could always try online dating as well.
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I've had my eye on a lady that's about my age at my gym. I don't know if she's single or not. I'm assuming women remove their ring in the weight room.
There's a younger lady and if I was younger I would be all over her. She looks feminine but competes in powerlifting. That means she trains like a man. I find it hot that she trains like I do but still remains feminine in appearance. Of course all of those squats means she has a very attractive buttocks!
 
gorillahung said:
I live in the fattest metropolitan area of the country. My town is also known as the heroin capital of the country. We once had close to 30 heroin overdoses in a 4 hour time span. If people around here can't stay away from heroin or oxycontin then they aren't going to give a damn about fitness. I'm very seriously considering moving to the West coast, possibly Oregon to teach science in public schools, preferably at the high school level. I have a B.S. in geology I just need to get teaching credentials.
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there are way more fit people on the west coast but i should warn you that single men do outnumber women out west compared to the east coast cities. i wouldn't want to be a male in silicon valley, seattle, vegas or LA thats for sure.. has to do with the types of jobs in those cities. example in silicon valley it is all high tech jobs which attract men obviously, so you are naturally going to have a ton more single men for very little female
 
mellomuscle said:
I live close to Boston, that east coast enough? Apparently not cuz there's still a bunch of fatties running around.

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boston,NYC,philly,DC,ATL, MIA, all have a shit ton of single females compared to males.

as much as you are having trouble, there are going to be 5X more females with the same complaints in Boston. so consider yourself lucky, the odds are in your favor

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I'm 36 and divorced now 7 years, so you can imagine what the dating pool looks like, but lack of available women my age is not even the issue. It all gets complicated because I'm also into younger women and only ones that are fit and beautiful and non-fat. Letting yourself get 20-30lbs over weight, not catching yourself on the way there, that really shows you have some internal issues that I might not want to deal with.


It gets really tough to live daily with standards and being uncompromising about them. The rewarding part really is when keeping to my standards works in my favor and I get a chance to date a girl 7-10years younger than me that also trains and/or models or something... Being single and just waiting it out really does pay off in the end, if you just stay patient and consistent.


Being tied up in one of those "better than being alone" relationships really just sucks because when the right opportunity does come, you are just not free to explore it. We all know that day, when that incredibly hot and interesting girl gave you the nod, the smile and/or the wink, but you can't go for it, you can't spark the conversation to get the number to take her out. Because you where right at the very same place with the "better than alone" ball and chain.


Better keep it single and free to mingle until you find yourself a girl that makes you not want to look at another woman again. Until you find the one that is so hot and treats you so fine that you want to keep that ass for a while... Even then, do not get married... Just don't ever fucking do it.
 
^^^ I like your mindset bro. so true. the last thing you want to do is be stuck in a shitty marriage or relationship. I see so many people cheating on their spouses, hell go on dating websites or those apps. half the people are married trying to have fun on the side. rather than cheat on your spouse like that just stay single and you can do what you want.

if you do find the perfect girl then marry her ass but make sure you get a prenup on both ends so you both can move on amicably and fairly

I do have to laugh though at GPS, golden pussy syndrome from chicks in their 30's and 40's who are highly educated, in great shape, and make big money. they all want to find a guy who makes more than what they make, is 6+ feet tall, in great shape, and the all around "Mr. Big" type of big wig. the sad news for them is guys like that who are 40-50 aren't into them, they will date way younger because they can. so those females end up bitching how they can't find a man.. lower your fucking standards and you will be able to! those are the WORST women to mess with because they are extremely high maintenance.
 
stevesmi said:
^^^ I like your mindset bro. so true. the last thing you want to do is be stuck in a shitty marriage or relationship. I see so many people cheating on their spouses,
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In my early 30's before my rotator cuff tears forced me to stop training, I would at least once a month have a married woman from work try to hook up with me. I rejected all of them except one, and I deeply regret that having sex with her. I felt so much guilt almost as soon as I finished ejaculating. Two of the rejected women, I flat out asked them why they would risk their marriage to be with me for a night and they both said pretty much the same thing. My body did not look like their husband's body. These women were just looking to have sex with a guy that was reasonably fit. I didn't feel any attraction to most of these women so I simply told them that I couldn't be with them. All except for that one. That woman, I had sex with her despite being a guest at her wedding which was only 13 days prior to our hookup. Her marriage only lasted 2 years. It was sad. I saw her interact with that poor guy and she was mean to him. She would be verbally abusive and seemed to enjoy emasculating him publicly. Part of me thinks that she desired me because she knew that I wasn't the kind of man who would put up with her bullshit. Women can be odd creatures in many ways.
 
^^^ I saw that happen in the grocery store the other day

the man was holding the baby and the wife yelled at him and told him to get a cart. . so he is holding a baby in one arm and she expects him to move the cart with his other arm and follow her around the store while she shops. he had this look on his face like "yeah I'm whipped" .. imagine if a husband behaved like that, i would want to clock him for treating his wife like that.

as much as guys reading this will say 'yeah i would never let a girl treat me like that'.. problem is when you get married you are under contract and she knows it + when you have a kid you just signed up for 18 years of child support if she leaves your ass + whatever the kid costs you after that in insurance, college, his fuckups, etc. a good guy gets screwed in this.. a loser like my exes baby daddy didn't pay shit in child support and hasn't contributed shit to his college, but he gets away with that cause he has no money to go after.

so you better damn well make sure you marry the right person! I would rather die alone than marry the wrong person. my advice to every guy reading this is stay PATIENT. the right girl will come along, as you get older the amount of single women to men increases bigtime. so you will have your pick the longer you wait.. if you pull the trigger too young than you may come to regret it

I also briefly dated a married woman, I did not know she was married until i did my homework on her. her hubby wasn't taking care of business at home, it is that simple.. women need to feel wanted and close to their partners. it is a domino effect that cannot be reversed
 
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Lucy01 said:
I don't think there is a reasonable excuse for an affair. If you are unhappy end the marriage.
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what happens is they are happy with the marriage, but they are bored and want some action on the side. relationships can and will get boring, the spark goes away. think about it, if the sparks didn't go away then we would go crazy .. you need to build a marriage based on more than just physical attraction, that is the key IMO. if you fuck the person on the first date you base the marriage on sex only, and if that is all you got then you are in big trouble.
 
True. But, if you are getting bored than work on your relationship don't spend time looking for another one. That isn't going to help anything.
 
Lucy01 said:
True. But, if you are getting bored than work on your relationship don't spend time looking for another one. That isn't going to help anything.
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I really don't think from a man's perspective that certain things can be 'worked on'... lets say you don't find your wife attractive anymore, how can you work on that? a man might say 'hey i love my wife, she is my best friend, but i have needs" so he will seek it other places even though he is perfectly happy with his wife otherwise.

that sort of thing happens all the time and it works both ways. a lot of people get married too young and as they get older they change and grow apart. how can you work on that? you can't force someone to adapt to your changes. I dated a girl years ago who was busty when i met her.. C tits, curves. she started to exercise like crazy and lost like 30 pounds, her tits shrank to B and she got way too skinny for my liking. people change and good for her, but i lost my physical attraction. am i supposed to tell her to go back to eating junk and stop exercising? of course not. best thing is to move on
 
Lucy01 said:
If marriage was just based on physical attraction there would be no one married in their 70's
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I think there is a different attraction with people that old. Most of them have been married for a long time and have shared so much of their life together that they have formed a very strong bond.
 
gorillahung said:
I think there is a different attraction with people that old. Most of them have been married for a long time and have shared so much of their life together that they have formed a very strong bond.
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And why would you marry someone you do not have a strong bond with?
 
Lucy01 said:
And why would you marry someone you do not have a strong bond with?
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how many wives has Donald Trump had? you think they bonded with him or that they were gold diggers? isn't his wife like 30 years younger than him? i'm sure she had a 'bond' with him, give me a break. they get married cause the guy can provide a certain lifestyle, those east european women especially are the biggest gold diggers. I have dated 3 of them and they are complete liars and have no character.

yes they stay with them till they are 70+ cause they are waiting for their asses to die lol to collect their inheritance.. then they go find a young hard dude to fuck with. see Demi Moore as an example
 
stevesmi said:
how many wives has Donald Trump had? you think they bonded with him or that they were gold diggers? isn't his wife like 30 years younger than him? i'm sure she had a 'bond' with him, give me a break. they get married cause the guy can provide a certain lifestyle, those east european women especially are the biggest gold diggers. I have dated 3 of them and they are complete liars and have no character.

yes they stay with them till they are 70+ cause they are waiting for their asses to die lol to collect their inheritance.. then they go find a young hard dude to fuck with. see Demi Moore as an example
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Those ppl shouldn't marry. Why marry if you're just gunna plow the next girl who sits on your lap?

Stay single ftw
 
Lucy01 said:
Those ppl shouldn't marry. Why marry if you're just gunna plow the next girl who sits on your lap?

Stay single ftw
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believe it or not .. not all guys are after just pussy.. I am secure enough to say I love romance, i love feeling butterflies.. i love to wake up next to my best friend and partner everyday.. i love doing things with her etc.
 
stevesmi said:
believe it or not .. not all guys are after just pussy.. I am secure enough to say I love romance, i love feeling butterflies.. i love to wake up next to my best friend and partner everyday.. i love doing things with her etc.
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You were referencing trump. So that is who I was referring to.
 
stevesmi said:
believe it or not .. not all guys are after just pussy.. I am secure enough to say I love romance, i love feeling butterflies.. i love to wake up next to my best friend and partner everyday.. i love doing things with her etc.
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Thank you for saying this. It's weird but when I meet a woman I really love, I don't have many sexual thoughts about her. Of course I'd have sex with her but I don't obsess over it.
 
stevesmi said:
we have an upcoming evo podcast with a dating guru coming on. he will be discussing all kinds of things from dating, to picking up chicks, to relationships, etc. that is one not to miss.
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Who is the next guest on your show?
 
George Spellwin said:
Who is the next guest on your show?
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Next guest will be Jerry ward from bios3training. for those who don't know him, he has over 150K followers on youtube and is one of the few no BS guys in the industry

and then the next one will be David Wygant who is a dating guru you have seen on CNN, bravo and other channels on tv. if anyone has any dating questions please submit them to myself or Trevor

some of our past guests include Bostin Loyd, Nelson Montana and Ross Erstling (probably one of the most entertaining episodes)
 
stevesmi said:
Next guest will be Jerry ward from bios3training. for those who don't know him, he has over 150K followers on youtube and is one of the few no BS guys in the industry

and then the next one will be David Wygant who is a dating guru you have seen on CNN, bravo and other channels on tv. if anyone has any dating questions please submit them to myself or Trevor

some of our past guests include Bostin Loyd, Nelson Montana and Ross Erstling (probably one of the most entertaining episodes)
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I don't know how I've missed these. But where are these interviews shown?


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