Holy Shit! Serious help needed.

[madmatt]

I am asking for opinions from people who really know only. I realize my stupidity. All I want is facts.

Last Friday I went to a hole-in-the-wall bar. I was drunk and about to leave...when this chick started coming on to me like you wouldn't believe. Anyway she was not the most attractive girl in the world, but fuck I was drunk right?

She tells me that there is no way she is going to have anymore kids and goes on to say that she already has three. She also explains that this is why see got her tubes tied.

I took her home and banged the fuck out of her (twice). I did not ware a condom and did not pull out. Nothing bothered me until the next day. I was scared shitless. I always ware pertection.

Now I am wanting to know whats my chances of A) her lying to me about being tied. B) Here getting knocked up even if she was lying. I KNOW SOME OF YOU HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX A LOT..PLEASE HELP!

 

[b fold the truth]

Hmmmmm...

Surely you don't put your life trust into a woman that
1) You have never met before
2) Tells you about having her tubes tied and having 3 kids already
3) Tries to pick YOU up at a bar

Doesn't sound like the most stable person in the world in my opinion...or the most trust worthy...

B True

 

[Bikini Mod]

Dude, getting that skank pregnant should be THE LEAST of your concerns....

I'd be more concerned about what may have crawled up into my Johnson if I were you.

 

[Lakerman]

Dude, getting that skank pregnant should be THE LEAST of your concerns....

I'd be more concerned about what may have crawled up into my Johnson if I were you.

Having an unwanted kid with some barslut sounds a lot worse then catching a STD.

 

[WIDELAT]

NOT IF THE STD IS AIDS

 

[Calypso]

cool dude, i like people who live on the edge, what's her #?

 

[duritz]

well first off the chances are pretty slim even with unprotected sex to get an STD. the masses make it seem like the first time you do it without a condom you are going to get AIDS, but actually it's like around a 1% chance even if the person has it. Same thing goes for getting the girl pregnant. IMHO i woulda pulled out anyway and busted a nut on her face and then told her to get the fuck out. Never, ever bust a nut in a girl unless you want to get her pregnant. Busting a nut where you shouldn't (face, tits, ass, ear) is the icing on the cake (no pun intended).

 

[Big Country 056]

I would be much more scared of what you might have caught if I were you.

 

[PHATchik]

I would be concerned about both. Becoming a daddy and possibly catching something from her. Just because she says she wouldn't be able to get pregnant, since when does this mean that you don't need a condom?

 

[barbell265]

Dude if you dodge these two bullets, STD and pregnancy, I hope to christ you realize how lucky you are. I can tell you right now that you CAN get an STD like herpes, crabs, and HIV by placing your dick in her, 1 time. A single pump will cause 1) a fluid exchange, and direct physical contact, for the crabs to bridge over and start nesting in your crotch.

A bar fly......dude don't take any chances, or wait till you piss fire go get an HIV test and an STD screen. Knocking her up is another boat of trouble...

 

[Big Country 056]

I would be concerned about both. Becoming a daddy and possibly catching something from her. Just because she says she wouldn't be able to get pregnant, since when does this mean that you don't need a condom?

True that. My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 yrs. We do not take chances, shes on the pill and I use a condom...EVERY time.

I do not need a Little Country running around before I am married!

 

[wonderstanding]

True that. My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 yrs. We do not take chances, shes on the pill and I use a condom...EVERY time.

I do not need a Little Country running around before I am married!

thought my GF and I were the only ones! we've been together 3.5 and we do the same thing...

Forrest

 

[Racer-X99]

Hmmmmm...

Surely you don't put your life trust into a woman that
1) You have never met before
2) Tells you about having her tubes tied and having 3 kids already
3) Tries to pick YOU up at a bar

Doesn't sound like the most stable person in the world in my opinion...or the most trust worthy...

B True

Truth to that. I don't worry about STD's so much and I loved my share of women in life and never had a thing. However, that depends on the quality of the catch. Settling down now though just to be safe. Don't need to keep rolling the dice.

There are too many variables for anyone to give you an answer. She will have to get tested and tell you the truth. The rest you can get tested for, but I heard HIV may not show up for up to 6 months.

Next time wear a helmet.

 

[SirMack]

True that. My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 yrs. We do not take chances, shes on the pill and I use a condom...EVERY time.

I do not need a Little Country running around before I am married!

I've been w/my GF for 3 years as well, and have have only used a condom if she forgot her pill.

She hasn't missed it but twice. And the 2 times she missed it I used a condom for a straight month afterwards. so Out of the 36 months of sex, I have only used a condom for 2 of those months. Those pills are extremely effective (even more so then a condom) but if you combine them, then well its VERY effective. The prob is that Birth Control and its potency is effected by a lot of little factors. My GF takes it everyday at about the same time (Give or take an hour). If your off by more then an hour then thats when the effectiveness starts plummeting. Also if a girl drinks, does drugs, or takes too much of certain vitamins/supplements it could kill its effectiveness even more. Even smoking can decrease the effectiveness. Add to that girls not telling their Boyfriends about 'forgetting' and thats where you get the girls, who claim to have been on the pill, getting knocked up.

Its safe, but you have to be open, communicative, and responsible in the same sense. She tells me when she misses a pill, and we are both very careful. and when she misses its a month of using a condom. She doesn't take any drugs or meds nor does she drink or smoke. So I'm 99.999% safe. I even contacted several Birth Control manufacturers and spoken with doctors who say the pill is 100% effective if taken properly. THey just can't claim 100% because of legal reasonings.

I could be wrong, but I've done a lot of research. The condom of course will help, but more or less the pill does the job for you, its really just an extra 'piece of mind' when you use the condom, but not really necessary if she is doing is right and her body chemistry is screwed around with.

 

[thebull]

i would be more concerned with a disease

 

[jeditonytao]

Remember, think with the big head, not the little one.

 

[lilperronis]

if you are going to dip your pen then dont write your name

 

[Zerxes]

if you are going to dip your pen then dont write your name

Ummmmmmmmmaaaaaaaaa..........Yeah.

 

[manny78]

a barslut with 3 kids......... doesn't sound good at all. Be sure, you weren't the first to fall in her trap, nor the last one.....

 

[Friscochick]

This sounds odd, even for a Slut..... i would Sprint to the doctors if i were you.. All you can do is live and learn and then use Lifestyles!!

 

[BBJ]

I'd be more concerned about what may have crawled up into my Johnson if I were you.

if you walk away from this without a disease or a kid. it's a second chance.