Re: guys & gals: when/what made you deceide that it was ok to stop using condoms wit
As soon as you commit to being in a committed relationship together.
If you dont trust them enough to stick your dick in em without a condom, you shouldent be involved with them.
Personally, the girls I got involved with, I didnt give em the good stuff for a while even if they were begging for it until I was absolutely sure I wanted to be with them. Sometimes this took several months. During those periods I would get them off with a wet finger and let them jerk me off if they wanted.
This helped me also because I would sometimes get nervous the first time fucking. By the time we actually did it, I would be calm and relaxed because we had been fooling around for a while.
Once I dated this cute little lawyer, she wanted to fuck on the first date but she seemed like a real bitch. I turned her down, then again and again because I never saw signs that she was actually a good person. Finally, after months of driving her crazy, I dumped her, lol. Its too bad cause she had a lot going for her, but she was evil. My friends could not believe I wouldent fuck her. But the thing was, she didnt really like me that much, she just liked that I was tall ( 6'1" ), really fit, had a big cock, and made good money. Thats all she was looking for - didnt give a shit if we got along, which we didnt because she was a hardcore mean ass bitch to everyone in her life.