help!!!!!!... ladies apply too.

[swampmoose]

I'm in a sticky situation. I have been in a relationship for almost 2 years and all of a sudden I find this beautiful women I am with not very important to me anymore. I am in excellent with her whole family and the relationship is going good. I am 22 years old and I have never felt so good about myself. Its like all of a sudden i feel like there is something out there for me , but it doesn't include her. What the women are going to hate me for is that I still love her, but I don't know how to tell her that I want to separate. I keep procrastinating and pretending that I don't have these feelings. I want too leave her on good terms if it is possible, but i don't think my luck will keep me going for much longer. has anyone ever had these problems before??? please help with advice or opions or whatever, but this is serious so don't post shit....


thanks for advice

 

[needsize]

Careful before you go and make a huge decision like that, relationships go through phases and sometimes when things get boring, splitting seems like a good idea. But ask yourself is there anything another woman could offer you that this one can't? The grass is rarely greener on the other side...

 

[Sassy69]

All I can add is that at age 22 you are still finding yourself. You dont' want to end up at age 39 hating you and her for "locking you in and throwing away your youth".

Before you toss your relationship, explore what exactly it is that you think you are missing -- do you mean relationship-wise (e.g. another or other women) or yourself -- things that you want to experience & accomplish on your own?

 

[Puddles]

You say you don't find her important anymore, yet you love her. I don't understand.

Is it that you're just bored with her? If you're bored, then you have options, like spicing up your activities with her, trying new things you're interested in together, or seperately. Sometimes you can feel smothered and just need some alone time.

Good luck!

 

[swampmoose]

thanks all for your help.

i'm a libra and can never balance things out right or make up my mind. hopefully i will make the right decision