The hotness of the girl is exactly the problem... By the time the willy goes in the Port-a-willy, the guy is probably turned on beyon belief...
Guys have been trying to cope with this for the longest while:
- Wanking before a date
- pills, desensitizers, etc
- 2 condoms
- thinking about the boss, baseball, golf, etc.
I think you need to think about what you are doing!!! damn it, you are to enjoy it.
It takes a while to learn how to read your body and fight the urge to continue to do something that feels GOOD!!! but at the end, I found that is all a combination of changing pace and positions that does the trick of lasting a long while. NEVER do the same position for more than a few minutes or you just ruin the risk of blowing all over the place.
Besides, do you girls know HOW NICE you feel inside??? now YOU try and hold it!!!