Holy Hell !!!!!!!!!!! Heavy_Duty is diffusing Younggun's G'Bombs? :looks outside for flying pigs: TonyRoma is diffusing Bad Karma for InquisitiveP

[heatherrae]

Re: Holy Hell !!!!!!!!!!! Heavy_Duty is diffusing Younggun's G'Bombs? :looks outside for flying pigs: TonyRoma is diffusing Bad Karma for InquisitiveP

not usually, no.
anytime I have closed a thread for what seemed like only a personal attack or because of divorce, children, law, etc., i get half a dozen pm's asking why the hell i locked it.

female bashing isn't allowed here any more than male bashing, but as a whole, this is a fitness/weightlifting/aas info site, and that's a slightly male dominated arena. women that come here expecting only to be stroked get hit with a reality check instead.

Meh. stroked is one thing. Common decency is another. I don't want threads locked. I don't care that much.

However, I will point out that there is a group mob on here that runs people away. 99% of the women on here won't rock the boat or say anything controversial. Those who do get attacked by the little boy mob. Most leave. Some don't let anyone run them off.

I just LOVE the females who overlook a MAN saying "your daughter sucks your boyfriend's dick" and "I'm happy your ex beat you." Then, when I say, "yeah, okay k-fed" or "your ex gf left you" they cry for the little boys and say how mean I am!

TonyRoma got 3 threads locked the other day, not at my request, because the mods recognized that he was WAY OUT OF LINE and I was trying to ignore it. But, yeah, okay, I'll be the bad guy. What the hell ever.

ROFL fucking priceless.

 

[heatherrae]

Re: Holy Hell !!!!!!!!!!! Heavy_Duty is diffusing Younggun's G'Bombs? :looks outside for flying pigs: TonyRoma is diffusing Bad Karma for InquisitiveP

I'm noticing a pattern on here ; and I just STARTED to come by Chat from the women's forum

it seems that guys like redguru ; plunkey ; longhorn ; hell even mountainmuscle can say whatever they want on political or religous or threads with controversy ; and they are looked at with some respect.

But when heather states her opinion she gets alot of crap from you guys.

i agree with very little with what she says on politics/ religion / ; but why does her opinion seem to bother all the men? Is it because she HAS one?

I dont know the dynamics or character of anyone on this thread or even in chat at all ; but I've thought this stuff while I was here so i dunno.......

Thanks cindy. An astute observation.

 

[heatherrae]

Re: Holy Hell !!!!!!!!!!! Heavy_Duty is diffusing Younggun's G'Bombs? :looks outside for flying pigs: TonyRoma is diffusing Bad Karma for InquisitiveP

Not that I am even proud to admit this, but I did real the entire thread.
You're missing the point.......Yes, defend yourself, my all means!
What some of these guys said was downright mean, but at what point (and here is the point I was trying to make) will you just let it go and not even answer the stupid comments to you?
You know who you are right? Then who cares what some kid says about you?!
What is all this tit for tat? It's fucking childish and you're as guilty as them.....This is not conducive to behavior of someone who struggled to get to the top!
This makes me question who you say you really are.
If I was someone who came from nothing to become a lawyer, I would not fight with some kid on line who calls me a whore. I mean really!
You want people to respect you, then act like the person you claim to be,
I know you’re going to get all huffy and try to defend yourself and that's cool, but just admit you're behaving like a child and move on...really!

Well, here is the thing there blueta. Why did you berate ME and not the MEN? I dont' even want you to answer. I want you to think about it for a bit and not answer it right off the cuff.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Re: Holy Hell !!!!!!!!!!! Heavy_Duty is diffusing Younggun's G'Bombs? :looks outside for flying pigs: TonyRoma is diffusing Bad Karma for InquisitiveP

I'm noticing a pattern on here ; and I just STARTED to come by Chat from the women's forum

it seems that guys like redguru ; plunkey ; longhorn ; hell even mountainmuscle can say whatever they want on political or religous or threads with controversy ; and they are looked at with some respect.

But when heather states her opinion she gets alot of crap from you guys.

i agree with very little with what she says on politics/ religion / ; but why does her opinion seem to bother all the men? Is it because she HAS one?

I dont know the dynamics or character of anyone on this thread or even in chat at all ; but I've thought this stuff while I was here so i dunno.......

Here's the difference.. those guys can dish it out AND can take it. HR only wants her loud-mouth opinion heard without and negative feedback. When she does get negative feedback she runs and cries VICTIM, just like she's doing now.

She doesn't want equality at all. She thinks she is better than most everybody else and she reveals that in many of her posts.

 

[heatherrae]

Re: Holy Hell !!!!!!!!!!! Heavy_Duty is diffusing Younggun's G'Bombs? :looks outside for flying pigs: TonyRoma is diffusing Bad Karma for InquisitiveP

Here's the difference.. those guys can dish it out AND can take it. HR only wants her loud-mouth opinion heard without and negative feedback. When she does get negative feedback she runs and cries VICTIM, just like she's doing now.

She doesn't want equality at all. She thinks she is better than most everybody else and she reveals that in many of her posts.

Who did I run to? No one. I've never PMd a mod and asked that a thread be locked. I've ignored plenty. You boys just see one guy gang up on a gal and you all pile on. It makes you feel like part of the "accepted" group. Group dynamics at their finest.

I welcome everyone to this site and am more than nice to most people. You guys see a target and are relentless in your haranguing and insults and then when I go off you run like wet pups saying "look at how mean she is"

 

[alien amp pharm]

Re: Holy Hell !!!!!!!!!!! Heavy_Duty is diffusing Younggun's G'Bombs? :looks outside for flying pigs: TonyRoma is diffusing Bad Karma for InquisitiveP

Who did I run to? No one. I've never PMd a mod and asked that a thread be locked. I've ignored plenty. You boys just see one guy gang up on a gal and you all pile on. It makes you feel like part of the "accepted" group. Group dynamics at their finest.

I welcome everyone to this site and am more than nice to most people. You guys see a target and are relentless in your haranguing and insults and then when I go off you run like wet pups saying "look at how mean she is"

^^That was a pretty weak retort/explanation

 

[blueta2]

Re: Holy Hell !!!!!!!!!!! Heavy_Duty is diffusing Younggun's G'Bombs? :looks outside for flying pigs: TonyRoma is diffusing Bad Karma for InquisitiveP

Well, here is the thing there blueta. Why did you berate ME and not the MEN? I dont' even want you to answer. I want you to think about it for a bit and not answer it right off the cuff.

I DO NOT AGREE with the way the men spoke to you. Heather, you know, I of all people know how it feels to defend myself. You do recall how much I was bashed when I came here.
My point is, you dished it right back at them and this is above you. Why waste your energy.
What Tony said was DISGUSTING and not kind, but you just kept feeding the "lion".
You know I am about "women power", but you become one of them when you just keep dishing it back, And you dished back as hurtful stuff as they said to you.

 

[foreigngirl]

Re: Holy Hell !!!!!!!!!!! Heavy_Duty is diffusing Younggun's G'Bombs? :looks outside

Yeah, okay I'll be the bad guy.

Everyone pile on! Have fun and high five each other when you are done.

I come on her and have had things WAY beyond anything I've ever said to anyone, then when I fire back, everyone points out that I said something mean.

So, go ahead and form your little mob of haters. Have fun with that!

oh, please heather. You know I have been agreeing with you on a lot of stuff, but fuck! When its enough its enough. This kind of behavior is not appropriate to your age and your maturity that you show when talking about other stuff. All these posts in this thread scream "10 yo child talking", not a "37 yo lawyer talking"

 

[heatherrae]

Re: Holy Hell !!!!!!!!!!! Heavy_Duty is diffusing Younggun's G'Bombs? :looks outside for flying pigs: TonyRoma is diffusing Bad Karma for InquisitiveP

I DO NOT AGREE with the way the men spoke to you. Heather, you know, I of all people know how it feels to defend myself. You do recall how much I was bashed when I came here.
My point is, you dished it right back at them and this is above you. Why waste your energy.
What Tony said was DISGUSTING and not kind, but you just kept feeing the "lion".
You know I am about "women power", but you become one of them when you just keep dishing it back, And you dished back as hurtful stuff as they said to you.

Blueta, from what I recall you were pretty good at dishing a few things to, and I ALWAYS had your back. Did I not?

 

[stilleto]

Re: Holy Hell !!!!!!!!!!! Heavy_Duty is diffusing Younggun's G'Bombs? :looks outside for flying pigs: TonyRoma is diffusing Bad Karma for InquisitiveP

i state my opinion all the time. my religious views are fairly close to lestat's and I've stated that- as he can tell you, a lot of people consider them controversial.
and I'm about as liberal as one can get.
I don't take shit from anyone either, but the truth is, i'm not really given shit all that often. not always, but usually if i find an arguement is starting, and its less than mature... i bow out. I don't want to be a part of it and since I don't care to personally attack, i won't respond to it either, or i'll respond to it minimally to set the record straight.
perpetuating it, then firing that the other person is an immature ass because 'they started it', makes everyone equally as guilty, but it makes one of them less mature for not even acknowledging it.