help -_-

[damnit458]

Ok so this still seems really weird to me talking about this, but I dunno where else to turn heh. Ok so to start out im 18, and a virgin. Over the summer I was in bed with a girl for the first time in my life (ive fooled arround and done pretty much everything w/the exception of full out sex) and to my utter dismay I found myself unable to have an erection. Anyway to say the least I was dissapointed, and thoroughly confused. Ive recieved head before from previous g/f's with no problems, and I was/still am very confused as to why I could not get it up. I mean im 18, can easily hold an erection when masturbating, yet at the one moment i probably was looking forward to all summer (gotta love horny teens eh -_-) I couldnt even come through.

To make matter worse, Im now a freshman at college, and I cannot get over this one incident. It is fucking with my head very badly =-/. Ive literally found myself staying away from situations where sex is a strong possibility. I have put very little effort into hooking up with girls since ive been at college, yet ive still had three or four opportunites, all of which I have withheld myself from. The worst part is that Ive become really good friends with the girl that I was in bed with over the summer, and its painfully clear that she wants more to happen between us, yet ive shied away from it everytime Im hanging out with her. Anyway Im looking for any suggestions or anything, seeing as talking to a bunch of 18 year old guys (my friends) about this really isnt something I want to do......thanks for any help =-)

 

[dugie65]

cialis? from what i hear it works wonders, you can pick a lot of those kinds of drugs w/o a perscription. Also it might be just being straight out nervous... you dont know how she'll react, if you will perform good, etc. Just relax and take it slow, dont even worry about that kind of stuff. Also another suggestion: start working out. It could help bloodflow. GL man.

 

[DJ_UFO]

You don't need drugs at all for that. Probably you are 100% normal. Impotence drugs is for ABNORMAL people. Your problem I'm pretty sure has to be in your head. You are nervous. You are thinking in how to perfomr and what to do. When you loose virginity at an earlier age everything is like "playing" for both. That's why those problems doesn't show up. But once you are 18, you are already using your brain and you are not playing anymore...now you know that you are finally going to score and there's where the problems start. Be self-confident, relax, don't think about it. Concentrate in the female body. The same you imagine and think when you watch porn at home, do it with the girl in front of you. Relaxed. And again, be self-confident.

 

[hugenasser]

You don't need drugs at all for that. Probably you are 100% normal. Impotence drugs is for ABNORMAL people. Your problem I'm pretty sure has to be in your head. You are nervous. You are thinking in how to perfomr and what to do. When you loose virginity at an earlier age everything is like "playing" for both. That's why those problems doesn't show up. But once you are 18, you are already using your brain and you are not playing anymore...now you know that you are finally going to score and there's where the problems start. Be self-confident, relax, don't think about it. Concentrate in the female body. The same you imagine and think when you watch porn at home, do it with the girl in front of you. Relaxed. And again, be self-confident.

Right man !
Be self-cconfident.

 

[damnit458]

Right man !
Be self-cconfident.

yeah....im positive its all in my head, but =-/ its hard to just stop thinking lol. Ill be seeing the girl from the summer over the next few days, so who knows, ill see what happens. I find it interesting that 18 is considered late to be a virgin these days, which after being at college I agree with, although in HS Im fairly sure almost all of my friends didnt have sex until at least the summer after...

 

[damnit458]

cialis? from what i hear it works wonders, you can pick a lot of those kinds of drugs w/o a perscription. Also it might be just being straight out nervous... you dont know how she'll react, if you will perform good, etc. Just relax and take it slow, dont even worry about that kind of stuff. Also another suggestion: start working out. It could help bloodflow. GL man.

I do lift, and have since about the begining of Highschool. Thanks for the suggestion, but it will be a long time until I consider any drugs, especially sense I never had this problem before when I was just fooling arround...The whole self confidence issue has always been a big problem with me stemming back from when i was younger, and a lot, lot bigger. I lost a lot of weight over the first two years of Highschool, but never really got my self confidence back.

 

[LVTitan]

Right man !
Be self-cconfident.

i just got a stiffy looking at you avatar !!
could be all the test though....

 

[hamstershaver]

its possible you are geigh and dont realize it yet

 

[damnit458]

its possible you are geigh and dont realize it yet

ok
assuming you mean gay
Yeah im pretty damn sure im not. Feel free to convince me otherwise jk -_-
The topic actually came up when I was talking with that girl from the summer the other day, and she said that it had actually happened to her with 4 other guys, which confuses the hell out of me. I dont know one guy that doesnt think she's hot (shes a college cheerleader for gods sake) , but to be honest she doesnt do shit in bed...just kind of lays there. I dunno, not to easy to work with. I also found out she's a virgin...interesting! ha, took the nerves away to say the least.

 

[EnderJE]

I'm thinking "in the closet" too.

 

[damnit458]

I'm thinking "in the closet" too.

wow nice to get good support from you guys on here

 

[TruBalla4Real]

nah man ur straight... i had this problem before (just about every guy proilly has once in his life, honestly, over some kind of issue)... you just need to be comfortable and you'll start off slowly and then have absoltely no problem ever gettin it up.... it's hard cuz you know its all in your head but once it happens ur like WTF? just relax is all i can tell you, dont even think about it..... just make the motions and then put it in and wallah ur good p/o man (oh ya and if the girl ur gonna have sex with is on the pill that's a plus, condoms can really be a pain in the ass with thie problem)

 

[Pamela]

wow nice to get good support from you guys on here

Don't take offence in some of the comments.
Their just playing with you..

I think your nervous too, just like djufo said!!
I wouldn't worry about the sex thing. Just be with the girl and when the time is right it will happen.

Just for your info. It happened with a guy I was with (he was 35)!

Just relax.

 

[DJ_UFO]

LMFAO!! guys you are fuckers! lol...he's not gay. You like to shine your pipe at home watching girls on your pc right?