I know that personally, I get really exicted when I go down on my wife. So I make sure that I get her a few times before we have intercourse because I know that most likely I am going to be a minuteman at that point. If I don't go down on her before, then I can last for a long time. Sometimes too long for her, so then I just drop for a while and then I am good to go. If we plan on a long session, then I will usually either have a few glasses of whiskey or some G beforehand and then I can go for days without having to worry about blowing my load too early. But in reality, its always the girl's fault. If yall weren't so hot and didn't smell so good, it wouldn't be a problem.