No SC that is your faulty assumption, your problems are hardly the worlds problems, rather they are noones but your own.
The gentleman was suggesting a solution to your problems and a possible way to improve your disposition. I think that there are not enough men paying attention to you in the real world. If you had one paying attention to you ALL the time you would not be here. You are one of those people that hog all attention and need it all the time to reasurre yourself of your worthiness.