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Have you ever been with a woman who just can't....

Try communicating with her. I have found (through years of mistakes) that women generaly appreciate you just talking with them about it. Try to make it civil and caring. If it comes out sounding "dirty", she'll freeze up on you. I have found that my girl and I do better if we talk during sex. It took me a long time to get her to tell me what she needed because somehow she felt like she was being "sluty" if she asked for things. She is NOT the type to scream out "fuck me harder" in bed, but after some time she will instruct me a little on how to angle myself and what feels good. The other thing that works for us is I went out and bought her a vibrator. She LOVES it. It's very small. Don't go out and get some 12" monster cock with a gas engine! Start small and un-intimadating. Talk her into using it on herself while you watch, (this may take a while) and then slip her the cock while she does it. Things will turn out better as she gets used to it. Don't feel slighted if you are fucking her and she askes if she can use her vibrator while you do it.
 
Mako the Shark said:
cum thru intercourse? I mean, I am getting so frustrated here. I love this girl to death but damn I can't stand this...I have tried so many things and nothing works. The only thing that works is manual stimulation or oral sex. This shit has got me feeling like half a man. I'm contemplating spending my life with this girl, I love her to death and she loves me in return, maybe even more than I do, but DAMN, the sex is flat. I don't want to seem one dimensional here but this is messing with my head. Right now she's asleep cuz good old Mr. Cunning Linguist knocked her out and I'm so damn frustrated I just let her doze off and we didn't even finish.

SOMEBODY GIMME SOME ADVICE HERE!!!


It's not you. I am one of those women who can't cum from intercourse. I have yet to have a man, no matter how good he is, make me have a vaginal orgasm, I would love to have one. It is a lot more common then you think. Don't take it so personal.
 
Hope this helps!

You might want to try penetrating her less deeply. Most of the sensations are felt within the first couple of inches inside a woman and it's the head of your penis that will give her the most pleasure. Shallow penetration, even with some of the strokes coming completely out of her and then back in (several times in a row), may work wonders. You can wrap your hand around the base of your cock to help not penetrate her very deeply. Make sure she's nice and wet...use a good amount of lube if needed. The first time my husband did this I was amazed at how wonderful it felt!

Nipple stimulation may help too. Just taking a nipple between two fingers and rolling it around in the same rhythem as your penetrating strokes will be enjoyed. There's a definite connection between the nipples and the pussy.

Get her to help herself a little...have a bottle of lube within reach while you're fucking her and ask her to drizzle it on her fingers and rub it on her clit while you're fucking her...if you're already busy, she's got to do the application and once she realizes how good it feels, she probably won't want to stop rubbing herself. If she stops...just give a suggestive "Awww, don't stop, that must feel soooo good." Or, make it more of a favor to you like, "Don't stop, that's such a turn on for me."

Worst case scenario...you'll have to spend the rest of your life eating her pussy to get her off. Now, c'mon...that's not such a bad thing, is it? Fuck a little, lick and suck a little...it's ALL GOOD! :)
 
My girl is the same way. she started playing with vibrators at an early age. She only cums from deep pussy eating, but the sex or head afterwards is the best imaginable. Sometimes she wears a butterfly vibrator when I rail her tight little asshole. she cums so hard from double stimulation she cant get enough. The ass is forbidden territory without the buzer. If your girl falls asleep after you lick her into an orgasm then she probably faked it and didnt want to give you anything in return. If she didnt fake it then that one fucked up chic. Id send her packin, or start bangin her sister.
 
I only know 2 women who can cum thru intercourse alone. The others need manual or tongue stimulation. A couple can't come at all, no matter what. Too bad about that.
 
I can't cum thru just sex - I have the impression it's a rare thing.

I have to have some clit stimulation. It's hard for my man to rub my clit & fuck me - just a weird angle for his wrist. But it turns him on for me to be rubbing my own clit.

I have to admit I DID feel uncomfortable about it at first!!! It's almost like me saying to him that his cock isn't enough stimulation for me. Plus he's focused only on fucking & here I am rubbing. He just kept telling me, "Rub your clit" During sex & I got comfortable with it (yeah, guess I was a little misguided & repressed back then. Some lousy shithead boyfriends & awful lovers can do that).

I also MUST have lube on my fingers so those fingers can slide across just right! hmmmm

Wow, that 2.5 years ago was a looong time ago! It'll happen, keep trying. I was one who couldn't cum AT ALL before my man now.
 
Gladiola said:
I can't cum thru just sex - I have the impression it's a rare thing.

I have to have some clit stimulation. It's hard for my man to rub my clit & fuck me - just a weird angle for his wrist. But it turns him on for me to be rubbing my own clit.

I have to admit I DID feel uncomfortable about it at first!!! It's almost like me saying to him that his cock isn't enough stimulation for me. Plus he's focused only on fucking & here I am rubbing. He just kept telling me, "Rub your clit" During sex & I got comfortable with it (yeah, guess I was a little misguided & repressed back then. Some lousy shithead boyfriends & awful lovers can do that).

I also MUST have lube on my fingers so those fingers can slide across just right! hmmmm

Wow, that 2.5 years ago was a looong time ago! It'll happen, keep trying. I was one who couldn't cum AT ALL before my man now.

I don't even know why I bother replying to this. But. My girlfriend is precisely like you! Weird...
 
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