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Yeh !!!! Its just finding someone who will do it back....damn rubber doll just aint working out !!! J/k 
Honestly, yeh, actually just this past weekend ! I knew the girl before but this was our first date and that was on friday... well, so far weve spent everyday together and I still just cant get enough of her ! She is amazing ! I wish everyone could feel the way i do...
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Honestly, yeh, actually just this past weekend ! I knew the girl before but this was our first date and that was on friday... well, so far weve spent everyday together and I still just cant get enough of her ! She is amazing ! I wish everyone could feel the way i do...
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Frisky said:
Oh yes!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Make love day and night! The feeling is the best!... Ahh brings back some sexy memories! Makes you happy.. just can't get enough!!
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Dude, I'm there. This girl is off the charts. I was banging 3 girls in strict rotation when I started really dating her. Now I don't want to fuck anyone but her. Hell, I don't even want to jerk off much anymore. I don't know what happened to me!
We do it 3-4 times/day, every day we're with each other (4-5 days/wk). She doesn't know I'm on AAS but she's always commenting on my muscles and how horny I am. She can't get enough. We just came together last weekend. First time for me, it was incredible--the sex we have is beyond anything I've ever experienced.
We do it 3-4 times/day, every day we're with each other (4-5 days/wk). She doesn't know I'm on AAS but she's always commenting on my muscles and how horny I am. She can't get enough. We just came together last weekend. First time for me, it was incredible--the sex we have is beyond anything I've ever experienced.
and im glad your there too
Well, okay, but you have to be willing to give up financial security, your current lifestyle, ruin the lives of at least two other people and risk psychologically damaging your children for lifeFrisky said:
that is amazing MM, I want that same kind of relationship with my beau.
I'm exaggerating ... we never intended to fall in love, I've said it before, we were both married ... we hung out as couples and started being phone buddies. There were no taboos in our discussions since it wasn't supposed to BE that "kind" of a relationship, we ended up talking about EVERYTHING, every skeleton, every dirty secret we could never share with another person ... even stuff we'd told our spouses and they'd gone, "HOW COULD YOU?!?" To say that to another person and have them go, "That's IT? I can do you one better ..." We talked about stuff you'd wouldn't normally consider talking about with your boyfriend/girlfriend because it was like, there was no pressure. We weren't worried about screwing up our relationship because, we were just buddies, we were married to other people for heaven's sake. Boy did that backfire.
By the time our relationship had evolved to the physical plane we had become so close that there really aren't words to describe it.
As Gomez Addams once said (I'm paraphrasing): "I would kill for him, I would die for him ... "
"Either way, what bliss!"
Wulfie, honey, you need so much therapy you wouldn't just be a chapter in some psychiatrist's book, you'd BE the whole book. Someone hurt you real bad sugar and that's just wrongWulfgar said:
If I felt like barfing after sex I'll be damned if I could justfy doing the activity after a while. I mean, dude, they got this drug for alcoholics, called Antabuse, it makes you wanna puke when you take a drink, the purpose of the drug is to make the person STOP drinking.Generally speaking, after sex, I feel somewhat similar to what I do after a good workout, only much better
Sometimes my legs are kinda "wiggly" and I generally don't feel like moving for a while other than to cuddle ... hubby calls it "Purring."needtogetaas
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U think?musclemom said:Wulfie, honey, you need so much therapy you wouldn't just be a chapter in some psychiatrist's book, you'd BE the whole book. Someone hurt you real bad sugar and that's just wrong
Generally speaking, after sex, I feel somewhat similar to what I do after a good workout, only much better
Im waiting for others who have a similar experience to chime in.
I mean, just the smells and the sights and the thoughts and the slimyness....
Wulfgar said:U think?
Im waiting for others who have a similar experience to chime in.
I mean, just the smells and the sights and the thoughts and the slimyness....
Dear, I don't throw that term around lightly because I know there are plenty of people who are deeply, deeply insulted when you say it.
Think about it for a second, Wulf, sex serves two biological purposes, first and foremost it is for procreation of the species, secondly it bonds us to our mates. If the act of sex provoked negative physiological responses we wouldn't be around to talk about it now, our species would have died out from the get go. Fucking, screwing, humping, making love, call it what you will, sex is supposed to feel good while you're doing it and leave you feeling good, a pleasant afterglow let's say, when you're done. You're supposed to feel so good you wanna do it again, seriously.
I mean, I can vaguely relate to you in that I actually DO have a phobia, sort of, actually it's like an automatic "retch" reflex, it involves saliva (mucus in general, cum, boogers, okra) specifically seeing anything that has the consistency of saliva (I truly find spitting utterly revolting), but I'M not gagged out with sex, I enjoy giving and receiving oral sex and I love kissing my husband (as long as he's recently brushed his teeth) ... I mean, considering most of the fluids involved in sex have the consistency of saliva if anyone was going to be yarked out with sex and bodily fluids, it would be me.
And I really love the way my husband smells au natural, freshly showered or slightly sweaty, it makes no difference to me, I truly adore the way every part of his body smells.
I worry about you Wulf, I really do
and I'm sad for you.
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Frisky said:
hmmm...sounds familiar. Yup.
btw, congrats chicky!! I'm so happy to hear things are going so well with this one.......and it sounds like you didn't have to put this one on a gram of test a day to keep up with you, LOL!!
I wasnt trying to be insultive when I said "u think?" I mearly was rhetorically questioning if u really meant what you said. No offense.musclemom said:Dear, I don't throw that term around lightly because I know there are plenty of people who are deeply, deeply insulted when you say it.
Think about it for a second, Wulf, sex serves two biological purposes, first and foremost it is for procreation of the species, secondly it bonds us to our mates. If the act of sex provoked negative physiological responses we wouldn't be around to talk about it now, our species would have died out from the get go. Fucking, screwing, humping, making love, call it what you will, sex is supposed to feel good while you're doing it and leave you feeling good, a pleasant afterglow let's say, when you're done. You're supposed to feel so good you wanna do it again, seriously.
I mean, I can vaguely relate to you in that I actually DO have a phobia, sort of, actually it's like an automatic "retch" reflex, it involves saliva (mucus in general, cum, boogers, okra) specifically seeing anything that has the consistency of saliva (I truly find spitting utterly revolting), but I'M not gagged out with sex, I enjoy giving and receiving oral sex and I love kissing my husband (as long as he's recently brushed his teeth) ... I mean, considering most of the fluids involved in sex have the consistency of saliva if anyone was going to be yarked out with sex and bodily fluids, it would be me.
And I really love the way my husband smells au natural, freshly showered or slightly sweaty, it makes no difference to me, I truly adore the way every part of his body smells.
I worry about you Wulf, I really do
I can really see where you are coming from. I have a vague recollection of when I was a young teenager(11 or so) and I started having sex. I remember throughout my teenage years I was able to have sex several times in a row and really be able to control my nausea. Frankly, I controlled it so that I wouldnt offend the girls I was screwing. I still did and still do have the desire to have sex which is oddI suppose considering the after effects of retching and nausea. Anyhow, since I have gotten older Ive progressively grown less and less able to contain my
reflex. So sex becomes kind of a sprint for me. Can I get a nut before I vomit on this girl? you know? Ive learned that when I get a little more freaky(i.e. spankings, bondage, role-play, ect...) I can prolong the sex acts because its almost as if Im distracted by my other duties of being a Dom. Its the same if I am being videotaped or doing some thing that otherwise kind of "seperates" me from myself and puts me more in a role. Then I can get it on like Donkey Kong.
BTW my latest revulsion has been blood on my wang. even though its pretty common during sex I almost blacked out cause I got so light headed and nauseous last time it happened(2 days ago).
what do you think? I mean, ive had the nausea thing since I first became sexually active. True that I have been hurt and pretty emotionally scarred by girls in my life. But do you think it is soley from that? Or maybe this is not as uncommon as I think?
of course! thats the reason I do it. Honestly, the vast majority of the time I dont have sex for selfish reasons. I do it to make my partner happy and try to express my feelings physically. I have been in love only once. She crushed me pretty badly. but that was over a year ago.musclemom said:
I dont think its about love. I truly feel capable of loving. I really dont know what it is.
I feel like its a catch 22.
Hold on here ... you go away and send back the dude who likes to anally penetrate a woman, pull out then have her fellate you without washing up.Wulfgar said:
Because the guy who thinks sex is at it's best when it's dirty and degrading, who is trying to figure out whether he's gonna bust a nut or barf first ain't the same person as the one who just wrote this response.
HOW THE FUCK can you be wanting to make your partner happy if you think the most degrading act you can get her to perform is erotic?!
MM come on now hon. its NOT like I am FORCING these girls to do this.musclemom said:
They willingly enjoy it and get pleasure from it same as me.
Just because Ive done all kinds of kinky shit to these women doesnt mean it was ALL my idea. and even when they were the girls still loved it and told me after how awesome of a fuck it was and how they liked how absolutely dominant I was and the shit I made them do.
Several of the times that kind of stuff was talked about and planned in advance through dirty talk, emails, Txt messages ect.
I mean, Im in it for both of us. Im not a rapist. Ive been told by these girls that they would never do this shit with anyone else but I have some kind of "carnal attraction" that makes them really dig it.
whatver the hell that means.
Oh, Wulfie, no, no, no, no, I didn't think you were forcing them!!! But I just wonder about your choice to associate with them, because I can't believe you respect them!Wulfgar said:
I mean, this is a dog chasing it's tail sort of thing:
1) Either you are comfortable with Dom role, and that's where you want to be, and you like that and those are the kind of relationships you want to be in, or;
2) you're falling into that role because it's a comfort zone thing; or
3) You, consciously or not, choose to associate with these types of women, women that are only really good for degrading sex, not someone you'd want to have a lifelong committement to, and certainly not a woman you would want to marry.
And where does the nausea come in?
Look, I really hated my ex husband, but I wouldn't have wanted to shit on him no matter how much I hated him (shoot, yes, shit on, no. I would have loved to kill him, but I wouldn't have enjoyed degrading him).
I really love my current husband, I'd do anything for him ... but if he got it into his head to try some of the stuff you've discussed on BTS I'd turn around and go, uhh, NO. And I'd certainly never want to do that to HIM. We respect each other ... when you have a mutually respectful and loving relationship you don't want to see your s/o degraded or put down or demeaned. It's not a turn on, it's heartbreaking.
I admit, I don't understand or relate to the whole B/D/S/M set, that's not my bag ... but it sounds to me you're not all the way into that boat, either (hence, the nausea).
Something inherently is really upset in you ... because sex is supposed to be about love and emotional nurturing and intimacy and you're trying to come up with shenanegans to take your mind OFF the sex to calm your stomach.
It's true intimacy you have problems with, the staring deeply into someone eye's as you embrace their body and all that stuff.
Don't take it as criticism, Wulf, seriously, I like you. I'd love to see you fall in love with a nice woman and live happily ever after ... but you're not in any condition to be involved with a nice girl right now, dear.
i hope she doesn't freak out and get all jealous assuming that some other girl might be getting what she gets, when she is not around......i've juggled wimmens before. you might learn to trust him. as long as you can account for every single second of his time. and have it notorized....
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This turned into a Dr. Phil-oriented thread so fast... 
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Well, this is the typical feelings of an early relationship. As I matured and learned to think more with my head vs my penis/heart, I began to figure out that this is common in new relationships. And many people put the carriage before the horse. Hopefully that is not the case here - best of luck, fatty
KillahBee said:
Well... Im very VERY careful about letting my guard down. I tend to ruin most relationships (even in the past) due to not allowing someone in, not allowing communication etc. Believe it or not... I keep all my shit to myself and have a hard time talking face to face with some about any problems. My comfort level with C is so good, I feel I can tell him anything and everything. Thats not something I'm used to this early in a realtionship. Dunno why... and Im sure i'll get plenty of thoughts here. But eh... I put it out on the web, I should expect different opinions.
We have been together for quite few months now, spend lots of time together between training the horses and just hangin out. He's with me every night, and I still can't get enough of him. Amazing person all around....
And dammit... don't call me fattie.. LOL, I'll out lift you anyday.. name the place and the time. Its on fecker
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