Help, going thru major anxiety

[skywalker66]

guys,

we all know how fucked up am i and all, but right now I'm having some serious problems.

Like you know how I could get obsessed about little stupid things and think about the all the time until my mind was lost from the rest of the world, and I was lost in a world of confusion not knowing any answers to my original questions, extreme anxiety attacks, and leaving myself with big headaches afterwards.

when i get into these anxiety attacks i cant think or do anything else at all. sometimes my life stops for like 3 hours while i think about something and i can never find answers or resolve what im thinking about. Actually usually I will, but it will happen much later on, and then a new problem comes up in my head.

For example, earlier it was my diet that I always thought about. I was constantly going back and forth between ideas, couldnt figure out what was wrong or right, and I'm very glad that I've finally settled on something.

Now my new issue is girls. I can't decide how I would go about dating them and in what situations and what not.

like i dont know if it would be my style to ask girls out that u see in public vs. whether I should just wait and just ask the girls out that are apart of my regular life.

i dont really know what the point of dating is anymore. some ppl do it to find someone they like, but it seems like others just do it for kicks, and im wondering if it would be worthwhile for me to do it for kicks, and if that is possible without having sexual stuff involved, etc, etc, etc,

as you can see im in a big fuckin mess.

 

[BO-CEPHUS]

Go see a damn doctor or something!

Do you really believe that us here at elitefitness chat board can solve your problems?

Get help fast

From your posts, I see a bullet and your head meeting in the near future.

 

[vinylgroover]

guys,

Now my new issue is girls. I can't decide how I would go about dating them and in what situations and what not.

like i dont know if it would be my style to ask girls out that u see in public vs. whether I should just wait and just ask the girls out that are apart of my regular life.

i dont really know what the point of dating is anymore. some ppl do it to find someone they like, but it seems like others just do it for kicks, and im wondering if it would be worthwhile for me to do it for kicks, and if that is possible without having sexual stuff involved, etc, etc, etc,

You new issue is girls? As i remember, every one of your posts under the name P60 was about girls.

The point of dating is to meet girls. Don't you like sex. I mean there is something to be said for holding hands and idle banter, but waxing one's lance is quite enjoyable as well.

Sexual stuff is good, trust me.

 

[skywalker66]

Go see a damn doctor or something!

Do you really believe that us here at elitefitness chat board can solve your problems?

Get help fast

From your posts, I see a bullet and your head meeting in the near future.

i cant get a visit with a doctor for a month,
because i'm moving off to college in a month, and i have to schedule appointments up there from now on.

and even if i wasnt moving, it would still take a damn month to get an appointment.

 

[BO-CEPHUS]

i cant get a visit with a doctor for a month,
because i'm moving off to college in a month, and i have to schedule appointments up there from now on.

and even if i wasnt moving, it would still take a damn month to get an appointment.

Thats a bullshit excuse. There is no reason you can search around for a doctor than can see you much sooner. It is possible.....trust me!

 

[creep]

Thats a bullshit excuse. There is no reason you can search around for a doctor than can see you much sooner. It is possible.....trust me!

I agree, just tell the receptionist what you posted here. I'm sure they'll give you an appointment ASAP or send someone to pick you up.

 

[skywalker66]

Re: Re: Help, going thru major anxiety

You new issue is girls? As i remember, every one of your posts under the name P60 was about girls.

The point of dating is to meet girls. Don't you like sex. I mean there is something to be said for holding hands and idle banter, but waxing one's lance is quite enjoyable as well.

Sexual stuff is good, trust me.

yea it feels good,

but i have morals. and i dont believe that people are supposed to be having sex with tons of ppl all the time,

infact i say save it for one person! i dont want to get side tracked into dating for sex, if im dating someone. and i dont like the idea of rushing other sexual stuff.


but like people are telling me that i should date girls anyway this summer, even though i only have 1 month before college starts, and im outta here.

i mean i thought the whole point of dating was to find someone to get involved in a good relationship with, right?
it sounds like some ppl will date, for reasons that relate to appearances only. and then they 'get to know the persons personality later' thru dating? wtf?

how the hell do you keep all of that straight? like how do you know who you are really interested if your dating 5 different girls that you all met at the beach,
and say there's this fine chick that goes to the same school as you, that you talk to everyday??

and how the heck do you decide how much time you should alot to dating? like how much is too little and how much is too much?

I know this one guy who basically isnt close friends with anyone at all, but he's also a player, who has a date literally every night of the week!

Everything is so dang confusing!!

 

[vinylgroover]

I can't believe i'm hearing this. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU.

Fuck, since when is a bit of shyness suddenly a mental disorder. Get off your PC and get out and start meeting or at least talking to women.

Get a grip on yourself. The 'problems' you're talking about such as diet, girls etc are so trivial that it's insulting to those out there who really have problems. There are people out there who don't know where their next meal is coming from or who have bombs landing within 5 metres of where they stand, and you say you need to go and see a doctor because you're anxious about diet and girls.

You need to get some perspective, and start thinking and doing more positively. LIFE IS GOOD.

 

[thermo]

I can't feel my face.

 

[BO-CEPHUS]

The first thing you need to do is stop asking all these question and thinking about this shit. You will fuck up every single time if you are thinking all these situations out and trying to figure the perfect way to go about this. Just be yourself and just let things happen the way they happen.

It will all workout in the end.....