How are fit men supposed to marry grotesquely overweight women?

[Lucy01]

I don't think there is a reasonable excuse for an affair. If you are unhappy end the marriage.

 

[stevesmi]

I don't think there is a reasonable excuse for an affair. If you are unhappy end the marriage.

what happens is they are happy with the marriage, but they are bored and want some action on the side. relationships can and will get boring, the spark goes away. think about it, if the sparks didn't go away then we would go crazy .. you need to build a marriage based on more than just physical attraction, that is the key IMO. if you fuck the person on the first date you base the marriage on sex only, and if that is all you got then you are in big trouble.

 

[Lucy01]

True. But, if you are getting bored than work on your relationship don't spend time looking for another one. That isn't going to help anything.

 

[stevesmi]

True. But, if you are getting bored than work on your relationship don't spend time looking for another one. That isn't going to help anything.

I really don't think from a man's perspective that certain things can be 'worked on'... lets say you don't find your wife attractive anymore, how can you work on that? a man might say 'hey i love my wife, she is my best friend, but i have needs" so he will seek it other places even though he is perfectly happy with his wife otherwise.

that sort of thing happens all the time and it works both ways. a lot of people get married too young and as they get older they change and grow apart. how can you work on that? you can't force someone to adapt to your changes. I dated a girl years ago who was busty when i met her.. C tits, curves. she started to exercise like crazy and lost like 30 pounds, her tits shrank to B and she got way too skinny for my liking. people change and good for her, but i lost my physical attraction. am i supposed to tell her to go back to eating junk and stop exercising? of course not. best thing is to move on

 

[Lucy01]

Sounds like something a very loving husband would do *sarcasm*

 

[Lucy01]

But yes move on then. Don't fuck around and pretend it's out of love

 

[Lucy01]

If marriage was just based on physical attraction there would be no one married in their 70's

 

[gorillahung]

If marriage was just based on physical attraction there would be no one married in their 70's

I think there is a different attraction with people that old. Most of them have been married for a long time and have shared so much of their life together that they have formed a very strong bond.

 

[Lucy01]

I think there is a different attraction with people that old. Most of them have been married for a long time and have shared so much of their life together that they have formed a very strong bond.

And why would you marry someone you do not have a strong bond with?

 

[stevesmi]

And why would you marry someone you do not have a strong bond with?

how many wives has Donald Trump had? you think they bonded with him or that they were gold diggers? isn't his wife like 30 years younger than him? i'm sure she had a 'bond' with him, give me a break. they get married cause the guy can provide a certain lifestyle, those east european women especially are the biggest gold diggers. I have dated 3 of them and they are complete liars and have no character.

yes they stay with them till they are 70+ cause they are waiting for their asses to die lol to collect their inheritance.. then they go find a young hard dude to fuck with. see Demi Moore as an example