I've always had a longer soft dick, about 4.5". Doesn't get much smaller when cold like most guys, (makes me feel better in the showers)! Only gets a few inches longer when hard, never measured though. All gf's said it's longer than most, don't care if it's true or not. Ex was a sonographer and saw lots of dicks while at work. Said I had "the perfect penis", to quote her.