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help me get this chick please

goku_kakarot77

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theres this hot girl i see. im 100% she likes me .. everytime i see her she just wont take her eyes of me she smiles and gives me serious signals, she follows me around in the gym and trys to make it so i go up to her and talk to her. i swear i was working out she came and stood about 2 metres away and was just waiting for me to come, when i was in the magazine area she purposely came and sat right in front of me and was staring at me heavily when coming towards me.

questions

1) from what i described her does this mean she is very keen

2) girls that i know, dont like easy guys to get they like a challenge, should i play hard to get and make her some to me

3) im very shy so seriously i cant approach her there must be a way

players out there help me
its been going for like 7 weeks please help
and i swear no shit, i have the perfect build, like abs good chest arms etc, been training for 4 years, im 19 and people always say im a good looking guy and girl mates of mine think im very cute and have a nice body.
another note i have socialising problems and i dont smile at all and look like a pissed of dude
but im just too shy to do something cause im starting to really fall for this girl

someone help please
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just look into her eyes when she looking at u and walk right by real close u dont even have to say anything she might say hey or she might say nothing but u got past stage one which is eye fucking that bitch till she cums her pants. and if your really can get past the shy turn ur head after when u are behind her (and she will problemly turn hers) and look at her quick that shows that u really are interested in her. u can do all this without saying a word. because of ur shyness

Anyway u better have a smile on your face the whole time otherwise it looks like u are grilling her and u dont want that
 
"I'm shy, so let's find a way other than me approaching her" will NEVER help you get over your shyness. Stop running away from it and start getting over it.

Bro, you're over complicating this (as men tend to do nowadays). She is giving you every possible signal in the book. All you have to do is....ready?....walk up and say "hi".

There it is, Jack's magic beans.
 
nab12 said:
Have you ever talked to her?

no havnt talked or said hi, but now im starting to pick my nuts cause i never had confidence next time i see her i will say hi but only if she gives me one more signal
 
7 weeks! Shit man, your time is running out. She is putting herself out there so she MUST be into you. Stop waiting and do what comes naturally. No macking needed, just be yourself.Initiate a little conversation, talk about working out or whatever ( small talk) then say let`s hang out, get together, go on a date or whatever.
 
nab12 said:
Whats the worse that can happen??

Pepper spraying his ass

Grow some balls already, 7 weeks and your still dicking around like a 12 year old, step up and talk to the girl
 
i know how this dude feels because im a shy fuck to. I bet he doesnt know what to say when talking to her and thats what makes u nervious cuz u dont want to look retarded shit happens to me alot, and actually girls like shy guys they think its really cute, Just say hey, she will say hey and hopefully she will lead the convo away, if not then say whats ur name? and she be like im ms.boobala and then say nice to meet u im mr.smallballs and then be like we should do something sometime and she will be like yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa, and u say just let me know when ur free and she be like tonite and you say okkkkkkkk and say something to do and ur good to go, usually u wont get that far because ms.boobala will be blabering on about shit and then u got a hole convo goin
 
lilj888 said:
i know how this dude feels because im a shy fuck to. I bet he doesnt know what to say when talking to her and thats what makes u nervious cuz u dont want to look retarded shit happens to me alot, and actually girls like shy guys they think its really cute, Just say hey, she will say hey and hopefully she will lead the convo away, if not then say whats ur name? and she be like im ms.boobala and then say nice to meet u im mr.smallballs and then be like we should do something sometime and she will be like yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa, and u say just let me know when ur free and she be like tonite and you say okkkkkkkk and say something to do and ur good to go, usually u wont get that far because ms.boobala will be blabering on about shit and then u got a hole convo goin


Oh please, the chick is already throwing signals she's ready to spread for gosh sakes...7 weeks time is running out better move or she'll find a new boy toy and he's SOL
 
and if its to hard to approach her, get a buddy that ur not shy around and have him come with u, ull feel less pressure and if the convo goes stale ur buddy can save u.
 
An evil grin and a nod will usually just make their panties fall off. But ultimately you have to quit being a little bitch and talk to her. Introducing yourself would be a good start and when she says, "I know who you are" (which she will say if she's interested because she's already asked around about you). You can follow by saying "what, have you been checking up on me?' This would be a good start. Flirty banter is ALWAYS a good start. Then if you can't finish that's on you - she can only tee it up for you so much, eventually you have to take a swing.
 
bluetwistedsteel67 said:
An evil grin and a nod will usually just make their panties fall off. But ultimately you have to quit being a little bitch and talk to her. Introducing yourself would be a good start and when she says, "I know who you are" (which she will say if she's interested because she's already asked around about you). You can follow by saying "what, have you been checking up on me?' This would be a good start. Flirty banter is ALWAYS a good start. Then if you can't finish that's on you - she can only tee it up for you so much, eventually you have to take a swing.
when you say that and evil grin or nod will make he panties fall off are you saying she will get excited more

cause i never gave an evil grin to her just had a neutral facial expression
 
goku_kakarot77 said:
when you say that and evil grin or nod will make he panties fall off are you saying she will get excited more

cause i never gave an evil grin to her just had a neutral facial expression
Just nod and smile bro - I'm telling you, that move has gotten me laid more than anything that came out of my mouth - except maybe my tongue.
 
man ill be lucky if i get her too im 19 and i can assure you she is like 24-28 years old, cause people when they see me they think im like 30 lol
 
BTW is it ok to be real cheeky to her when i appraoch her, like talk about the times she been looking and smiling and talk about the signals lol,
or will that put her off
 
no dont do that enless u can say it with cofidence, like ya so ive noticed u glancing at me a couple times, confidently and flirty at a good point in the convo, but i wouldnt recommend it
 
would you please just go up to her and introduce yourself!
Hi I'm Jimmy and ask her about her training or something like that after the small chit chat say I would really love to take you to dinner do you like italian?

Boom you got a date

Do this tonight, report back tomarrow!!!!!
 
drwost said:
would you please just go up to her and introduce yourself!
Hi I'm Jimmy and ask her about her training or something like that after the small chit chat say I would really love to take you to dinner do you like italian?

Boom you got a date

Do this tonight, report back tomarrow!!!!!
This is a decent approach if you're dealing with agirl that's older but isn't this girl in her early 20's? This girl is not going to want to hear, "I'd love to take you to dinner, do you like Italian". No way bro - he's better off going with a slightly alpha approach. Out to dinner is a waste of time. he's either got to get here outside doing something active or get her back to his house. You are right though, he needs to meet her first. lol. He can then throw out that he's going on this great hike on Saturday and ask if she wants to come. Dinner is boring and too serious. He needs to set himself apart without getting too creative. Fuck, I could teach a class on this stuff. Believe me, I've crashed and burned but I have found out what works and what doesn't. Girls/women like a combination of confident/interesting/daring and resposible. That's the magic combo - be those things and you'll do great.
 
bluetwisted...I hear everything your saying bro and I agree. What you read is the 42 yr old in me! I haven't been with a 20 something in like 15 yrs! But this guy just needs to do something, anything! Whip his dick out in the gym, singing telegrams something to make a connection. I like the hike, take her to a scenic place, whip out a bottle of wine with cheese and crackers...oops there is the 42 yr old talking.
 
waht shall i say first when i first appraoch her, cause she keeps on looking and smiling we can hold the staring at each other for a quite a while
 
bro if u guys are having staring contests u mine as well go over to her and say i win u blinked first. The signals are there fukn go for it before its to late.

Fukn walk up to her man say hey whats ur name? Im cornileous, ive noticed u around the gym. Compliment her or something. Say well it was nice finally talking to u, and if u can keep the convo goin then do, if u cant then say well ill see u around the gym. Then go about ur gym shit, then u see her at the gym again another day say hey how are u doin blah blah, what are u up to tonight? blah blah, u wanna do something tonight or tommorow? then ur good to go. I really wouldnt recommend the immediate date asking out when u first talk to her cuz thats to quick and it will be very awkward if u arnt one to start up a good convo and keep it goin. Just start talkn to her a bit in the gym and get comfortable with her before u ask her out on a date.
 
lilj888 said:
bro if u guys are having staring contests u mine as well go over to her and say i win u blinked first. The signals are there fukn go for it before its to late.

Fukn walk up to her man say hey whats ur name? Im cornileous, ive noticed u around the gym. Compliment her or something. Say well it was nice finally talking to u, and if u can keep the convo goin then do, if u cant then say well ill see u around the gym. Then go about ur gym shit, then u see her at the gym again another day say hey how are u doin blah blah, what are u up to tonight? blah blah, u wanna do something tonight or tommorow? then ur good to go. I really wouldnt recommend the immediate date asking out when u first talk to her cuz thats to quick and it will be very awkward if u arnt one to start up a good convo and keep it goin. Just start talkn to her a bit in the gym and get comfortable with her before u ask her out on a date.

the way i explainied it you guys might thin that i see her everyday i dont see her everyday most at about one to two times a week sometimes none, but nexttime it will happen
 
goku_kakarot77 said:
waht shall i say first when i first appraoch her, cause she keeps on looking and smiling we can hold the staring at each other for a quite a while
Bro, if she's smiling at you all the time just go over and ask her what she's smiling about - then, and this is key. when she get embarassed just smile and say something like, "don't worry about it, I usually smile when I see that you're in the gym too". The introduce yourself and (another important moment) tell her you need to finish up your workout but that hopefully you'll see her in there again soon. She'll think you're a cool guy and that you've noticed her (and are interested) AND that you're confident enough to approach her without being pushy. Then the chase is on - she'll want you bro.
 
goku_kakarot77 said:
the way i explainied it you guys might thin that i see her everyday i dont see her everyday most at about one to two times a week sometimes none, but nexttime it will happen


dont matter just keep building a relationship everytime u see her that u can take out of the gym u dont want to just do it all in one shot, its just weird. U only do it in one shot if u kno it was a one time thing that u saw her and u wont see her again enless u get her number. Or u are a mac daddy and can get a nice long convo goin and shit. but its hard when ur shy
 
lilj888 said:
dont matter just keep building a relationship everytime u see her that u can take out of the gym u dont want to just do it all in one shot, its just weird. U only do it in one shot if u kno it was a one time thing that u saw her and u wont see her again enless u get her number. Or u are a mac daddy and can get a nice long convo goin and shit. but its hard when ur shy

should i comment on her smile cause honestly her smile is so hot
 
ya if u got the guts

and do it at the end of the convo, like u say well ima go finish working out, and then say by the way u got a really nice smile. smile at her and just walk away, dont say anything else. thats the way to do it.

1 compliment is enough dont overdue
 
lilj888 said:
ya if u got the guts

and do it at the end of the convo, like u say well ima go finish working out, and then say by the way u got a really nice smile. smile at her and just walk away, dont say anything else. thats the way to do it.

1 compliment is enough dont overdue

i usually get the girl to take my number down after talking to her for the first time should i get her to take my number or not, or should i only do it if she really gets into the convo for the first time
 
good God, just ask her out to dinner already. How many damned hints would she have to give you? I would have already given up on your ass LONG ago if you couldn't take an obvious hint...lol.
 
dude if u can give her ur number then do it, its not a bad thing, it looks like u kno what ur doing stop asking questions and do it.
 
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