Hello All, little dispute with the wife maybe you can assist with.

[musclemom]

well thats a given...but Im really flipping out on this...I think whats shes suggesting is unreasonable.

I don't get this, why do the guys who marry the "Do You Wanna?" women want the other kind?! What the hell do you want, a strip tease and a lap dance?

My husband is this way, I've said to him "Well how the hell ELSE am I supposed to let you I'm in the mood?" He told me to grab his dick. Well jesus christ that just seems rude. Seems to me ASKING if he wants his dick grabbed is a little more civilized. I realize that most guys USUALLY want to but sometimes it can be a bit of an invasion of privacy (I don't just want him grabbing my crotch any old time, you see my point?)

 

[miplank]

I don't get this, why do the guys who marry the "Do You Wanna?" women want the other kind?! What the hell do you want, a strip tease and a lap dance?

My husband is this way, I've said to him "Well how the hell ELSE am I supposed to let you I'm in the mood?" He told me to grab his dick. Well jesus christ that just seems rude. Seems to me ASKING if he wants his dick grabbed is a little more civilized. I realize that most guys USUALLY want to but sometimes it can be a bit of an invasion of privacy (I don't just want him grabbing my crotch any old time, you see my point?)

Their isn't a single man in the world who would be mad or offended if his wife grabbed his cock to get things started.


Never happen!

 

[musclemom]

Their isn't a single man in the world who would be mad or offended if his wife grabbed his cock to get things started.


Never happen!

Mad or offended, No, not at all.

No, what happens with him is IF he doesn't happen to be in the mood (it happens, work stress is a big issue in our lives) then HE feels bad for not responding to me and I feel bad for having put him in the position where he feels bad for thinking he has made me feel rejected. Awkward all the way around. That's where I'm going with "Do you Wanna?" If he says yes THEN I'll grab his dick ...

 

[miplank]

Mad or offended, No, not at all.

No, what happens with him is IF he doesn't happen to be in the mood (it happens, work stress is a big issue in our lives) then HE feels bad for not responding to me and I feel bad for having put him in the position where he feels bad for thinking he has made me feel rejected. Awkward all the way around. That's where I'm going with "Do you Wanna?" If he says yes THEN I'll grab his dick ...

well...that sounds okay...



me personally...I could be pissed off at the world, and if my wife grabbed my dick i'd still be ready to go....but that's just me.

 

[needtogetaas]

Their isn't a single man in the world who would be mad or offended if his wife grabbed his cock to get things started.


Never happen!

amen to that bro.

 

[needtogetaas]

Mad or offended, No, not at all.

No, what happens with him is IF he doesn't happen to be in the mood (it happens, work stress is a big issue in our lives) then HE feels bad for not responding to me and I feel bad for having put him in the position where he feels bad for thinking he has made me feel rejected. Awkward all the way around. That's where I'm going with "Do you Wanna?" If he says yes THEN I'll grab his dick ...

hmmm good point.

 

[musclemom]

well...that sounds okay...



me personally...I could be pissed off at the world, and if my wife grabbed my dick i'd still be ready to go....but that's just me.

Yes, but you're 27. He's 54. Sex and stress takes different priorities in your life as a person mellows.

 

[BNG]

Sex is vigorous stress relief. I can forget all the shite for the whole time I'm engulfed.

 

[NEO1]

I call BS on the married/sex thing.

 

[miplank]

Yes, but you're 27. He's 54. Sex and stress takes different priorities in your life as a person mellows.

True...All this AAS doesn't help mellow my sex drive either